Why do many people confuse coming out banquet with returning banquet? What's the difference between them?

China people have always been famous for their hospitality, especially when there is a happy event at home, they always have a few glasses of wine to entertain their guests, especially when they are married. After the wedding, relatives and friends were invited to the banquet no less than three times. For example, when a woman gets married, it is called a banquet.

It is often heard that parents call their daughter's marriage the joy of going home. Yugui originated from the ancient book "Study in Qionglin". The second volume. Marriage ",and there are also records about Yugui in many ancient books. From the ancient explanation, "going home" means going home, and a woman who marries her husband's family is really going home. Going home also means that a woman marries her husband's family. In ancient times, when a woman got married, her parents would entertain guests, which was called farewell dinner for her daughter. In modern times, the banquet on the wedding day of the couple is called the Hostel Banquet, but Guangdong still follows the traditional ancient example.

Nowadays, many people confuse the wedding banquet with the Yugui banquet, thinking that they have the same meaning, but in fact they just have different views. In fact, the wedding banquet also means marriage, but the wedding banquet is a banquet hosted by the bride's family for her daughter's wedding, and it is the last dinner for her daughter. Generally, only female friends are invited to attend, and eight people, including married women, sit around and eat the banquet prepared by her family. After eating her daughter, she is going to marry her in-laws.

Nowadays, the meaning of a jade banquet is different from that of marriage. Fish banquet refers to a large-scale banquet that invites relatives and friends of the bride and groom to attend on the wedding day, usually at noon or evening. A wedding banquet is a dinner held at the bride's house the night before the wedding. Generally, only close relatives and girlfriends are invited, and the scale is relatively small, and the time is at night. In addition, except for the prospective groom, no one in the husband's family, including the groom's parents, is invited; The Yugui banquet not only invites relatives and friends of the groom, but also invites the bride's closest relatives. Nowadays, few people call it a jade banquet, but most people call it a wedding banquet.

This is the difference between a wedding banquet and a wedding banquet. In traditional wedding customs, besides the wedding banquet and the wedding banquet, there is also a return banquet, that is, the bride returns to her family with the groom for the first time after marriage. On this day, the groom will visit his parents-in-law, who will prepare a banquet for his son-in-law. Whether it is a homecoming banquet, a coming-out banquet or a homecoming banquet, it will be a part of Chinese wedding customs and traditions, and also a way to symbolize a better life.