Why are men so cruel when they break up? No phone calls, no text messages? Once he paid so much, why not give up?

Men chase women, men are full of enthusiasm, women don't care.

When men catch up with women, their enthusiasm is declining, while women are slowly paying attention.

Men break up mostly because two people are not passionate and tired.

He doesn't want to contact you, he just doesn't want you to keep pestering him. In fact, it is also the best answer, which is to let you give up and have no illusions about starting over. Maybe if I say this, some people will think that I am extreme and think too badly of men, but I am talking about the most common situation.

As for the rest, it may be that you are slowly losing your feelings, or that you have done something wrong to make him feel that it is unnecessary to stay with you.

Only he knows the real reason best, and what others say is never the best answer. But even if you ask him, I don't think this situation can be asked.

Listen to me, don't think about it, and don't dwell on it. It will be sad just to be apart, but it will fade after a long time.

There is no best way, you have to rely on yourself. Why embarrass yourself? I've been in this situation before, and I know how you feel now.