My ex-girlfriend texted me, and my wife was angry. That's what she said

Don't contact again, after all, you are married, and it is understandable that she can't let go, but any comfort and help you give will only get worse. Don't meet again, maybe she can't let go, and she is competitive in it. Anyway, don't do too much for this, don't contact again, tell her well. First, tell her that you once loved with all your heart, but that's all in the past. Whatever the reason, it doesn't matter. Now that you have your own home, you must treat your wife wholeheartedly, and you will never be able to do it. Secondly, tell her that you understand her sadness, but no one can help her except herself. Only time can help her. Whether it is hate or love, time will help her forget. Finally, tell her that it is wrong for both of them to break up, and it is not terrible to miss it. The important thing is that both of them can learn to grow up from this mistake in the future, and then learn to live a good life, treat the people around them well and cherish them. So I hope she will stop obsessing about the past, but accept the fact, let herself gain and grow in it, live a better life in the future, find a good person in the future and cherish that person.