Amazing text message on the thirteenth day of the first month

On the one hand, explain the situation to her with something (you can find someone who is familiar with you and her, so that she won't get angry easily, and then talk about it): "I wanted to give it to her when I got married", saying that I am not sensible, holding her higher, agreeing to marry and invite her to drink, and saying "Mom and her colleagues have been together for many years, so I forgive my shortcomings" and so on, sending invitations is.

On the other hand, at the wedding reception, do as you say, "pull a few more people on the wedding day, and if they come to make trouble, call them." If you do the above step, she will be invited, but there is no reason to make trouble at the wedding reception, so you won't be forced to be miserable.

In a word, I'd rather spend a little money than offend her as a villain.