Dating is like writing an essay

1. Composition: Falling in love with the same item, urgent

I have been looking for it for a long time, if you don’t give me a share, I will draw a circle and curse you, hum

Falling in love with books

Ah Si

My reading, like falling in love, can be divided into three stages.

The first stage is the period of passionate love. With admiration and admiration, you eagerly and cautiously touch the pages of ink. Every word is beautiful and every sentence is beautiful. It's exquisite. Every article is profound. I didn't think too much, I just gladly opened up my whole heart to accept and absorb it. I couldn't wait to hold on to the book 24 hours a day, and I wanted to let those words fill me up immediately and become a part of my life. This is really like the excitement of falling in love for the first time, but it comes earlier than love - from the beginning of literacy to the graduation of elementary school, every time I pick up a book, it is like starting a strange carnival.

The second stage is the running-in period. As I grow older and reach adolescence, my self-awareness suddenly awakens, and I no longer blindly believe in what is said in books. Sometimes I will have doubts, sometimes I will completely deny it, and sometimes I will even vehemently verbally criticize. The desire to express oneself prompts oneself to think more. These ideas may be naive and extreme, but in the long process of interaction with books, some wrong views will gradually change. Sometimes I insist on being right and abandon a certain type of books. Over time, reading preferences and reading patterns are formed. It's like calming down after being passionately in love, and starting to discover that the lover also has shortcomings of one kind or another, so he finds fault, quarrels, tries to change the other person, and finally gives up or changes himself to adapt.

The third stage is the dull period. Probably after I started writing, reading entered such a period. Reading the book at this time is similar to the story of the cook and the cow - after reading a few pages, I found that the structure is good and worth learning; after reading a few pages, I found that the clues were not laid out well enough and should be avoided. It is hard to read a book without stopping like this. It is difficult to have the hearty and engaging reading experience in my youth, and it is also rare to have overly excited emotions. I just silently accept and absorb what I like. Those who don't like it can be tolerated calmly, just like an old couple who has been together for many years.

Every couple misses the time of passionate love the most, and the same goes for reading. The happiest time is when you read as hungry as a blank sheet of paper. But people who are always in love are either nymphos or lunatics; scholars who always only know how to read and don’t know how to reflect and apply are destined to become nerds. Treat books as lovers, not only to fall in love with her passionately, but also to observe her soberly and wisely, and to understand her tolerantly and thoroughly. I secretly believe that this is the highest state of reading. 2. Requesting a 600-word love essay

When Xiao He and I were having dinner in the evening, I saw a couple of men and women passing by me downstairs, and suddenly I thought of an essay I wrote in high school.

Now I think about how innocent the high school class life was. Just one essay made a small splash in the class. That time I remember that the Chinese teacher gave us an essay topic and asked us to do it. Write an essay based on this topic, and the topic of the essay is "love"``` The living environment in which I live is very stressful in high school. Everyone is busy dealing with the college entrance examination, but they are afraid of being infected with AIDS when it comes to relationships. The Bola virus is also kept at a distance, not to mention that parents and teachers are unanimously opposed to students' love. All I know is that the head teacher invaded the students' privacy under various pretexts just after the semester started. The original reason was that he saw them passing notes and getting too close to each other.

None of the classmates resisted. We were in a small county, a small high school, and in a small class. The head teacher is the boss here.

No one wants to be the poor leader (because everyone knows that the head teacher is the most ferocious hunter).

During the search by the head teacher, no emotional objects fell into her hands. On the contrary, he accidentally dug out the sanitary napkins in some girls' schoolbags many times. "The topic has gone off the rails, let's go back to the composition.

The topic of the essay is "love", and the requirement is about personal views on love. At that time, I had already begun to have feelings for love, and I knew that many people around me were similar to love. Like me, we all want to try the taste of love, but like me, they all chose silence. ``` ``` After I got home that night, I lay on the table thinking about what to write. At that time, I didn’t like it yet. Girls, to put it bluntly, are just rookies. In addition to reading a few novels and movies, they have other experiences with love. But it was me, an ignorant student, who made the Chinese teacher treat me as a "problem student."

My face was pressed against the glass plate of the table, and my face was getting hot thinking about love. The coldness of the glass was just the "relief" for me. I thought about how I could write this essay so that the teacher would give me high marks. I finally concluded a few points: 1. Be contrary to everyone’s opinions.

I am sure that most people are cowards, and I don’t see anyone who would dare to blatantly say that they want to fall in love. So I chose not to be opposed to falling in love~~ In this way, I was one third of the way successful.

2. My Chinese teacher was already married and had children at that time, and must have been in love, so I couldn’t give her big principles while adhering to my views. Instead, I should support the popular opinion first. point of view, and then prove that their point of view is untenable, then I have half the chance of success. 3. One of the weaknesses of the Chinese people is to save face, and teachers are no exception. If you say to them in front of them: When you were young, weren't you as lustful as us? ! ~~~ Why do you want to prevent our freedom of love? ! ~~~Wait.

Saying this to them is tantamount to slapping them in the face, exposing their scars, and revealing their old records. Therefore, these are big taboos and should never be mentioned~~~ As long as you don’t mention them, you can guarantee an 80% success rate.

4. I would also like to add my point of view. The first three points are all my "painting the dragon", and my view on love is the "finishing point". After I organized my thoughts, I started writing.

After I had the idea and I had a certain knowledge of Chinese language, I quickly wrote the composition, and then made minor modifications before completing my "masterpiece". After I handed in my essay the next day, I was still quite nervous. I was afraid that my essay would attract the head teacher to search me.

This thought only lasted for 2 days. I found that the head teacher did not even look at me, a poor student sitting in the last row, as usual~~~ In this place in school, the level of academic performance, the college entrance examination The result is what the teacher is most concerned about. What quality education! Exam-taking quality is the most important! A week later, it was time for Chinese evening self-study again.

The Chinese teacher kept smiling at me after entering the classroom, which made me feel scared. The Chinese teacher said: "Only a few students wrote well today, and most of them were not good.

Moreover, the vast majority of students do not support love, and the other part support love. This There are many people on both sides who write too extreme things. ``` ``` "Xiao Xin" (my pseudonym) writes very well. Now I read all these articles to him. Let’s listen and let everyone see if there is anything you can learn from their compositions. Then the teacher also mentioned the taboos that the students made when writing this composition. They are roughly the same as what I thought. My composition avoids If I overcome these taboos, my score will already be high, and my point of view will also make my score higher. What I insist on is free thought. Now I still remember what I wrote at the end of my essay:.

3. Is there any relationship between writing and falling in love?

,,, He may give you inspiration,,

Make what you write more touching,,

Only articles that arouse *** can be read by more readers

In fact, what readers want to read most is just a matter of grasping this point. In fact, a good work depends on it. The part is the saddest part. It depends on how the author expresses the feelings in this part delicately. In fact, how a good work touches people depends on whether it fully expresses the feelings. It is helpful to fall in love when something happens, but The parting period is the most touching, but can you abandon the person you love for the sake of your work? Therefore, master-level writers are experienced people. You also have to take your time. 4. A 600-word essay on the pros and cons of falling in love

Things often have two sides, and sometimes we only see one side, or even go to the extreme. I think there are pros and cons to being in a relationship while in college.

College life is a beautiful period of life worth remembering. College students are basically young people between the ages of 17 and 25. They have all gone through the "purgatory" of high school. Many college students will be relieved to have just entered the wonderful university hall. They will make changes in their college life, and of course, this includes falling in love. In fact, it is not useless for college students to fall in love. First of all, I think falling in love among college students can increase a person's sense of responsibility. The right kind of love can make a person grow from immature to mature, thus enhancing his sense of responsibility to society. Since you love someone, you have to pay for the other person, be responsible for the other person, and make the other person happy. As long as the other person is happy, you will be happy. Maybe you have the habit of being lazy, and he or she doesn't like it, then you might change for the other person; maybe you have the habit of being lazy, and the other person doesn't like it, then you might change for the other person. .

Secondly, falling in love can make a person more ideal and ambitious. Ideals give love a profound social connotation and are the inner basis of love. Love is the blending of two people's emotions, the unity of loving each other and loving oneself. One party's expectations for character will affect the other party's expectations for character; one party's expectations for behavior The recognition of one party will affect the behavioral standards of the other party; the words of one party will affect the expression of the other party's voice. This mutual reflection of personality and mutual recognition of aspirations and interests form the common ideals of life for both parties, which invigorates the spirits of men and women in love, encourages each other, stimulates people's wisdom, and sublimates people's character.

As a form of interpersonal communication, love is bound to be bound by morality. A correct view of love can make college students respect the equality of personality more. To love the other person, you need to give the other person freedom and happiness, and respect the other person. Whether the other person accepts your love, rejects your love, or gives you love is the other person's freedom. In fact, there are many touching love stories on university campuses. According to the newspaper, a man and woman in a certain university were in love. The man unfortunately suffered from leukemia, but the girl did not walk away after knowing about it. She cared about and cared for her boyfriend even more, and ignored the public opinion and walked alone on the street. Begging money from passers-by to treat her boyfriend. It can be said that their love is positive, beautiful and touching.

Is it beneficial for college students to fall in love? Not really. College students are in the transition period from adolescence to adulthood. Their minds and bodies are not completely mature, and they are prone to impulse. Some students cannot accurately distinguish between friendship and love when interacting with the opposite sex, which can easily cause misunderstandings and cause trouble to both parties. Although college life is wonderful and we can relax appropriately, we should still focus on learning. You can't do two things at once. Since you are in love, it is very likely to affect your study. Some students mistakenly put love at the highest level in life, pursue love supremacy, and indulge in emotional entanglement, which affects their studies and thus their own future. A female student from a certain University A jumped into a lake and committed suicide because of emotional problems. This is a tragedy, which shows that the psychological quality of contemporary college students is still not high.

There are also some college students who think that falling in love is a fashion. They think that if they don’t fall in love in college, they will not be able to keep up with the times. The result is that they will chase and fall in love randomly regardless of whether they like it or not, whether they have a harmonious personality or not. They "don't care about eternity, only care about what they once had." They treat love as a child's play, which will hurt each other and themselves.

College students basically do not have the ability and channels to make money on their own, and they basically spend their parents’ money. During a relationship, it is inevitable that expenses will increase. Every Sunday, there will be a lot of "even numbers" on the university campus. They go to high-end restaurants and buy expensive things. They don’t know that they are squeezing their parents’ blood and sweat! Some college students actually use money as a criterion when choosing a lover. Real love is not based on money.

We cannot blindly agree with college students falling in love, nor can we arbitrarily oppose it. We must look at it with a correct attitude. To establish a correct view of love, college students must recognize both the positive impact of love and the negative impact of love.

For college students, if they meet love in college, they should take care of it with all their heart, cherish it doubly, have a correct view of love, and handle all kinds of relationships in love, so that they can have a happy life. Along with a bright future, you also have a pure, beautiful and sweet love. 5. Composition, "About Falling in Love" 800 words

Hold the hand of your son and grow old together with him.

True love is not for eternity, but for life! Books are our life-long companions. He is honest and knowledgeable. From time to time he would recite: "I would like to be a winged bird in heaven, and a connecting branch on earth." When parting, he also said: "If our love lasts forever, how can we do it?" "In the morning and evening." As for the breakup, it may never happen. Even if it happens, he will only be the one who is dumped: "I don't care if it lasts forever, I just hope I have it once." So he said. Well, don’t dump him easily. Do you remember what you once said? Hold your son's hand and grow old together.

I miss you every day and don’t see you.

Asking what love is in the world can directly teach you how to make love between life and death. Those with high scores are gangsters, scoundrels, and scoundrels! But there are so many infatuated women in the world who love and hate him intertwinedly. They can't stop lusting after him. They don't think about food and drink, and they can't sleep. They only see that "the clothes are getting wider and wider, but they don't regret it, and they are haggard because of Yi." A heart disease still needs a heart. Medicine doctor, this is lovesickness!

Fortune plays tricks on people, fate plays tricks on people! Infatuation, infatuation!

I tried to persuade them, but they still refused to listen, "It's not that I can't let go, it's that he can't forget it." Meeting each other has become a fantasy, so I have to sing in a low voice: "You live at the head of the Yangtze River, and I live at the end of the Yangtze River. If you don't see me when you are thinking of me, I will drink the water of the Yangtze River."

There must be a way for the car to reach the mountain.

Although it is said: “If you marry a chicken, follow the chicken; if you marry a dog, follow the dog.

"But don't really find a cat or dog to fall in love with! At least you have to find someone who owns a house! The books mentioned above are good. I heard that he has a golden house! You are still young and have learned the knowledge well. , then knowledge is the trump card, fall in love with the trump card, you can’t go wrong, you can’t go wrong!

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. We will talk about the future later. Our task now is: hold on to this golden house. Ha! 6. Composition with the theme of love

No one will wait for love for a lifetime.

No one will wait for love for a lifetime. Don’t regret it if you lose it...

If you meet your beloved in your life, you can be said to be lucky. No matter what the ending is, you can be said to be happy, right? It is good to grow old together, but if you break up or are sad for love, They are all very happy. After all, you have loved, you have shed tears for love, and have been heartbroken for love. It was once very romantic, and two people could go crazy under the winter wind and walk under the summer rain, even if the original lovers are no longer together. Isn't it also a very happy thing to be far away but the romantic plot of love is still buried in your heart?

I remember a book said that no matter how long a person has been with you, After a long journey, he will eventually be separated from you. After all, there are very few people who were born at the same time, and people who grow old together will not only have to leave in love but also in life and death. If you think about it this way , even if you break up, you will not be so sad, but will wish the other person happiness. If you meet each other one day, you will have a different feeling in your heart.

Many people in love will. Lost and unable to find themselves, some people cleverly hide themselves behind love, but they gain full of warmth and happiness. Some people are willing to sacrifice their lives for their lover, and they can give up the whole world for her, but there are still some. The days he spends with you last forever? The meaning of love is not to sacrifice one person for another, but for two people to work together and make each other happy.

Don't live for one person, go alone. It is very painful to bear the love between two people. Only two hearts can truly manage love, and that is true love. In the world of love, there is no real happiness, and there will be no eternal happiness. After all, everyone has happiness. Emotionally, there are always too many realities that make it impossible for you to ignore love. You and I are just people in this world, so how can we love and chase regardless of the eyes of others and friends, the mood of family and friends, and the feelings of others? ? Maybe you will be sad when he leaves, but it is better than losing your soul, because no one will stay with you forever...

If you really love someone, that person will. It appears in your heart when you want to forget it the most, and it will appear in your heart when you are the saddest and most lost, but you think about it again and again but can't decide whether to tell him how you feel now, how you feel now. Distressed, because you care about his feelings and thoughts, but sometimes the more you care, the easier it is to lose and get yourself hurt. Is this what love is? This kind of love is very painful. Just like me, love should not be like the dirt in your hands that will flow down easily the more you hold on to it, and in the end all that is left is very little dust. If love is like this, the more you love, the easier it is to lose, then do we need to keep a certain distance, a spiritual distance? But then, where will the intersection between us be? It would be a pity to miss those natural intersections. We are always waiting for those happy footprints. When you look back, they have disappeared. It turns out that happiness is ahead.

Don’t regret losing that relationship if you have given it yourself. No one only falls in love and doesn’t do other things in his life. Maybe he left you just when you turned around. Such a thing is impossible Avoidance happens every day. Don't believe those romance novels, because we live in reality, not fairy tales, and no one will wait for someone else forever. 7. An essay with the theme of "falling in love for the first time"

Love is so far away but within reach for a sixth grader. Why is it like this? I don't quite understand either.

I have never been in love. After hearing this, some people may say that I have never even tried to fall in love. How could I write this article about love? impossible! If this is the case, I will reach a peak even more so that you will not look down on me.

In fact, love is very simple. It may be just a face, a word, or even an action. If you really like someone, then you will like everything about him, and you will care about every move he makes. Others may think it is just a small gesture, but you think it is extremely warm.

When he is with others, just one word can make you jealous. When he is with other people of the opposite sex, you will find that your nose is sore and you feel like you want to cry; when you see him smiling at other people of the opposite sex, you will feel that the world is dark; when he tells you that he is just with other people of the opposite sex. A good friend will always think that the weather has improved; when you find him smiling at you, you feel like you are the happiest person in the world. You care so much about a small gesture of the person you like. This is what others see in their eyes and think in their hearts. People in love get carried away. Regardless of anyone's objections, regardless of the other person's family background, and regardless of the other person's motives. . Just love him, as long as you love him, then everything is enough. But people who are in love are also the happiest. Occasionally I quarrel and quarrel with him, but I am always immersed in joy. Just like our beautiful couple. The two of them obviously like each other, but they don't want to confess to each other because of their pride. The two of them kept quarreling and fighting. As the saying goes, the authorities are obsessed with it, and bystanders can all see that these two people like each other, but they still refuse to admit it. How could he, she, and I fall in love with that kind of person? There is a path to heaven and no door to hell! Just like this, the girl thought that he really didn't like her and already had someone she liked, so she told some people that she was leaving. The boy was very sad after hearing the news, but he did not dare to confess to her because of his self-confidence. On the day he left, the boy suddenly figured out that this was his last chance to try even if he didn't succeed. He finally arrived at the train station, but it was still a step too late. The girl had already left, and the girl's departure taught the boy not to hide what he likes, otherwise you will regret it. The boy is now very indifferent and refuses to speak to anyone of the opposite sex just to maintain his love for the girl. After that girl left, she missed that boy even more. She thought she was stupid and it was fine that he didn't like me! As long as I can look at him silently all the time, just as long as I can see her happy, as long as he has no regrets.

This article on Love Story is to let you cherish the people in front of you and don’t run away from pretending to be yourself, otherwise you will be very tired! Just like that girl, so tired