My first boyfriend, 10, broke up with me and sent me a message asking how I was doing. I sent him several messages. Do you still need to tell my husband?

If it's 1, it's okay for your husband to say it generously, but he should also say it skillfully. Speak softly when chatting, showing no nostalgia at all.

If it's 2, it's nothing, but it's better not to mention it.

If 3, you really don't know, put yourself in your shoes. If it's your husband, it's very important to tell you whether you will feel better or not, and how to tell you will make you feel better instead of making the other person feel uncomfortable. I wish you happiness