The 29-year-old master student committed suicide for love and was called "waste" by netizens: you have never been poor, you don't understand.

Recently, a 29-year-old master student, Chen Luyang, made a hot search for the news of suicide, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens.

Chen Luyang is a poor student, and his family is under siege. He finished college with the support of caring people, and later admitted to graduate school, which has always been the pride of his family.

He just graduated recently, and before he could honor his parents and give back to the society, he finally jumped into the river and committed suicide because he couldn't stand being broken up by his girlfriend.

Just when his family was extremely sad, some netizens actually scolded him on the Internet, saying that he was not strong enough, not man enough and a waste.

Others say, can't he live without love? I have studied for so many years, and my heart is too fragile and my endurance is poor.

However, I can understand him very well. On the surface, he committed suicide for love, but in fact it was just a straw that crushed him to death. Who knows how much he has suffered these years?

Why can't a poor student stand the pain and hardship of getting up early and getting greedy for the dark for so many years, but can't stand the pain of being abandoned by his girlfriend?

If a person who has felt a lot of love and warmth since childhood, a person who regards himself as a treasure, will never give up his life easily.

Chen Luyang takes his life so lightly because he has never lived for himself. There are too many things in him, the hope of his parents and the whole family. ......

Although he finished graduate school and started working, he still couldn't live his life according to his own ideas.

What did family poverty bring to Chen Luyang? According to his family, Chen Luyang was sensitive and inferior since childhood, but at the same time he was stubborn and strong.

It can be seen from his diary before his death that his girlfriend went back to Shenzhen to study abroad, and the family conditions may not be particularly good, but they are better than him anyway.

Plus, he just graduated for a year, and his new work life is too busy. How does he help his girlfriend? I can only look after my girlfriend alone in Shenzhen, and nothing can help.

This is a kind of helplessness to reality. I thought that a good life would begin after studying hard and getting into a good university and finishing graduate school, but life is still as difficult as ever.

Some netizens said that it was unfilial for him to commit suicide, but did those who accused him know how he came over these years?

Although he has parents, he grew up with the support of others. His parents may love him very much, but unfortunately, because his family is poor, he can't give him anything at all, but he has to bear the responsibility of changing the fate of his family.

He has not lived for himself since he was a child, but for his parents and this family. Even after graduation, he still has to bear the burden expected by his parents.

Chen's 29 years are too tired and bitter!

Bai Bangni once sighed in A Wonderful Story: "My heart is full of bitter people. How much sweetness does it take to fill it? "

Xu replied: "I have a lot of bitterness in my heart, so I can fill it with a little sweetness."

For Chen Luyang, his girlfriend is the sweetness of his life.

Before meeting her, he lived a hard life, endured poverty and cynicism from others, studied hard and took exams; And after meeting her, there was a warm light in his world.

It is not so much that he can't bear the pain of breaking up with his girlfriend as that he can't accept that the only sweetness in life has disappeared like this.

So he wrote in his diary: "As long as you say a word, I will be resurrected ..."

Chen Luyang is also eager to be loved and cared for, but his parents can't give him this kind of love. He can only pretend to be a sensible little adult at home and resist everything without saying a word.

In front of his girlfriend, he finally became a child, and every sentence revealed his prayers to his girlfriend, praying that she would continue to love him, love him and care about him.

However, in the end, he still failed to do it.

Chen Luyang attaches great importance to feelings and righteousness, studies hard to live up to his parents' expectations, and sends messages modestly to make up with his girlfriend. But who cares if he is tired?

A child should be born to grow up happily, but he is forced to bear many things that adults can't bear.

I didn't mean to criticize his parents. I just want to say that if you haven't experienced the hardships of others, don't accuse others of being fragile. Chen Luyang has many things that his peers don't have. He lives too hard.

Some people think that it is good for children to be sensible as soon as possible, but what I feel is that it is really pitiful for a child to be forced to bear the bitterness of adult life.

If you can grow up mercilessly, who wants to share it with adults at such a young age?

If you have never experienced being looked down upon because of poverty and endured those supercilious eyes and ridicule, don't blame Chen Luyang for his poor psychological endurance.

Before working in a big company, the conditions of my peers were better than mine, and some people were many times better than me.

I was in charge of buying snacks from the company at that time, because the company had less and less money and more people. This is not enough for everyone to eat, let alone buy delicious snacks.

Once, I bought cheap snacks such as spicy strips and Mimi, but I didn't expect to be rejected by some girls in the company. They said sarcastically loudly:

I don't know how you feel when you hear these words At that time, there was really an anger in my heart that was about to erupt, but I finally held back. At that time, I felt more inferior inside. I hate that I don't have enough money, so I am looked down upon by them and deliberately embarrassed by them.

In this era of "laughing at poverty rather than prostitution", poverty is a crime for some people. Being poor makes them out of place. Since you can't enter their circle, you will inevitably crowd out and look down on them.

How ironic! Some people look down on you, belittle you, hate you, laugh at you, embarrass you, for nothing but that you are poorer than her.

Although I was born in a small town with general economic conditions, I am not as poor as Chen Luyang. But along the way, they all suffered different degrees of cold-eyed ridicule, blows and contempt, not to mention Chen Luyang.

No one knows what happened to him or what he suffered.

Mr. Lu Xun once wrote such a passage: "A man downstairs is dying, and the family next door is singing the phonograph. Children are being coaxed across the street, and two people upstairs are laughing wildly and playing cards. There is a woman crying for her dead mother on the boat by the river. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected. I just think they are noisy. "

Yes, people's sorrows and joys are not connected. We have not experienced the hardships and despair experienced by Chen Luyang, so don't criticize him for cowardice at will.

If he can live a little easier, if there are other benefits in life besides his girlfriend, maybe he won't commit suicide.