Every time my boyfriend scolds me, he comes to coax me. I don't know what that means.

There may be several reasons why your boyfriend will coax you after scolding you:

1. Mood fluctuation: It may be because of certain circumstances or mood fluctuation that he is dissatisfied with you or said something sad. However, later, he may realize that his emotions have been released, so he will come to coax you.

2. Express dissatisfaction: He may have some dissatisfaction with you and express it by scolding you. However, he may coax you because his feelings for you make him unwilling to see you get hurt, or he hopes to solve your problems by coaxing you.

3. Seek understanding: He may come to coax you after scolding you, because he wants you to understand his position or pressure. He may have some pressure or troubles that need to be released in this way.

In either case, your boyfriend still coaxes you after scolding you, probably to express his feelings and pressure in this way. You can try to communicate with him and understand his real thoughts and feelings, so that you can better understand each other and establish a healthier and more stable relationship. If this happens all the time, you may need to consider whether this behavior is acceptable and whether you need to make some changes to adapt to it.