The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world is all these five sentences.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world is all these five sentences.

1, my mother-in-law has no sense of boundaries.

Most mother-in-law confidently believes that she and her son are a family and her daughter-in-law is an outsider.

Many mother-in-law especially like to interfere in the internal affairs of her son's family. China's mother-in-law didn't realize that once your son got married, he and his wife were family, and you and your husband were strangers to their small family.

Each family has its own boundaries. If all the mothers-in-law understand the boundaries, the world will become a beautiful world.

Mother-in-law has always wanted to have her son, and she is reluctant to let go.

Some people say that the greatness of parents' love for their children lies in that almost all love in the world is aimed at aggregation, and only parents' love for their children is aimed at separation.

A mother should regard her son's life as a relay race. You should accompany him to finish the 1 race. When he meets the person he likes, you have to let go and watch him leave.

His wife will accompany him for the rest of his life. You have to run with her by force. You are the mistress between your son and daughter-in-law. Great maternal love is when your child comes of age, you quit gracefully.

Mother-in-law regards her son more important than her husband.

It is very dangerous for this value order to exist for a long time. The core of family relationship is husband-wife relationship, not parent-child relationship.

As long as the parent-child relationship is above the relationship between husband and wife, there will be various problems, and many problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are caused by this confusion.

The mother-in-law will put all her energy into her son. Once he finds a wife, she will be very frustrated and feel that her son has betrayed him. The son also feels that his mother has done a lot for himself and wants to return. If he is on his wife's side, he is sorry for his mother.

On the contrary, if the mother-in-law knows that her important person is her husband, and she has been accompanied by her husband all her life, then she will be very happy when her son gets married and will bless her son's daughter-in-law.

If a son knows that his father is the most important person to his mother, all he has to do is love his wife as much as his father loves his mother. This is a virtuous circle. Otherwise, it will be chaotic.

4, the mother-in-law has a serious double standard, especially distressed her son, but treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider.

In fact, this kind of mother-in-law didn't want to understand a problem. A son and a daughter-in-law are one. You are good to your daughter-in-law and good to your son. If the daughter-in-law is happy, the son will be happy.

Some mothers-in-law are psychologically unbalanced when they see that their sons are kind to their daughters-in-law, such as cooking and shopping for their daughters-in-law, and always feel that they have paid no return.

Actually, it's not. Raising children is a reward in itself.

Seeing his smile and accompanying them to grow up, how happy and fulfilled we are. Isn't this a reward?

The third person besides mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son, failed to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If every man is independent and strong enough to protect his woman and define the scope of rights for his mother, there will never be any conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.