How to Turn Friends into Lovers?

Way of speaking: How to turn friends into lovers and friends of the opposite sex around you into lovers is undoubtedly testing your wisdom. However, if you want the other person to be your lover, you must bravely accept this challenge. For love, it is worthwhile to accept this challenge! As long as you can skillfully organize the language, give more hints to the other party, and the other party is willing to accept you, you will certainly succeed.

One sentence makes people laugh.

A writer fell in love with a friend of the opposite sex. He wants to confess to the other party, but he doesn't know if the other party wants to, and he is afraid that once he is rejected, his relationship will be affected and he can't even be a good friend.

One day, the writer called this friend to his studio and said to her, "I'm thinking about another novel."

Is this an interesting novel? She asked.

Yes, it's just that the ending of the novel has not been arranged yet. I can't grasp the psychological activities of a young girl. Now I have to ask you for help. Seeing this friend listening attentively, he continued: The hero of the novel is an artist, and he is no longer young. The friend recognized the writer's meaning, and she couldn't help interrupting him: Why do you torture your hero?

So you feel sorry for him? The writer asked.

I sympathize with him very much. He is kind-hearted and full of love. He still longs for love and happiness after suffering misfortune. The friend said excitedly.

In the author's words, the girl the hero meets is gentle, intelligent, kind and considerate, not a beauty, but also quite good. I like her very much. The writer paused and then said, but it is difficult to combine because they are very different in personality and age. Will young girls fall in love with artists? Is this a psychological distortion? I ask you to help me and listen to your opinion.

How is it impossible? If they are congenial, why can't she love artists? Are only looks and wealth worth loving? As long as she really loves him, she is a happy person and will never regret it. The friend said firmly.

Do you really believe that she will love him? And love of life? The screenwriter was very excited, but a little hesitant, and his voice trembled and asked.

The friend of the opposite sex was shocked and finally realized that they were not only talking about literature, but also conceiving a prelude to a love swan song. In fact, she has always admired and admired writers. She looked up at the writer's eyes and said, I will answer, I love you, and I will love you all my life.

The writer expressed his love in an implicit way and achieved very good results. The advantages of this method are: the message sent is vague, and if the other party agrees, that is the best ending; Even if you don't agree, it doesn't affect continuing to be friends.

It is worth noting that expressing love to friends of the opposite sex, although implicit, must be understood by the other party, otherwise it will be in vain. The well-known Liang Zhu is a typical example. Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo are good friends. When Zhu Yingtai came home, Liang Shanbo saw him off 18 mile and walked to the lake. Yingtai looked at the two ducks swimming in the water and said, Brother Liang, look how cute the ducks in the water are. You and I are like a pair of ducks swimming in the water, and we implicitly expressed our love with the help of the image of ducks in the water. Unfortunately, Liang Shanbo is a pimple. If Zhu Yingtai can put on women's clothes, or take the initiative to declare her female identity, the story may have a happy ending.

Jump in one word.

WU GANG and Qiao Yu are colleagues, and they get along well. On this day, Qiao Yu went to WU GANG's single dormitory to play. They are joking while watching TV.

Suddenly, WU GANG grabbed Qiao Yu's hand and said excitedly, Qiao Yu, you really touched me. Now let me kiss you!

Qiao Yu, who had never seen such a battle, blushed at once and pushed WU GANG's hand and said, We are just good friends. Would you please stop doing this?

WU GANG looked at Qiao Yu excitedly and said, "Qiao Yu, I just want to kiss you, and I won't do anything too much. Say, I want to hold Qiao Yu's hand.

Qiao Yu was angry. She kept a calm face and said rudely, WU GANG, behave yourself. If you do this again, we won't even be friends anymore!

Seeing that Qiao Yu was really angry, WU GANG drew back his hand and apologized to him: "Qiao Yu, I'm sorry, I was too impulsive just now. Love is not a simple game. It needs to be strengthened by words, inspired by actions, expressed by the heart and conveyed by the heart. No wonder WU GANG's bullying has aroused Qiao Yu's anger and disgust.

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If you have a wild dream about a friend of the opposite sex around you, you can make full use of the advantage of being close, choose the right time and express your love in a way that the other person can easily accept, so that you can enjoy the fruits of the first month. However, because two friends of the opposite sex are too familiar with each other and have a better understanding, it is better to take a more subtle approach. This way is characterized by expressing the feelings of love in a language that does not contain love. This way, the other party can get the information, but the information is vague, so once the other party refuses, it can't be collected. Even if it is rejected, it will not put both sides in an awkward position. And the implicit expression of love is also in line with the shyness of love and easy to master.

Quote Cai Kangyong's way of speaking.

1, you are not the Queen of England, so don't bother everyone when you leave. You are what you say.

3. Remain mysterious and give others room for imagination.

4. People with weak sense of existence don't need to talk often.

5, self-deprecating, is a confident person, can do it!

6, no education, and honest and dishonest, it is simply a code thing!

7. Leave meaningless victories to the other side, and those who know how to give up will talk.

8. The way to give others less trouble is to solve the trouble in your own hands.

9. Dating is dating, that is, making out. Eating, drinking and ordering are all good opportunities for flirting.

10, don't pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.

1 1. If you are not sure whether the other person can answer your question completely, then you'd better not ask.

12, what you are doing is interesting in itself, but silence is richer than chatter and more memorable.

13, many people have the habit of chattering. In this regard, just tell him three words, fuck off, or there will be endless trouble.

14. Sharp problems are inevitable in life. It is our nature to escape if we can. If we can't escape, let's deal with it.

15. If someone scolds you, you scold him. It's called a fight. When someone praises you, you should pay him back. It's called socializing.

16, the way to save others trouble is to solve the trouble in your own hands. Others don't exist to serve you.

17, talking is a matter of continuous improvement by yourself with snacks. And speaking well, the biggest gain, of course, is ourselves.

18, the purpose of criticism is to impress each other, let them realize their mistakes and get back on track, rather than belittle each other.

19, goo goo is like many of us. It is normal to observe without inferring. He went to Italy to play, so it's unreasonable to draw inferences.

20. However, if you can say such a thing, you still need to do some homework for yourself in advance and change Goofy's partner according to the target of the speech.

2 1, life is full of mines. If you haven't been bombed, it's only because you haven't stepped on it, not because there are no mines in your area.

22. The more you talk, the happier others will be, and the happier others will be, the more they will like you; The more people like you, the more help you get and the happier you will be.

23. When the other person brings up a topic that you don't want to pick up at all, don't rush to resist, but connect the topic that the other person is keen on lightly to a very life direction.

24. Look in your eyes and put it in your heart. Look at each other from time to time, observe a little, and let the opposite person fully feel her presence in your eyes. Let the other person feel valued.

25. Moderate provocation can definitely make the conversation warm. Because everyone wants their opinions to be taken seriously and discussed, instead of being nodded and perfunctory by an unprincipled person.

26. By studying and speaking, you will more fundamentally discover your relationship with others, what you are thinking with others, and most importantly, what kind of person you are.

27. People like their names very much. When others write to you and talk to you on the phone, if you mention your name from time to time, your concentration and recognition will be greatly improved.

28. Why didn't GuGu think it over before he spoke? Hmm. Maybe it's because it's troublesome to think of it, so don't think about it lightly. Unfortunately, she enjoyed these three seconds of relaxation, and the whole weekend was ruined.

29. All these noble people, such as God, King, Boss and President, don't talk to you and don't complain. On the contrary, only those who will complain to you will treat you as an equal and be willing to make friends with you.

30. If the topic is stuck, change the topic, don't fall in love with the stack, try to keep it and open another topic. I won't worry if I leave for a while, as long as I have the opportunity to come back. But for people who are naturally defensive or indifferent, they just need to say what they should say politely and then they can leave.

3 1, I won't deliberately make up such a compliment myself, but if I really hear it, even if it is a compliment, I will be happy to convey it. Because doing so will really make the listener happy, the atmosphere will be good, and it sounds much more credible than saying some empty compliments.

32. If you care about someone, you will talk to him and let him talk. I believe that speaking is a human instinct and a way of life that primitive people began to rely on. Primitive people always tell their friends that the flash in the sky sometimes makes trees burn. That kind of fruit will vomit when eaten. I saw it last time. This child is not mine. Throw him out of the cave and so on.

33. There is no need to worry about the depth of the problem. Everyone who speaks needs the encouragement of the obedient party to speak more freely. As long as your reaction is an encouragement, no matter how important and profound the other person is, he will be encouraged. Go ahead. Don't pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.

To tell the truth, if you are not the kind of person who always thinks that I am a normal person and the backbone of society, you will not take it for granted that you will always treat dropouts, addicts and vulnerable people with a contemptuous attitude full of superiority, nor will you be too rude to ask others some sharp questions directly, but will try to understand each other's situation through conversation.

No matter how much you want to get rid of that place, don't show cold eyes. Anyway, you should show your enthusiasm so that you can have a good talk with you in the future. Things change. Who knows what role this person will play in the next round of life? Even if you just want to get rid of him at the moment, you can still make fewer enemies. Because the enemy is the most horrible asset. The more you have, the faster you die.

36. It is difficult for one person to understand another's pain. If you can't understand, don't say so. Because when a client confides in you, she just needs you to listen. Maybe she really needs your advice, but she may not need another person to claim that others understand her pain. Her pain tortured her to death, and she wouldn't think it was irreplaceable. You can't comfort her by saying that.

37. When you disagree with the other person, if you don't insist on letting the other person admit defeat and admit his mistake like Gu Gu, an argumentative colleague. This is not helpful to the progress of things. You can keep the words, a gentle reminder. If the other person is not too stupid, you should recognize your position. On the other hand, when you meet a very strong person and have to force you to give up, if you admit that losing won't hurt you, I suggest you laugh it off and give that meaningless victory to the other side. This will show that you are very measured and the other party will be happy to cooperate with you further.

38. Little brother is used to listening to his uncle's inexplicable speech. Several times, he looked at my uncle's pain and couldn't remember his name, so he wanted to help him think about it. But nine times out of ten, he can't help, but only increases the pain of the other party. Later, little brother gradually didn't want to help more. In fact, this is when the speaker is most willing to be helped by others. At this time, if the younger brother can give his uncle a name and a title, he will be as comfortable as someone who helped him pull out a large piece of earwax. However, apart from such moments, at other times, the speaker doesn't like being helped.

Brief introduction of Cai Kangyong's speech style

Cai Kangyong's way of speaking is Cai Kangyong's first practical book. For many years, he tried to teach people to speak for the first time. At the beginning of this book, Kang made a great wish: this book will make you already very likable and will become more likable in the future. Cai Kangyong's Way of Speaking contains 40 wonderful essays, each of which makes the dialogue beautiful, and is accompanied by hilarious illustrations drawn by Xiong Bao, which is as sharp, playful and interesting as Cai Kangyong's hosting style.

"I don't care about the art of speaking, I care about the way of speaking. My way of speaking is to keep you in mind. Practicing oral English is the most cost-effective. Cai Kangyong's way of speaking determines who you are, because what you say; If you're right, host the life show!

Without sentence-by-sentence speaking skills, 40 short articles are delicious to make the dialogue delicious.

Guess a person's character from the environment

If I meet a person for the first time and there is a mirror on the wall of the dating place, I will try my best to let them sit in the mirror, so that I can see whether they are more interested in you or their own reflection in the mirror during the conversation with you.

IT men also know humor. See how they extend the funny atmosphere to love letters.

Yuan Yuan: Hello!

I don't know when you can read this letter. It seems that you surf the internet to see your mood completely, and there is no rule at all. My long-cherished wish to have a heart-to-heart talk with you on the Internet has never come true. Sometimes it is strange to think of you, because there is no trace of your existence around me except the email you wrote. When I read these emails, I tried to tell myself that these letters were written by myself and that you were just a girl I was pregnant with. I call you Yuanyuan to make you look young and beautiful. I got you a job in the information port because I can't bear to imagine you selling breakfast in a small restaurant on the street. Although I don't hate girls who sell breakfast in the street, I actually have a good impression on all the girls I don't know and know who don't hate, and I hope that one of these girls will like me one day. So in this drizzly afternoon, I wrote you such a letter. You may be imaginary.

I don't know if you really exist, but I have a picture of a purple girl. I don't know how, because when I found her, she was lying quietly in my mailbox. Since we don't know who this is, let's take it as yours. I don't want to comment on this photo, because I have made her wallpaper and key chain, facing her all day and taking her with me at any time. I don't have a wallet (because it's useless and I don't have a few dollars on me). I think if I did, I would put her in my wallet. Although I'm not sure if she is you or if you exist. But I took her with me.

Whenever I try to forget, there will always be some traces of you in my mailbox, either a short message or a card. It seems that an invisible hand is manipulating all this. When I was about to forget, he woke you up from my memory and proved to me that you really existed. But it still makes me suspicious, because I often think that I still have 50 yuan in my pocket, and no one I know has told me that he is getting married this month. But it always backfires. I don't have 50 yuan money in my pocket. At the end of the month, someone always tells me that he or someone is getting married. So I often hope that I don't really exist, that they don't really get married, and that my money doesn't really disappear. This is just a futile dream.

Today, I received another card from Yuanyuan, which said, Let's make an appointment to have a cup of coffee together. I don't care who I have coffee with or whether she exists. Even if she really doesn't exist, it is good to have coffee. Because I didn't really drink coffee, because in my memory, the closest thing to real coffee was a period of time in Beijing, when I was talking to two foreigners about the prospects of Chinese medicine websites and so on. There was a cup of coffee in front of each of us, which was dark and fragrant, but I didn't take a sip until I left. Maybe this is the closest to coffee in my life, but I missed it and couldn't taste it. Of course, this may also be my own fiction, because I have never seen those two foreigners since I left. Maybe they really don't exist. In that case, coffee won't really exist. Although you may not exist, I still hope to have a cup of coffee with you.

The rain outside has stopped, but there are still thick clouds in the sky. I hope the Mid-Autumn Festival won't be like this, otherwise many people will be sad because they can't enjoy the moon. The moon is full in the sky and the people on the ground are round. Isn't this the goal that many people pursue all their lives? Yuan Yuan, somehow, proved to me that you are real.

But although I'm not sure about many things, one thing I can be sure of is that I can't surf the Internet for a long time at night because the hard disk of my home machine is broken. Although I am very sad, I wrote an article to commemorate my hard disk to express my grief, but no matter what I do, it will never come back to life, so I can no longer surf the Internet at home.

Really, I really want to see you. If you are just my imaginary character, I think this love letter is harmless to you. But if you really exist, I hope you can read this love letter. The rain has stopped. I think I should leave before the next rain comes.

Way of speaking: Doing business requires honesty.

Way of speaking: Doing business requires honesty. As we all know, business needs to be smart, but smart is not the same as cheating. Looking through business history, I really survived; In the past, none of the time-honored merchants survived by cheating for a long time. What is certain is that they all emphasize L-integrity.

One sentence makes people laugh.

When Li Ka-shing first founded Changjiang Company, due to lack of funds and equipment, the production scale was seriously hindered. At this time, an unexpected opportunity came to him.

A European wholesaler saw the samples brought by the salesmen sent to Europe from Li Ka-shing and became interested in the plastic flowers of Changjiang Company. He immediately flew to Hong Kong and made a field trip to Changjiang Company.

While looking at the samples, the wholesaler praised Li Ka-shing: it is indeed better than Italian products. I have been to several places in Hong Kong, and I expect you to have complete styles, high quality and good quality.

Then, he asked to visit the factory of Changjiang Company. When he arrived at the factory, he was very surprised that such beautiful plastic flowers were produced in such a humble factory. Wholesalers are quick to talk, saying: We have long been optimistic about Hong Kong's plastic flowers, both in quality and variety, which are at the advanced level in the world, but the price is less than half that of European and American products. I'm determined to order plastic flowers from Hong Kong, and I hope to order them in large quantities. But I also see that your existing production scale can't meet the quantity I need at all. With all due respect, Mr Li, I know you have some financial problems. But your high-quality products really attract me, so we can do business first, but you must find a powerful company or individual to guarantee it.

However, after many hardships, Li Ka-shing still failed to find a suitable guarantor. Li Ka-shing decided to take one last chance.

This morning, it is already the day for European wholesalers to leave. Li Ka-shing hurried to his hotel and invited him to the coffee shop for morning tea.

Li Ka-shing silently took out nine samples from his bag and put them neatly in front of the wholesaler. Yesterday, he and the designer stayed up all night and rushed out these 9 samples overnight. He hopes to impress the wholesaler with samples and conclude the business. If not, give it to him as a souvenir and strive for the next cooperation.

Li Ka-shing nervously looked at each other's reaction. It can be seen that the wholesalers are very satisfied with these samples. After a short silence, the wholesaler spoke: Mr. Li, these nine samples are the best I have ever seen, and I can hardly find any faults. Mr. Li, we can talk about business.

According to the prior agreement, Li Ka-shing has no credit guarantee from any company or individual at this time. In desperation, Li Ka-shing can only tell each other: Thank you for your love for our samples. The energy and time that my designers and I have paid have not been in vain. I think you must know what I'm thinking. I really hope to do business with you, sir. However, I have to tell you frankly that I really can't find a reliable manufacturer to guarantee me. I'm very sorry!

The wholesaler looked at Li Ka-shing with bright eyes. He seems to have anticipated this long ago and didn't react much.

Perhaps, the wholesaler already has an order in mind, depending on the young man's next performance.

Therefore, Li Ka-shing continued with a confident and persistent tone: Please believe in my credibility and ability. I am a self-made small business owner, and I have a good reputation among my peers and related enterprises. I have developed to such a scale by my own efforts and the help of my colleagues and friends. Sir, you have inspected my production scale and workshop, so you probably won't doubt the management level and product quality of our company. Therefore, I sincerely hope that we can establish a cooperative partnership, which will be a long-term cooperative relationship.

Li Ka-shing's heartfelt words touched the wholesalers. He said: Teacher Li, the principle you follow is also the principle I follow. The purpose of my coming to Hong Kong this time is to find honest, reliable and mutually beneficial long-term partners. I know what you care about most is the guarantor. I'll tell you frankly that you don't have to worry about this anymore. I have found a guarantor for you.

Li Ka-shing paused, wondering what the wholesaler was saying. What is the reason for the other party to find a guarantor? The wholesaler smiled and said, this guarantor is you. Your sincerity and credit are the best guarantee.

Both of them were amused by this humor. Li Ka-shing's nervous mood was completely relaxed.

The two sides quickly signed the first purchase and sale contract. To Li Ka-shing's surprise, the wholesaler offered to pay the payment in one lump sum, which shows that he has full trust in Li Ka-shing's reputation and product quality.

Being a man needs honesty, and doing business should be based on honesty. Others will be willing to cooperate with you because of your sincere words and deeds, noble professional ethics and good reputation. Customers will be moved by your integrity and will be willing to come. Only in this way can you dig out all the money around you and have a long-term money path.

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Wang Dong is a salesman of a famous air-conditioning factory. For two months, he hasn't sold any goods, which is the first time in his sales career. He is also the last in the company's sales record. One day, he secretly vowed that he must sell an air conditioner today or resign.

In this mood, he knocked on the door of a family.

Hello, can I have a few minutes of your time? I'm an air conditioner salesman. The manufacturer held this activity, and the price reduction of air conditioners was as high as 200 10. If you are interested in buying air conditioners, this is a great opportunity.

The hostess showed interest and said, Really? I want to buy an air conditioner, but mine just broke down.

After some detailed introduction, the hostess still hesitated: Is this really the biggest discount? I heard that another brand of air conditioner is also engaged in activities. They are buying an air conditioner and giving away a microwave oven. Why don't you do this? I think I'd better buy that.

Dong Wang thought the hostess's words were a bit outrageous, so she wanted to make a joke, so she smiled and said, Well, if you buy our goods, we can give you a microwave oven!

When the hostess heard this, she believed it. She immediately called Wang Dong's factory and asked, If I buy an air conditioner in your company, can I get a microwave oven? Your salesman told me.

Wang Dong's factory denied it. As a result, it is conceivable that the hostess didn't buy an air conditioner.

Moreover, after Wang Dong returned to the company, the company leaders thought that Wang Dong's irresponsible commitment to customers was damaging the company's reputation and severely criticized Wang Dong. Since then, this incident has become a negative teaching material for the company to teach other employees.

It has become a habit for some people to write bad checks. Well said is another story. If you always write bad checks to customers, there will be no problem in this line and that line, and if you don't put them into practice, you will lose the trust of customers. Without the trust of customers, it is naturally impossible to do business.

A bad check is an integral part of personal credit. Once you write it, you can't cash it, which will inevitably reduce your credibility. Therefore, it is better to write less bad checks.

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Li Ka-shing once said: Without credibility, no matter how clever a businessman is, nothing can be achieved. Many people think that lying, boasting and other means are worth using in business, and even think that these are necessary. Therefore, the merchants cover up the shortcomings of the products, but speculate on the advantages. As everyone knows, this strategy of earning wealth by cheating will expose you sooner or later!

Honesty is a virtue, but some people often make irresponsible promises in business, but rarely keep them, leaving a bad impression on others.

Don't make promises easily in business. Once you make a promise, you must keep it. You should give the impression that you keep your promise, so that your products will be popular. If you say you want to do something, you must do it; If you can't do it, feel that it's not worth the candle, or don't want to do it, don't promise others. You can find all kinds of excuses to refuse, but never say: I'll try. If you say try and don't do it, then you give the impression that you tried and failed.

To tell the truth, you must keep your promise, which seems simple, but it is quite difficult to do. As long as you are slightly negligent, you may not be able to keep your promise. Sometimes you think that others may not need your services. If this idea of self-consolation is discovered by others, it will make others think that you are a lazy person. Moreover, you may be lucky enough to think that others can forgive yourself. Your laziness is obvious to people.

So, don't make promises easily. If you make a promise, you must keep it. If you can keep your promise at any time, customers will be moved by your attitude. They think you are a trustworthy person, so they will trust and rely on you, and you will be invincible in your work.

Whether in life or at work, the better your credit, the more successful your product promotion, the more customers you deal with and the better your promotion.