How to invite leaders to dinner?

Grasp the attitude of the boss asking you this question.

You invite your boss to dinner. The boss asked you who was there? First of all, this is the normal behavior of workplace entertainment. Don't think too much. Secondly, the boss has a tendency to attend, otherwise he will decline directly and won't ask you who attended. Thirdly, the boss should judge whether to go or not according to your answer and give you the answer directly.

Mature people in the workplace, for dinner, banquet and other entertainment, no longer pursue big talk and food, but pay more attention to who to eat with, what "game" (purpose), pay attention to safety and comfort, and don't want to cause trouble or make themselves unhappy.

Therefore, you should take the initiative to report before you treat. What's the purpose? Who was invited? Don't be blunt about the purpose of the invitation. You said I asked you to do something, and no boss wanted to participate. Regarding the inviter, it is necessary to avoid inappropriate people attending at the same time.

Don't wait for the boss to ask you, explain in advance when you treat. For example, boss, I was particularly grateful for your help last time. I just want to treat you to a light meal to express my gratitude. I don't weigh enough. I'm afraid I can't accompany you well. I am going to invite someone to accompany me. Do you think it's okay?

Etiquette for subordinates to invite superiors to dinner.

When subordinates invite their superiors to dinner, they will feel that "you have a purpose", which is not only to communicate feelings, but also to entrust them. As a boss, it is necessary for him to be cautious.

As a boss, there are five points to ask about your purpose and guests:

One is to see if there is anyone you don't want to see. We should not only avoid embarrassment, but also avoid unpleasant things such as conflicts caused by drinking too much. Do your homework well in advance and don't invite people who are usually contradictory at the same time. Or, you can ask the boss in advance and I'll invite you to dinner. Who do you think is more appropriate to invite?

The second is to see if there are any risk factors. If there are unfamiliar and unreliable people and the boss feels uncomfortable and unsafe, he will not participate. Therefore, if you really want to invite your boss to dinner, don't arrange people who are not familiar with your boss or have a bad reputation to attend. Otherwise, the boss feels insecure and won't participate.

The third is to see if there are peers and superiors involved. It is not a simple relationship for subordinates to ask "big coffee" to support their faces. This face can't be given to the boss. Of course, the boss is also willing to contact his superiors. Don't invite too many colleagues at the same time, or you won't highlight the status of the boss.

The fourth is to see if subordinates treat friends, so as not to "eat people and talk short." Don't think that you are "playing games" for your boss and inviting him to dinner. In fact, asking your friends for help will make your boss very unhappy. If you want to stand up for your friends, you might as well tell your boss in advance, "I have a little boy and have a very good relationship." He wants to know you. Please do something. Do you think you can give me a face? " The boss thinks it's ok and usually gives you this face.

The fifth is to judge whether the subordinates have "confessed" (sent Li). You want to take the opportunity of eating to express a little "heart" to your boss. You have to say, "I'll treat you alone this time, no outsiders, have a few drinks and report on your work." The boss will understand immediately that you want to "show off" by eating.

Courtesy between the three floors.

Between peers, inviting each other to dinner is generally to communicate feelings and promote cooperation. This kind of dinner must be invited as a "friend". When inviting, the tone should be relaxed and casual.

Remember three sentences: the first sentence is the purpose. I invited some friends to dinner, that's all, just to relax. The second sentence is personnel. I called one person after another, no strangers, just brothers drinking. People are divided into groups, who else do you want to invite, and respect the opinions of the invited people.

4. Etiquette for superiors to invite subordinates to dinner.

The superior invited the subordinate to dinner. What's the etiquette? I respect you. Generally, there are three situations: first, the superior also wants to deepen feelings with the subordinate, win people's hearts and consolidate relations. Second, superiors should arrange tasks for subordinates and encourage them with wine. Third, it's inconvenient for superiors to let subordinates do private affairs, but they are assigned to you by eating.

Five basic words for inviting the boss to dinner.

Inviting the boss to dinner is "technology". You must understand the boss's psychology and take "three steps":

The first sentence, the purpose of the treat. Mr. Wang, you always train and guide me. I especially want to thank you and invite you to dinner.

Second sentence, who are there? Mr. Wang, I can't drink enough. I'm afraid I can't accompany you well. I'm going to ask Zhang Wu to accompany me. what do you think? Who else do you think you need for company?

The third sentence, time, place, taste and other specific matters. Mr. Wang, I'd like to make it Friday, Saturday and Sunday evening. What day is convenient for you? Or when are you free? Which hotel do you like? I recommend this new hotel, which is said to be very distinctive, ok?

As a subordinate, it is very appropriate and polite for you to disclose the main information to your boss in advance according to this trilogy. Let the boss know, reduce the psychological burden and participate happily, so as to achieve the purpose of your treat. Finally, don't ask for help while drinking and eating, and then go to his office to talk about private affairs afterwards. Otherwise, it will make the boss feel stressed, unhappy and lose the meaning of inviting guests to dinner.