Text Ren Yingying.

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Seventeenth plan (1)

Huang Rong and Ren Yingying have different courtship paths-women chasing men is also a technical job.

There is a saying in China: "Men chase women over mountains and mountains, and women chase men across heavy yarn." But the cruel truth is just the opposite. Men chasing women are called chasing, and women chasing men are called chasing backwards-it is embarrassing to turn the situation into a woman's control.

In fact, China society is still very traditional. Seven fairies chase Yong Dong, White Snake chases Xu Xian, Zhu Yingtai chases Liang Shanbo, and even foxes like to chase scholars who burn the midnight oil ... It can be said that it is not impossible to chase, just don't chase like men chase women. Don't forget that you are a gentle woman at any time. Frank confession and unquestionable love will only scare people away. It can be implied that you can refuse to meet, you can meet unexpectedly, your eyes can fly, your hair can fly ... In short, the highest state of chasing is that after you catch up with him, he still thinks that he is actively chasing you. "I was supposed to seduce you, but I ended up in your honey trap."

Zhang Xiaoxian once said, "Pursuing a woman is actually just telling this man with actions, please pursue me!"! It means open-frame, hanging fishing line, willing to take the bait, positive! " Just like orchids, they bloom beautifully, but they just give off fragrance and attract him to smell them, which is to "attract jade by throwing bricks."

The trick of "throwing bricks to attract jade" comes from "Passing the Lantern"-it is said that Chang Jian, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, once heard that Zhao Huan was going to visit Lingyan Temple in Suzhou. In order to invite Zhao Huan to write poems, Chang Jianxian wrote two sentences on the temple wall. After reading it, Zhao Huan immediately wrote two more sentences, which are better than the first two. Later, scholars called Chang Jian's practice "throwing bricks to attract jade".

This kind of plan is used in the military, which refers to the strategy of confusing and deceiving the enemy with similar things, making them ignorant and deceived, and then taking the opportunity to defeat the enemy.

"Brick" and "jade" are metaphors. "Brick" refers to small profits and is bait; "Jade" refers to the purpose of fighting, that is, victory. "attracting jade" is the purpose; "Brick throwing" is just a means to an end.

Jin Yong's martial arts novels advocate equality between men and women, and there are many examples of women chasing men. Let's compare Huang Rong and Ren Yingying, the different ways to get love from them, and the completely different final results, to see the application of this strategy in love.

Huang Rong and Ren Yingying have many similarities: both of them have excellent own conditions, outstanding martial arts appearance and extremely high Jianghu status. They belong to the "second generation of martial arts" who have a successful career, are versatile and have a high artistic accomplishment.

Ren Yingying appeared in the bamboo forest for the first time, giving people a feeling of being the first in the world. She is proficient in piano and flute, and can play the difficult the legendary swordsman.

Huang Rong is also a talented woman, known as "Female Zhuge". It is also extremely elegant to talk with Lu Chengfeng about poetry and painting, and to oppose the poetry written by people in Taihu Lake.

In these arty things, it is difficult to compare the two; But when it comes to the level of "catching up", the yellow ratio is high 17-8.

In love, they are really alike, that is, the people they love have childhood friends. Ling Huchong grew up with his younger brother Yue Lingshan, and Guo Jing and Hua Zheng also had an early marriage contract.

Two girls who play an important role in Wulin meet the right person and both want to pursue their own happiness, but the love fruits produced by different methods are quite different.

Guo Jing is naturally infatuated with Huang Rong. Ling Huchong, from beginning to end, he didn't love the last young lady, and all his love was given to Yue Lingshan, who was younger than him.

Love is complicated. This does not mean that Ren Yingying is better than Ling Huchong, so he will definitely fall in love with Ren Yingying.

It was not until later that Ling Huchong remembered that she could not marry Ren Yingying, saying that she would be a little scared when she thought of her. Real life is sweet and should be like when you were young.

The seventeenth plan (2)

Let's take a look at the love trajectory of these two couples, and we will know that Ziyi is right.

Ren Yingying's own conditions were first-class, so she had to catch up with Ling Huchong, which was obviously much lower than her at that time. It's true that girls love someone and pursue them actively. The problem is that Ren Yingying made a big taboo in love, which was too direct, and all of a sudden "bricks" and "jade" were thrown out.

In the seventeenth episode of the legendary swordsman, Ling Huchong and Ren Yingying fall off a cliff, and Ren Yingying confesses to Ling Huchong without reservation. Ling Huchong wanted to leave, and Ren Yingying said, "You can't leave". Ling Huchong asked why, and Ren Yingying generously expressed his love, saying that he would always accompany Ling Huchong and let him stay with him forever.

Is there such a woman chasing men? Ling Huchong always mistook Ren Yingying for an old woman. She has just learned that she is a young girl. Before she recovered, Ren Yingying eagerly showed her love. A little impatient.

In the face of Ren Yingying's bold confession, Ling Huchong thought, Ren Yingying is actually much younger and more beautiful than me and so kind to me, but all I can think about is youth.

What is the meaning behind this sentence? You are smart and beautiful, and you are infatuated with me. However, there is no way to think that I love you. I'm just stupid, and I like Younger who doesn't love me.

Ren Yingying's first step was wrong. She not only moved her heart first, but also exposed it. Since then, she has fallen behind in this love game.

The first meeting between Huang Rong and Guo Jing is very similar to the first meeting between Ren Yingying. Guo Jing mistakenly thought that Huang Rong was a poor little flower without food, and Huang Rong didn't wipe the dust off her face. "I am a woman, and I want to fall in love with you." . Don't be honest, Guo Jing. Even avant-garde men don't accept a nickname so easily.

Huang Rong is very clever. She won't come forward. She ordered a table full of dishes, such as "four dried fruits, four fresh fruits, four salty and sour fruits, four candied fruits", and twelve kinds of meals, which were so expensive and strange. Don't talk about Guo Jing, the restaurant owners were stunned by her. This recruit synthetic-aperture, let Guo Jing don't underestimate her.

Ren Yingying side just show love, Ling Huchong has been thinking about Yue Lingshan, hasn't been talking. Then, Ling Huchong was seriously injured and unconscious. Ren Yingying went to Shaolin Temple, his sworn enemy, behind Ling Huchong's back, saying that he would kill anyone and only ask Ling Huchong for help. You can even give him your life. It's really embarrassing to give your life to save your lover. But how can Ling Huchong repay this earth-shattering feeling after waking up? In Shaolin Temple, everyone has a date, and the outcome is decided by three games. If Ling Huchong wins, he can take Ren Yingying. If he loses, he will be put in Shaolin Temple.

How important is the game that decides Ren Yingying's life and death, but how did Ling Huchong do it? He fought with Master Yue Buqun, and Yue Buqun was no match for him. When Yue Buqun saw that he couldn't beat him, he had a bad idea. In his martial arts skills, he suggested that Ling Huchong agree to marry someone younger than him.

Ling Huchong, on the other hand, was "overjoyed and smiling" at once, and threw Ren Yingying to Java, where he played tricks in an illusory way, saying in his heart, "Although Yang Ge is good with Lin Pingzhi now, the marriage between men and women depends entirely on his parents' orders. "-think very carefully.

Then even the married life was considered: "It's really beautiful to get married early. At first, she must be unhappy. I followed him everywhere. After a long time, I will be moved by my sincerity and change my mind. "

Ling Huchong's thought of Ren Yingying is purely an "ungrateful" idea.

Finally, the hero in Jin Yong's works was kind enough to let Yue Buqun, a hypocrite, break his leg to help others and save Ling Huchong. Otherwise, Yue Buqun seduce him for a while, Ziyi really can't figure out what will happen.

Huang Rong didn't discover anything, but skillfully showed all his advantages in front of Guo Jing.

We know that Huang Rong's main advantages are intelligence, eloquence and extraordinary cooking. Meeting for the first time, Huang Rong has shown many of these advantages and said a lot at the dinner table. Guo Jing was fascinated by her talk and secretly marveled: "I only knew that he was a poor boy, but I didn't expect him to be so knowledgeable." Obviously, Huang Rong has attracted Guo Jing and won a staged victory.

After dinner, Huang Rong led Guo Jing to the most advanced local teahouse, ordered refined tea and fine Longjing, and enjoyed romantic tea in Guo Jing, showing his elegant side.

When they parted, Huang Rong played a trick of "asking for directions by throwing stones" and asked Guo Jing for his bloody BMW. She doesn't know her place in Guo Jing's heart. She thought that things were not developing so fast that Guo Jing would refuse. Unexpectedly, Guo Jing agreed. Now things are more than half successful.

In the following days, Huang Rong showed his clever advantages bit by bit. When the time was right, Huang Rong revealed his identity. Ha, Xiao Jiaohua became a beautiful girl, so they became lovers.

This is really the highest level of female courtship, and he captured each other. He doesn't know yet, and he is elated. By this time, everyone must have understood a lot of truth. That's the way things are in the world. The more you chase, the more men want to escape.

Girls don't have to say what they like about men, but they must be subtle. You can be gentle and considerate to him, but love is not for you to say.

A girl fell in love with a male colleague, and she took the initiative. A few months later, the male colleague has become accustomed to the apple she handed her every morning, to texting good night every day, and to telling her what she thinks.

Girls and other male colleagues confess, and sex comes naturally. But the relationship between the two seems to be stagnant, and no one will break this enough paper.

In fact, everyone can see their relationship. I just don't know if he is really stupid or playing dumb, but he won't take another step.

A close colleague asked her several times, "Aren't you in love with him?" She said, "What? We are just ordinary colleagues. We just hit it off. " "I don't know if I like him. I don't understand. "

Finally, the girl left without saying goodbye and took an annual leave to travel. The sudden disappearance of the girl left him at a loss. Everything he is used to is precious only when he suddenly loses it. Only then did he understand her importance to himself.

Watching him lose his mind every day, his colleagues joked. Since he is so worried, he doesn't confess quickly!

The girl appeared at work stupidly again, as if nothing had happened, and even brought him a small gift. The boy couldn't bear it any longer and confessed that night.

The girl also pretended to be surprised. "Well, I don't know if I like you!" "

But for boys, her reserve makes him cherish it even more.

Although we are very clear about our feelings and persistent about love, we should pay attention to our strategies in front of men. We just need to throw out the bricks, and don't bring out the jade at the same time.

Attract him to chase you and keep the privilege of being chased by men as a woman, and you can get real happiness.