Father's advice to his daughter

Don't care too much about people who are not good to you. In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your mother. As for those who are kind to you, you should not only cherish and be grateful, but also beware, because everyone does everything for a reason. He is nice to you, not really because he likes you. Please make it clear that don't treat each other as real friends too quickly.

1. Love absolutely exists. This truth can be proved in ten thousand sentences. But the simplest way is to take it as an axiom. Just like "the shortest straight line between two points" and "the circumference is 360 degrees", you must believe some axioms that don't need to be proved before you can deduce all the geometry from them. Love absolutely exists, that's all.

Dear daughter, you need love all your life. Looking for love, you will encounter a lot of confusion and setbacks, but at any time, you should remember this axiom of your father: love absolutely exists and no evidence is needed.

Love is not the whole of life. Love is the brightest part of life. To use a tacky metaphor, it is half a spoonful of salt on the table. Without salt, nothing tastes. After a long time, you will get sick.

But if there is no salt for a few days, the bleak days will have to be lived well. People are born, and they have picked up this living body for nothing, so they have many missions, such as reproducing offspring, repaying society through labor, inheriting civilization, helping people of the same kind and many other obligations. You can't just love selfishly, which is as ridiculous as eating salt every day.

It's better to be cheated by a clever man than surrounded by a stupid man.

Dear daughter, when God created mankind, it was unfair. Women's capital is beautiful, and men's talent is smart. How can you be with a stupid person? Shouldn't he praise your beauty in 24 different ways every day? He is sure to lie to you. I just hope I can cheat better, make you happy, cheat longer and act like inertia, and my life will pass.

Whether a man is handsome or not, the difference is only self-confidence. Dear daughter, when you are a teenager in Seeds of Love, you will definitely fall in love with the tall and white handsome guy who can play the piano or basketball. Alas, dad is completely unqualified. But interestingly, when my father was in his thirties, he suddenly felt very handsome! Start running in the morning, work more clearly, and read and write after going to bed at night. The world suddenly opened up.

I want to say that men should have confidence. He can be short, but he walks very high; You can have a single eyelid, but your eyes should have light; You can wear braces, but dare to laugh.

Self-confidence is a man's handsome and sexy.

The most important thing is not how much money you have, but that you will have more money tomorrow than today.

Never envy those who are born rich. The material world is endless. The most important thing is not to have anything, but to strive to improve, to make life full of hope and to make life upward every day. Dad won't ask your boyfriend to be rich, but he has to promise me that next year, next month and tomorrow will be a little more than now.

6. If you fall in love with someone, you should cherish it. But the best way to cherish is not indulgence but restraint. Dear daughter, at any time, if you love someone, even if it is the idiot, the person who is not confident and the person who is not motivated, you should cherish it. Love is a mysterious encounter and an irreversible fate.

Just my opinion, don't indulge in love. Just as all religions emphasize restraint, practice and sacrifice, we can achieve solemn beauty. You must not have understood this when you were young, but it is very important. Only by knowing how to cherish and know how to restrain can we reap more love.

Of all the constraints, the body is the most important. The body is not your own, it is given by God through the love of parents. Never despise it. You love yourself as you love your body.

7. Please remember that if a man is sorry for you, please break up with him resolutely. You should also remember, never lose your temper and break up gently. If you lose your temper, the reason why you break up will be based on disagreement. Breaking up gently is just a miss, but it is a regret in the world. Honey, give men more regrets. Regret has always been a beautiful scenery in men's hearts. Most men don't know how to cherish, believing that what they can't get is the most beautiful, and what they lose is always poetic. Letting him lose you is psychologically superior to losing him.

8. Don't try to conquer a man over 30 who has never been married and has no fixed girlfriend. This kind of man is either incompetent or incompetent, and most of them have mental illness in orientation. Dear, don't be an injured woman.

9. What two people have together is love, and what they create together is called happiness. The best way to see if a man loves you is to see if he has brought you into his world and life.

10. There is a word called myth in this world. If you want to know what a myth is, please listen to men expressing their love for you! There is another word in this world called legend. Want to know what a legend is? Please listen to the man's promise to you! All women in this world have dreams, and dreams are women's reactions when they come into contact with myths and legends.

1 1. As a woman, you should actually trust men. It's like wanting to believe that world peace will come, although you know, there is a constant world war now.

12. Every woman must be stupid at least once in her life. It is not a woman who is stupid twice or more, but a sow, who deserves to be cheated and dumped. If you are fooled, you'd better hold the mentality of "losing your virginity after drinking, don't take it seriously". In this way, although you can't have love, you can at least save face.

13. Don't give a man a chance who doesn't care about his feelings. Call your boyfriend (husband) and don't call him back, turn off his phone, etc. There is no need to call again, because it is really a bad thing to ruin other people's happy time. The key is to embarrass yourself.

14. Women should also learn to be patient and never let doubts fill them. Don't read a man's cell phone messages, don't check posts, don't chase him, don't let a man feel that you care about him, let him care about you and pay attention to you.

15. Never believe other people's gossip about your boyfriend (husband) unless you are caught red-handed. If we want to continue, please be consistent with the outside world, drive away foreign invaders, and finally solve internal contradictions. Wash your dirty linen in public, men want to save their only face. If you feel unbearable, just let it out and let this bad man know the tragic end of betraying a woman.

16. Know everything. Never try to surprise each other when you are on a business trip, don't make a surprise attack, and don't come back or visit each other without saying hello. I believe that all women don't want to see some scenes that make them regret for a lifetime.

17. Dear daughter, animals like people can easily mislead us. At first, you thought he was Prince Charming, but in the end you found that he was a toad with white eyes. But there are also excellent men in this world. He is gentle, kind, considerate, full of interest, very responsible, and it is best to have some property, but most importantly, he loves you! At this time, dear babies, remember to seize every opportunity and try to marry the person you love!

18. Only a strong woman can have a strong destiny!

19. Be honest with everything, including your own mistakes, and such a woman will eventually win attention!

20. Love is a matter of two people, and love is a matter of one person. If you are lovelorn, you can continue to love him until you fall in love with someone else. Actually, it's only been about a year.

2 1. There are many fish in the sea. This is not just a man's business!

22. You will never meet a few people you really like in your life. This retreat, maybe there will be no chance in my life. Happiness in the world ultimately belongs to those who take the initiative to attack!

23. In the face of love, a woman's shelf should not be too low. Sticking to a man who has rejected you will only increase his contempt for you.

24. In this life, people will encounter countless times of love, and choosing the one that suits them best from these countless times is the right way.

25. The first man teaches you romantic feelings, and the last man gives you eternal love. Daughter, the last man, not the first one, is the most precious.

Editor's note: No one is irreplaceable and nothing is necessary. See through this, when the people around you no longer want you in the future, they may lose everything they love most in the world, but also understand that this is not a big deal. These are 25 pieces of love advice from a father to his daughter. Very thoughtful and useful!