I will defend my family to the death.

Wife responds to mistress: I will defend my family to the death.

Miss Chen:

Hello! When you see the subject of the email, I think you have guessed who I am. Yes, I'm your uncle Wang's wife, Aunt Ying.

From the moment our daughter found you in Weibo on June 10, our family has been in a tense atmosphere, which affected our daughter's final exam.

Your uncle Wang and I are the same age as your parents. 1988. If our first child can be born, it will be 22 years old like you. I know you've lost your mother since you were two years old. Your stepmother raised you. She gave up a woman's right to be a mother for you Do you know what this means to a woman? It means that she has been living in a tangle all her life, which means that she is missing as a woman forever.

You just turned 22 this year. Are you a teenager? This is when men and women dream. You are in love with Uncle Wang, but do you know? ! Uncle Wang, 47, has a family, a wife, a son and a mother. Our daughter is 14 years old this year. She was the apple of Uncle Wang's eye when he rebelled in adolescence. Your appearance has brought an irreversible influence on her. She will face the senior high school entrance examination next year. If this affects her future, I don't think your uncle Wang will forgive himself. Uncle Wang's mother has been in poor health. If the old man knows that such a good home of ours has been destroyed, can he bear all this? ! Have you ever thought that it would be too late for Uncle Wang to regret it?

Your uncle Wang and I met from 1988 and fell in love today. Our family didn't come easily. When I went to Shenzhen alone, I now have a warm home, which many people envy. Uncle Wang is very handsome, handsome and chic, and he has charmed many girls, including me. He chose me because we have an emotional foundation. I was just a little nurse in a hospital in Beijing, and I fell hopelessly in love with my uncle Wang, who was still a soldier's brother. We exchanged letters and ran several kilometers to make long-distance calls. We stepped on bicycles together and went to the cotton field to pick cotton peaches, all of which seemed to be in sight.

You are so young, you still have a long way to go. You will have a boy who loves you and loves you. You will love each other, have your own children and have a beautiful family. But that's not my husband, and that's not the father of my child. You must understand that.

Uncle Wang's actions are organized and watched. Since you like Uncle Wang, you should think of him. If you break up our family and affect our daughter's future, I think he will never forgive you, including my daughter, just as you failed to forgive your father. Your uncle Wang is my husband and my daughter's father. I will defend my family to the death, and I will not give up easily! !

Please take care of yourself and stay away from my husband. From now on, don't call him or send messages, because he is from our family.

Ying ayi

Comments:

Yesterday, after posting Xiao San's letter to his wife on his blog, some netizens responded to Xiao San by email, saying that they received a letter from Xiao San last year and quickly replied that Xiao San might be his daughter.

From her letter, I can easily see her kindness, which is different from yesterday's stiff "excuse" for Xiao San's words. Aunt Ying took this mistress as her own child and comforted her earnestly. Similarly, I don't know what happened at Aunt Ying's house, and I can't know what kind of mentality this little three, who is similar to her daughter's age, was when she received the letter. I hope to receive a response from Aunt Ying when she is young.

In real life, 99% of wives have a kind heart in the face of mistress, and they can also "love" mistress. They can understand "it is not easy to be a woman" from the perspective of junior three, and more often they will blame their husbands for doing things, so they will be tolerant of junior three. But can this kind of "understanding" really make Xiao San's conscience discover? I don't think so. At least in some of my cases, the vast majority of mistresses will regard this goodwill as a kind of "weakness" and "acquiescence". Maybe they are more tempted when writing letters to their wives, but when they know that their wives are so incompetent, they will become more presumptuous and rampant.

It was also yesterday that I received an email from Xiaosan. She asked me for help, hoping that I could help her "severely educate" the married bad guy and ask for the so-called loss of youth. After being rejected by me, she wrote back and said, "If the law can help us poor victims, do cheating men dare to be so presumptuous?" ! " .

Yes, if China's legal system is more perfect, the punishment for extramarital affairs is more severe, and "marital fault" and "bigamy crime" are more operable in practice, then there will be no extramarital affairs in our marriage, but will there be a market for such a mistress? ! Without the debauchery of cheating men, there would be no wildness of mistress!

Going back to yesterday's and today's letters, I also want to say that when a wife finds out that her husband is cheating, she can learn "* * *" and try to put herself in the other's shoes. When you feel hurt, it is very likely that he is also hurt. When the wife discovers the existence of Xiao San, especially when Xiao San jumps out to find his wife for the first time, she can also be given a chance to correct it and give her a period of time to come out.