Mother is ill in hospital and doesn't reply to text messages.

He is in the most vulnerable mood now. If you still argue with him, he will think that you don't care about his feelings, don't care about his emotions, and don't take the initiative to comfort and understand him. You don't love him!

You can put it another way. If you two switch roles in this matter, think about it. If your relative is in hospital and he still quarrels with you all day, how will you feel inside?

Nobody wants to quarrel, but you must show that you don't want to quarrel. When two people are together, they must be patient with each other. If he says you are wrong, it is your fault. What can you do? You won't lose a piece of meat. He had an accident at home, so you should think more about him. Now is not the time for you to be a little princess!

Unless you want to give up, what I said before is bullshit!