What if my boyfriend doesn't return the message?

What if your boyfriend doesn't return your message? 1. Don't send him a message when he doesn't reply to your message. If he doesn't reply to you, the message you send is like a stone sinking into the sea. If the other party doesn't reply to you, it seems to ignore you. Then don't care about these things. Think about your business and do your business. What you want is to enhance your charm. For example, you can eat with friends, go shopping, watch movies and even travel, and adjust your mentality in different ways. A person who loves you can't bear not to contact you because he can't help but miss you. So if he doesn't answer you, you hang out with him and he will always take the initiative to find you. 2. Get angry with him "appropriately" and lose your temper. If your boyfriend loves you, he will be anxious when you are angry with him, especially when you are angry with him, and he will realize the seriousness of this matter. When you ignore him and don't take him seriously, talking and chatting with him are faint, giving him a feeling of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. When you just whisper this to men, men will think that you are a very easy-going woman and that you are simply too easy to deal with, so they will not reply to you. Sometimes if you give too much to look good, you need to give some color. 3. Divert your attention When you meet a boyfriend who doesn't return your messages, you should divert your attention, watch your favorite drama, brush your little brother on Tik Tok, chat with your girlfriends, and do these things that can make you happy. What people are most afraid of is walking into a dead end. When you decide something, you always think it is like that, and then you are in a bad mood. In fact, if you change your mood from another angle, you may get different results. Don't dwell on this, when you let go to divert your attention, he will naturally take the initiative to find you. Don't let the other person think you are cheap, reduce your sense of need and don't always post backwards. You can minimize the frequency of contact between you and the frequency of sending him messages. You should keep a good attitude and stick to this loneliness. Only in this way can you look for opportunities with peace of mind. Get ready for the next chat, or the next meeting, and don't let the other person think you are cheap and out of tune. If you are in his heart, he will definitely reply to you as soon as he sees the news. If he doesn't reply to you, you should think that he is busy, not fooling around. What if my boyfriend ignores me? 1. Think calmly and find the key to the problem. Women are often more serious when quarreling, so they will say something very hurtful. Few women can control their emotions. Usually these offensive words will make men angry, and sometimes they will quarrel. Men only want to win or lose with women, and eventually they will give way to women. But men who are stimulated will be really angry. Once a man is angry, it is more difficult to persuade than a woman. Therefore, women must think calmly and think clearly about what this quarrel is for. Is it because a woman's words or actions hurt a man? Women must reflect on themselves, so as to avoid the next quarrel. A woman's calm thinking at this time can also make her think clearly whether this relationship is necessary to continue. If it is only the fault of the man, the woman may be able to let go appropriately. 2. If it is your own fault, take the initiative to apologize, but if this quarrel, it is the woman's fault. Then women should learn to apologize actively. It is not difficult to apologize, it depends on whether you are willing to bow your head and admit your mistake. Men are sometimes very stingy, and this kind of apology is not something that women can casually perfunctory, so be sure to let men feel your sincere apology. Only in this way can a man change his mind and stop being angry with you. Smart women may bow their heads at the right time, which is not to hurt their self-esteem, because we should learn to respect others while respecting ourselves. A really wise woman will know how to distinguish between situations. Don't save your face when you need to apologize. Don't hurt people who really care about you for your self-esteem. If this man is the one you are destined for, then you will miss him. 3, learn to communicate, can not continue the cold war. When your boyfriend chooses to ignore you, he is implying that he wants to have a cold war with you. But the cold war is often more terrible than quarreling. Many couples haven't contacted each other since the cold war, and naturally break up. In fact, we met again many years later, only to find that it was just a misunderstanding. Therefore, a woman must take the initiative to communicate with a man, understand his mood and find out the reason why he is angry. There is always a reason. If you don't ask, you'll never know why he ignored you. But if you take the initiative to communicate, maybe the man will be soft-hearted and you two will bury the hatchet. If two people can communicate effectively all the time, it is to solve the quarrel head-on. When you all know each other, you may never even quarrel. Emotion is not a child's play. Smart women know this, so smart women may be willing to lower their posture and find the key to the problem. If this man is really important to you, then he is worth it. If you don't want to make peace, you don't really like him, so there is no need to continue this relationship. How to deal with the man who can't answer the news 1, and solve the embarrassment with wit. Now some girls are still relatively strong in emotional matters. When you meet a boy you like, you are often more active and like to take the initiative to find a boy, but you often run into a wall. They don't quite understand what boys say, and sometimes the chat atmosphere between them becomes awkward. Now boys are very interested in interesting girls, which is their "dead hole". For interesting people, they want to get to know each other better. This is the time to test girls' wit. For example, boys euphemistically say that it is impossible between you, and girls can say that they are not disgusted with boys in the tone of excellent people, which will ease the atmosphere and make boys change their views on you. 2, men who want to play hard to get, some girls will pursue boys at first, always send a lot of information to boys, which will make many boys feel that this girl is not too reserved, does not have that euphemistic feeling, and does not love herself at all. So many girls are defeated at this point, but at this time, as long as girls have a little change in A Zi, boys will feel the gap in their hearts and will take the initiative to come to you. If a girl often sends out invitations like a boy, then if a girl suddenly stops asking him out, the boy may not respond once or twice, but after a week or two, the boy will start to doubt the girl and always wonder why the girl hasn't asked her out, so the boy will take the initiative to find the girl himself. Therefore, men still have a "dead hole", which is curiosity. As long as girls play hard to get, they will take the initiative. What if boys don't return your messages? 1. I don't like you. There is nothing to say, but you are not attractive to him and don't want to spend time chatting with you. So if so, you can feel it not only in chatting, but also in other ways. Second, the style is like this. Every boy has a different style. Some boys don't reply when they are busy with their own affairs, which doesn't mean that things are more important than you, but what they are doing at the moment, that's all. But if you still don't reply afterwards, or even if you do, you don't want to extend the topic and rush to end the chat, that's intentional. In the course community, I also met some girls' boyfriends, but they were not enthusiastic about online chat, but they did well after meeting. Later, I learned that boys just didn't pay so much attention to online chat tools. If you can't correctly distinguish between "style is like this" and "I don't care about you", it's easy to misunderstand. Third, we all know that even the best relationship needs independent space. This statement is correct in itself, but it is also regarded by many boys as saying that they don't return the news. It is unreasonable to disagree, and it is wrong to agree. You can distinguish it by stage and degree. Stage: Let's take a look at the stage of your relationship with boys. If you have been together for a long time, after the love period and the running-in period, the two sides have a high degree of tacit understanding, then this is a mature relationship. A boy knows what he is doing if he doesn't reply, and he knows you if you don't reply. This is the real independent space for each other. If you just talk for a long time without returning messages and talking about your own independent space, then this is a sentence. Degree: there is a degree of not returning information. Occasionally, I don't reply to the news for an hour, and I will tell you clearly afterwards, so this level is actually good. If you don't reply to the message for a few days or more, it's just words. The truth is that he doesn't like you that much. The reason for being with you is also very simple: riding a donkey to find a horse, I haven't found my next home yet. Fourth, the old driver in a relationship, some boys will play hard to get if they want to take the initiative. I saw your news clearly and deliberately didn't reply to you for a long time. Of course, I won't tell you directly when I reply. I won't reply to you, it's just what I was busy with just now. Create a busy atmosphere. Then there must be a prelude to not returning the news at this time. It may be asking for something from you, or it may be deliberately saying something negative to suppress you. If you don't agree, I won't return your message at first. The purpose is to make you compromise by not returning the news, and then let you meet his requirements, or agree with what he said to suppress you, and you will feel: Yes, I am so bad that he is still with me, just listen to him. After a long time, "not returning your message" has become a switch for you to compromise. So if this is the case, if you think his request is unreasonable and his evaluation of you is not objective, then it means: I don't accept it! Boys want you to compromise in this way. At this time, they can be indifferent and let him hang aside and do what they should do. 5. It will take a whole day to reply to your message. Whether in the ambiguous stage or in the love stage, the meaning of chatting is used to enhance communication, which means that chatting itself is good. A good chat is that both sides are still unfinished. Therefore, if a boy feels that he wants to talk all day after replying to your message, it must be the last time, or many times before, and he feels that he has talked, but you have delayed him for a long time. In this way, chatting becomes stale, and chatting for the sake of chatting has changed from enhancing feelings to routine and completing tasks. What if my boyfriend doesn't return the message? 2 What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't return the message? When you face a boyfriend who doesn't return messages, the first point is that you need to analyze the root of the problem, the second point is that you need to master the chat skills of playing hard to get, and the third point is to let go when it's time to let go. In fact, sometimes boyfriends don't return because the other person is busy with something else. If he still loves you, he will find time to reply to you. It's only a matter of time. At this time, we need to understand him. We can't just be arrogant and unreasonable, but this is on the condition that he loves you very much. If he doesn't love you, then he doesn't want to reply to you, or even block you. In the face of such a boyfriend, we must calm down, don't quarrel and avoid more contradictions. Analyze the root of the problem When your boyfriend sends a message slowly, or doesn't return your message for a long time, you must calm down and think about what the problem is, whether he doesn't return the message, whether he is too busy or his feelings for you are getting worse, or whether he is angry with you, so you must judge the different reasons for not returning the message according to different situations, so you must find out the root of the problem and discuss it with your friends. Knowing the root of the problem and solving it, I won't return your message naturally. Master the chat skills of playing hard to get. Many lovers in love are blind, too enthusiastic and active to connect with each other. This will make your feelings too sweet while warming up, leading to mutual unaccustomed. If your boyfriend doesn't return your message for a long time, and the other party doesn't give you memories, it's also indifferent, so don't send him any more messages. You should think about your own affairs, do your own affairs well and manage your circle of friends well. Enhance your charm, such as taking photos of yourself or playing with friends in a circle of friends. A person who loves you won't keep in touch with you, so let him think about your value to him. He will also think about why you don't chat with him, so playing hard to get will make him reply to your message actively. Let go when it's time to let go. If a man is not too busy, too angry, and doesn't want to make you jealous, it is largely because he doesn't want to reply to your message, and he has lost his previous enthusiasm for you, indicating that his love for you has begun to deteriorate. At this time, you have to start thinking about whether there is something wrong with your feelings. If it is simply not as sweet as before, or he has lost his freshness and excitement for you, no longer loves you, and even sends messages to others faster than you, then at this time you should let go and choose to break up and set him free, because the way to love someone is to respect him.