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Why did my ex-boyfriend say sorry to me?

This "sorry" is not so much an apology to you as an apology to himself. As Eason Chan's Guilty Heart said, I was young and frivolous, and I hurt others. In retrospect, I was full of guilt. In fact, whether this apology is for you or for others, he hopes to have an outlet to let himself go and make himself feel better. Because this sentence "I'm sorry" has already expressed my ignorance when I was young, whether the other party accepts it or not. You can get some sense of atonement in your later life.

Where does the guilt after breaking up come from?

First of all, two people can walk together, one is because the chemical reaction in your brain affects you, and the other is that everyone will be good to each other. I am willing to pick you up from work rain or shine, and I will try my best to take you to eat delicious food. But then the chemical reaction was in a mild state and the passion subsided. How many people can stay the same? At this time, you will choose to separate. No matter which side you break up with, some men will think that the girl left him, but they will never meet anyone better than him. Of course, this does not rule out their own imaginary part. There are also some men who have done things that hurt this girl because of their immaturity (in civilized terms, commonly known as love rat). After breaking up, they found that they had never met anyone better than this girl, and they also felt guilty. However, because of any kind of guilt, they all hope that their immature self can be redeemed and forgiven.

If you respond to this guilt,

How good it was at the beginning and how hurt it was after separation. It's not what you think, but it's true Now that we are separated, let's go home. There is not so much love and hate in the adult world, and nothing can't be let go. Every experience will make us grow, so it is better to face it and sum up our own shortcomings. Although this idea is very white, I feel that nothing is bound to die. Of course, if the other person has done something wrong to you, he should feel guilty and you can bear it. If not, it is definitely not a person's problem. Since both of them have problems in getting along, why not discuss it? After all, they are the most familiar strangers, and it is ok to know each other as a mirror. It is also a good experience to change what you have at that time and encourage what you don't have.

Did you get back together with your ex-boyfriend

Many people still have some mutual existence after breaking up. After all, after living together for so long and experiencing so many things, it is impossible to let go. Before, there were many cases where couples separated and reunited, but today I still want to talk about this issue from a long-term perspective. What do you mean, get back together? If two people are separated because of some minor contradictions, but they still have each other in their hearts, then at this time, we should sit down calmly with your respective problems, deal with them objectively, and find a way to solve them. So you can stick to it for a long time. If it's just a simple compound without dealing with the problem. Then there will be countless circuses that break up and get back together. Why bother? In another case, did you do something wrong to the other party and get back together? In fact, we should all understand that dogs can't change the truth of eating shit. Women must learn to love themselves, so that others will love us, and they must learn to love themselves, so that they will love others. So don't be naive.