What should I do if I find my husband sending ambiguous messages with others? Is he having an affair?

Some things are better to know than not to know, that's what I mean. Even couples can't be too transparent. Give each other some privacy and freedom. . In this way, my heart will not be so irritable and tired. . . If you love him and your family, you should accept it with tolerance (even if it is true) and let your tolerance call back his (or possible) cheating heart. . . Sometimes quarreling will push him onto another person, which must be clear. In a world of two people, sometimes a woman has to be stupid. . . I hope you can understand. . . I wish you happiness forever! !