Do you have to reply to messages every second in love?

People who fall in love, especially those who are in love, may be more sensitive to the second message. If a message is sent and the other party fails to reply in time, he will think about it. Is TA busy with other things or not paying attention to herself at all? I always reply to TA's message in seconds. Why can't TA do it?

But is the second message really so important?

The second message may indicate that TA just happened to see this message, or that TA is really available.

Put yourself in the other's shoes, are you too busy, or did you not reply to the information in time when driving?

It certainly feels good to be able to reply to information within a few seconds, but it is a big mistake to judge whether the other party attaches importance to themselves by whether they can reply to information within a few seconds.

In a love relationship, one thing is "honey of A is arsenic of B", and that is: dependence.

At first, I felt it was good to have someone to rely on me, and I felt I was needed. It's like taking care of a child and a small pet. But the other person is an adult, and this dependence will become very subtle after the love period.

People who like to rely on it think it is "honey", and vice versa.

Looking forward to the other party's second message, in my opinion, is a sign of dependence.

Teacher Yunyun of our reading club has a happy married life and a husband who loves her very much-Mr. Li. Mr. Li said: Yun Yun can make money so well, of course you should love it! Although this is a half-joking remark, it also shows that Mr. Yunyun has a strong working ability.

Teacher Yunyun talked about her n ex-boyfriends. What she avoids most is "serial call man" Let's call him for short.

An incoming call is the kind of person who asks his girlfriend to return a message in seconds. Once Mr. Junyun doesn't reply within a few seconds, he will call. At that time, Mr. Yun Yun was on the rise in his career. As a training lecturer, it is common sense that he can't reply to messages or answer phone calls during lectures. Helpless, call doesn't understand. The most serious time was after class, when Yun Yun found that there were hundreds of missed calls, all of which were calls. After that, Mr. Yunjun broke up with him.

After experiencing this boyfriend who has a strong sense of dependence, Yun Yun learned from a bitter experience and decided to find a man who loves each other and can give each other space as a husband.

After unremitting efforts, she finally met her current husband.

Mr. Li said: Yun Yun is often very busy, and sometimes it takes a long time to reply by sending her messages. In fact, I didn't ask her to reply within a few seconds, because sending a message usually doesn't matter. If it is really urgent, I will call him, but she will tell me why she didn't reply in time. That's why I like her.

From Mr. and Mrs. Yun Yun, I saw two souls who loved each other and were independent of each other.

This is what adults like.

It's really not that important to return information every second.