"Son-in-law, if you want to marry my daughter, you need 300,000 bride price." How to treat "who wants to marry who"?

No matter how beautiful love is, when facing marriage, we should also bow to reality. No matter how enthusiastic you are when you are in love, when you are married, a series of questions will make you awake instantly. It turns out that love is nothing in front of reality.

Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. Many couples have gone through the sweetness of love, but they can't stand the test of marriage and family. Finally, they parted ways.

When you are in love, no matter how much two people trust each other and love each other. When you get married, it is inevitable that you will not be influenced by secular ideas. Maybe in love, many women have said that as long as they can be with this man, they don't care about anything.

When it comes to getting married, she really doesn't care if she has money or a bride price. Maybe some people really don't care, but not everyone doesn't care; Maybe a woman doesn't care, but her family is not so easy to talk to.

When I was young, I was forced to break up with my girlfriend who had been talking for five years because I couldn't get a high price bride price. Why do you say forced? Because my girlfriend really doesn't care about her conditions. However, it is very difficult for her parents to talk and can't come up with the corresponding amount of bride price. Their parents strongly disapprove of their marriage.

It is difficult for many ordinary people to take out a small amount of bride price, but it must reach the height required by the other party.

Nowadays, many marriages are ruined because of bride price. To be honest, this is really not a good phenomenon. Marriage is sacred and beautiful, and love is romantic and pure. But when it comes to bride price, marriage and love become insignificant.

Recently, my friend Gangzi also parted ways with his girlfriend of seven years because of the bride price. Gangzi had a crush on his girlfriend when he was in college. At that time, he was just a poor student and had no capital to pursue his girlfriend.

After work, when the conditions were a little better, he summoned up the courage to confess to his girlfriend. Lang sentient beings and concubines are interested, and the two naturally come together. This relationship really took a long time. Seven years have passed in an instant.

Gangzi knows that she should have given her girlfriend a home long ago. After the successful proposal, she began to plan her marriage. Needless to say, Gangzi knows that she has no capital, so she is not qualified to marry her.

He used his savings for many years and the support of his parents to buy a house and a car. After everything was ready, he discussed the details of the marriage with his girlfriend.

When it comes to marriage, both men and women have to go through their parents' opinions. Generally, a man has nothing to say about marrying a daughter-in-law, mainly the opinions of the woman's parents.

Mother-in-law Gangzi knew that after she bought a house and a car, she directly filtered out this piece. Next, I talked to him about the bride price. Just before, I told my girlfriend that I was not well off when I bought a house and a car, and the bride price might be less.

Girlfriend is the kind mentioned above. She doesn't care about her boyfriend's conditions. As long as she can be with him, she is not afraid of suffering. However, she doesn't care. Her parents must be very concerned.

However, in the current situation of Gangzi, parents who have a house and a car should not be too entangled in the bride price and will agree to their daughter's marriage. However, Gangzi's mother-in-law is the more difficult person to talk about. Gangzi said that she can only pay 80,000 bride price, and also reserved the cost of the wedding.

When her mother-in-law heard this amount, she sarcastically said, "Did you send a beggar?" Gangzi was very stiff in front of her mother-in-law, and was satirized by her mother-in-law, which made her a little disgusted. But for the sake of his girlfriend, he can't say anything.

When her mother-in-law reported her request for the amount of bride price, Gangzi felt powerless. My mother-in-law offered a bride price of 300,000 yuan, without bargaining.

At first, I couldn't get the money at all. At this time, my girlfriend has no right to speak. She tried to speak for him, but she couldn't speak. There is nothing she can do. All she can say is that she's going back to chip in and see how much she can earn.

Just after discussing with my parents, I began to borrow money from my relatives and friends, which is still more than 200 thousand. Who can cheer him up? In the end, I worked hard and only took hundreds of thousands.

When Gangzi gave the bride price money to her mother-in-law, she didn't expect her attitude to be very firm, and 300 thousand was not negotiable at all. He said arrogantly, "son-in-law, if you want to marry my daughter, you need to get 300 thousand bride price, otherwise everything is out of the question."

Facing the embarrassment of her mother-in-law, her girlfriend stood by without saying a word, and Gangzi was directly angry. "Whoever wants to marry, I don't have that much money anyway."

Gangzi took the bride price borrowed everywhere and returned it one by one. In the end, his relationship with his girlfriend ended here. Unexpectedly, after seven years of love, their love will eventually be defeated in the bride price.

Personally, I think Gangzi has reached the limit. With his conditions, buying a house and a car when getting married is also a guarantee for marriage. If the mother-in-law can lower the standard of bride price, Gangzi and his girlfriend will not break up.

I have to say that when getting married, in addition to feelings, mother-in-law and bride price are also very important in marriage. If you meet a reasonable mother-in-law, you may be able to marry the right woman without a bride price; If you meet an elder like Gangzi's mother-in-law, not only the amount of bride price is fixed, but also there is no room for negotiation, which is embarrassing.

Many men's marriages are lost in the bride price. If there is no sky-high bride price and more attention is paid to the quality of marriage, I believe that so many boyfriends and girlfriends will not be forced to break up when they get married.

Although the bride price is an essential etiquette when getting married, there is really no prescribed amount for this bride price. You can do it according to your personal family conditions.

The happiness of marriage lies not in the amount of bride price, but in the man's responsible attitude towards marriage. The friend in this article is obviously responsible for marriage. Houses and cars are all prepared before marriage, so that such a man will work hard for his life after marriage. If her mother-in-law can be more tolerant, her daughter's married life should not be bad.

As long as you have a good personality and a correct attitude, as for the bride price, you can be more tolerant of the man, which also reflects the generosity of your mother-in-law and will not ruin your daughter's happiness.