Husband's mobile phone, do you want to see it?

Do you want to see it or not?

In the face of her husband's betrayal, a woman in marriage must first learn to be calm.

Here is a useful little method: emotional transfer.

When you encounter this matter, first control your attention to other places, to places that you will be interested in, and then immerse yourself in it.

Wait until everything in your mind about finding your husband out of the car cools down the part with a fever above you, and then rationally analyze and judge the content of her husband's affair.

First, the sense of security is not obtained by checking the mobile phone.

As long as you have the idea of checking the other person's mobile phone, then you must have signs of distrust. In fact, checking your mobile phone is a sign of unwillingness to communicate face to face. When people begin to doubt, they subconsciously choose: self-investigation instead of face-to-face communication.

Every action you see and every word you hear when you doubt will bring a strong sense of uneasiness to women.

However, the sense of security can not be brought by looking at a mobile phone, but comes from a man's true character and sense of responsibility.

Second, it is basic to give due trust.

When the couple were together, the wife left halfway and gave her mobile phone to her husband. I sent a text message during the period, and my husband checked it. Then the phone came. After the husband answers, explain the situation and let the other party contact later.

Then my wife came back, and my husband frankly asked her to help answer messages and phone calls.

Since we love each other, we should trust each other and give each other enough space, which is actually the ideal state in the relationship between the two sexes. Trust and retain each other.

Third, find problems and face them frankly.

Most men will not choose to show their mobile phones to their partners independently, or even ask for them on their own initiative. But that doesn't mean cheating or having ulterior secrets. Most of them are unwilling to face the aggressiveness and questioning of their wives after checking their mobile phones.

So what if you really find out that your husband is cheating? Most women find that the reaction of cheating behavior is emotional collapse, verbal attack and physical attack in behavior, and so on.

In this way, men will not go back to their parents' homes.

In the face of her husband's betrayal, we should learn to be calm.

There is a very useful little method here, which is emotional transfer. But when you encounter this, first control yourself to shift your attention to other places, to places that you will be interested in, and then immerse yourself in it. When all the fever parts related to your husband's affair have cooled down, rationally analyze and judge your husband's whole affair.

Whether you choose to forgive each other or not, you should live a good life and still have the ability to love others.

Fourth, honesty is always necessary in marriage.

It is easy to be honest with each other in marriage, but it is not easy to be honest all the time.

Mutual honesty and sincerity are important factors to determine whether this marriage can last. It is your choice, not a condition, not to look at the other person's mobile phone.

If you don't show your mobile phone, there must be something wrong, but it is definitely not the reason for our quarrel.

If I show you my mobile phone, it must be a security card.

Details can only be seen in small problems, and details will only be seen after a long time.

These details lead to many opinions between each other, and over time, great contradictions will arise.

In the end, it only takes one chance to detonate these contradictions, and this marriage can be burned.