How to send messages after the first date should pay attention to these three points.

After the first date, if you have feelings for each other, you'd better send a message to say hello so that you can make an appointment again next time. How to send a message after the first date? Let's look at the skills of sending messages after a date.

First, if you have a good impression on each other, just send a text message and talk.

Girls generally don't take the initiative to send text messages. After all, they met on a blind date, but they haven't met yet. If you take care of her, take the initiative. If you send a text message to the woman or man for the first time after the blind date, and the other person doesn't reply to the text message or answer the phone for more than two consecutive times, then don't contact her again! This is a signal from the other party, and the other party doesn't like your tone very much.

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Second, don't rush to reveal your sense of purpose when sending information.

This is an important part of the lower limit of the other person's attitude and impression of you. If handled well, even if the other person is not satisfied with the experience of the first date, you can have a second chance to make up for it; If you don't handle it well, TA's attitude towards you will turn sharply, and you will lose hope for the future. Let's look at an example:

Although A's first date gave girls a bad feeling, after all, the chat on WeChat was quite enthusiastic, and B also had the experience of successfully dating girls for the first time. Their message to the girls later was roughly as follows:

? Honey, what are you doing?

? Want to hear your voice, or can't sleep?

? You must be good, okay?

? I will always accompany you and make you happy. ?

Third, the time to send messages should be appropriate.

It's best to send it five minutes after the other person comes home and talk about the mood of today's date. If the other party has any special performance, you can use words of thanks. For example, that time I asked a girl to dance. After I got home, I never forgot to send a text message saying: It is really a pleasure and an honor to dance with you today. Your dance is really great. You should be home safely by now. I hope you are equally happy. See you next time. Have a good dream at night. "Don't procrastinate about how she feels about you. Don't say too much, you can leave a clue and ask her out next time, leaving some mystery.

After the first date, both parties will get to know each other better. Whether they will develop a relationship or not, the text messages after the date need to be cautious. I hope the above skills are useful to everyone.