When confinement meets epidemic —— Memories of new mothers

Currently married for more than two years, 2 1 1 graduate student. I have a lovely son, 1 years and 5 months. Her husband is a doctoral student at 2 1 1 school. Although he directly got the offer from an associate researcher in our school after graduating from Ph.D., everything seemed so smooth and the couple had a good relationship. The following is the whole schedule:

? 2019165438+10/0, taking maternity leave;

? 20 1 165438+2009129 October due date, maybe the baby pig was a little lazy, so he didn't start, but the B-ultrasound showed that the baby was 8 kg. After reading a lot of experience, I rationally evaluated my situation (pre-pregnancy weight 1 10 kg, expected weight 65438). Ha ha ha .....), in 65438+February 1, I chose to be hospitalized for labor, and I chose 65438+February 2 to welcome my little angel to this beautiful world in the early morning;

? 8: 00 am on February 2, 20 19, and the picture below shows about 6: 00 am on the day of production. I don't know why, I don't panic at all because my husband and mother have been with me, maybe because I love this little angel who has been with me for 40 weeks +2 days, or maybe because I want to get rid of my heavy body. I greet this day with a smile and happiness. In the morning 10: 08, a piglet was born, weighing 8.5kg, with hypoglycemia. The doctor fed it with sugar water and carried it out of the neonatal room for observation. I was sent back to the ward at 4 pm, and everything was normal. .

On February 5th, 20 19, I was discharged from the hospital and returned to the rented house (my thrifty husband and I chose to rent a three-bedroom house for the labor, so that my mother can take care of me and my baby here, and my parents-in-law can visit me at any time). My parents-in-law who opened the shop were basically there for 365 days because they wanted to look after the store, but my mother-in-law began to take care of me from the early morning when I gave birth to my child.

? 20191215-1221I was admitted to the hospital for treatment of granuloma (at first, it was just a little red dot, which gradually became bigger and it was easy to bleed when touched). I love my children, and I am also my mother's children, because there are too many times of bleeding. When my caesarean section wound almost recovered, he was admitted to hospital to treat granuloma (it could have been removed by laser, but it was dragged to the point where it could only be removed surgically for fear of affecting the child). 65438, 65438, in February 2006, the granuloma was removed, and the operation lasted for 20 minutes, with 7 stitches.

? 65438+February 21-65438+1October 6, commuting to the hospital in Hankou and home in Wuchang every day. Later, I learned from the news that there were cases in this hospital during my hospitalization, and later it became the hardest hit area. Somehow, I feel that my life is great and my baby is protecting me. Because I think the baby's resistance is weak, I ask my family to wear a mask before and after the baby's full moon. Besides, I was born. Every time I go to Hankou Hospital to change the medicine, I take a taxi, pinch a few people to change the medicine, and go home to see the baby immediately after changing the medicine. Because of this connection between mother and son, I take a luxury taxi home every day, and finally choose a clinic near my home for anti-inflammatory injections, and then go home.

? 65438 10/6, I went home after anti-inflammatory injection and found a cold. I was immediately isolated from the children, far away from them, not breastfeeding, wearing a double mask.

? On October 7th, 65438/kloc-0, the child coughed twice and spat bubbles at his sleeping mouth. Because the prenatal examination had a bad impression on the provincial women and children, he took the children to the children's hospital for examination. When the doctor heard this, he felt very serious. He immediately took pictures to draw blood and prescribed medicine, so he had to be hospitalized. However, after being in bed for 15 days, after consulting with the doctor, I queued up for infusion atomization in the hospital outpatient department and said the next day. This is the first time I realized that it was not easy for my parents. I need to go through the formalities patiently, help the children do atomization and appease the children who have been injected with liquid. It's 1 1 o after the infusion.

? 65438+1On the morning of October 8th, I registered my mother and child. The expert is gone, and the general is dead. As soon as the doctor heard something wrong, three depressions appeared and he was short of breath. I don't believe it. I immediately took my child to see the doctor in the clinic next door, and the same diagnosis was made. My husband and I both panicked, PICU! ! ! That place had sex with me for the first time. Actually, it was on my 37-day-old son. I use the relationship around me to find out if the doctor has not diagnosed carefully enough. Finally, to be on the safe side, I sent my son to PICU. I told the doctor about the child's symptoms and birth at the gate of PICU. I think I may lose him, and my heart hurts. My mother comforted me when I came home from the hospital.

65438108: 00 am on October 9, because I have been looking for similar cases in various apps at night. What is the final recovery and what are the symptoms of pneumonia? It turns out that when the baby coughs, the problem is so big. I fell asleep after three o'clock in the morning and was awakened by the phone. The doctor said that the child was in serious condition and needed the consent of his family to be rescued. I was stunned. You don't say! I reacted when I saved my son. I have always said yes, asking the doctor to do his best to save my son. please ...

? 654381at 9 o'clock on the morning of October 9, we rushed to the hospital, but we couldn't see the children. We only heard from the doctor about the child's condition, made him undergo fiberoptic bronchoscopy and signed various informed consent forms. Then we also received the list of the child's medical expenses, which was close to 20 thousand yuan. The child had been in it for less than 24 hours ... but I didn't have time to think about it at that time. Fortunately, I had some savings before, so I don't have to consider the expenses for the time being.

? 65438+1October 10-65438+ 10/9. Every day from Monday to Friday, there will be parents with the same name as the bed nurse, and then tell them about the child's day, whether it has improved or not, and when it will be discharged. Parents will talk to each other about their children before 10. My child is the youngest in PICU, and I blame myself for not taking good care of him and making him suffer. These days, at the gate of PICU, I have met all kinds of people in the world. Parents transferred from other provinces and cities and prefecture-level cities have no place to live, and they keep calling to borrow money while waiting for their children with their luggage. Parents with children divorced, and the father and grandparents blamed the mother and grandparents for not taking good care of the children and almost started outside the ward; There are also mothers who keep calling to borrow money at the door, but there is no trace of their father ... Similarly, children are sent in every day. Some children can be transferred to the general ward after getting better, and some children return to PICU for treatment after being transferred to the general ward; Compared with them, I don't have to worry about the children's medical expenses for the time being, and my husband and family don't care. Every day before 10, my mother and I take a taxi from home to the hospital. Every day on the way to the hospital, I started crying in the taxi. My mother never cried. Later, my mother told me that she actually couldn't sleep every night and felt that the child had been taken away by others, but she couldn't show it, otherwise I would feel even worse. It is estimated that the air is polluted. I bought a humidifier and an air purifier, and my grandson can use it when he comes back. My mother is so frugal that she can spend more than 1000 to bring her daughter to her grandson. Parents' love is unconditional, natural and selfless ...) Husband goes to the hospital after school every day 10. At the end of the year, he is very busy, but in any case, he will appear every day to get to know the baby. I always thought that my father's affection for children was not as deep as my mother's, but my husband's carefulness was praised by the head nurse from every time he accompanied me for prenatal examination to meticulous care after delivery. I think my father loves his children as much as my mother!

? 65438+ 10 month 19 With the amount of medical expenses decreasing day by day, doctors have told me less and less about abnormal conditions. Finally, 10 came out of PICU this morning, which was not quite what I expected. I stayed in PICU for almost two weeks, and I didn't lose any weight, except for eczema on my face and pinholes on my hands, which made me look pale.

? 65438+1October19-65438+1October 22nd, in order to take better care of the children, my mother and I stayed with the children in the hospital. In the general ward, the children in the next bed have lived in PICU before, and their recovery is always gratifying. My mother takes care of the children naked, and the children have lived in PICU for so long, becoming sensitive and insecure. Slowly, the ward began to change and the doctor asked to wear a mask. From a single room to a double room, the child in the next bed stayed for four days and was discharged. It was a week before, and then the air purifier was put in the ward every morning and afternoon. In the last two days, the doctor asked not to walk around, even the activity area in the ward is around the bed, so keep a distance from others. At that time, our family's heart was on the children, and we didn't have time to watch the news or pay attention.

? 654381on the afternoon of October 22nd, there was no mask. I went to the drugstore to buy a mask. The clerk told me that all the previous ones were snapped up as soon as they arrived. I'm still not alert. I bought two packs of 20 masks, and I think it should be enough in the hospital. I didn't expect masks to be so scarce later, and I didn't expect them to be worn for more than a year.

? 65438+1October 23rd, the twelfth lunar month, the child was discharged after examination. Because the lungs are seriously damaged, I still have to take medicine after discharge and insist on atomization. I can feel the doctor's intention to drive the patient out of the hospital. That day, I saw that the provincial women and children hung up the fever clinic ... The Spring Festival is coming, and we directly took the children back to Ezhou, and my mother returned to Xiaogan. On the night of returning to Ezhou, Wuhan was closed.

? Slowly, Wuhan was blocked, and the cases were counted. Then Hubei was blocked and we were not allowed to go out. My husband and I can't take care of the children, and my mother-in-law is inexperienced. We took care of him carefully. The child enters the age of 2 months and cries every night. I am worried that he will not recover well and become more and more attached to his children. I don't want him out of my sight. It was the first time I stayed at her husband's house for so long, which was brought by more and more cases every day in a strange environment and a depressing winter. And worried about the recovery of children, I began to be reluctant to communicate with my family and didn't want to eat. Except for a symbolic bite every day, I stay in my room with my children.

? There are more and more diagnoses, and I'm not sure about the child's recovery. Even one day, he slept too much. Although it was so dangerous outside, I insisted on taking my children to the hospital, but every bayonet downstairs was heavily guarded. I called and finally took the child on the road, but there was no car to pick him up. We called 1 10, 120 or the epidemic prevention headquarters. The driver finally arrived. We took the child's temperature at home in advance, 37.3 degrees Celsius (maybe I don't know how to use it, it's a mistake. It was almost 5 o'clock when I got to the hospital, and there were few people in the hospital. There are few people on the road. Doctors and nurses wear protective clothing. Because I said the child had a fever, let's go to the fever clinic directly. When I arrived at the fever clinic, the doctor took the child's temperature twice, both of which were normal, so I asked him to take it. When we hung up and went to see the doctor, it was already 5: 30, just when the doctor handed over his shift. The doctor on duty listened to the lungs and looked at the child's face. Besides saying that there is a murmur in the lungs, he also said that our mouths are blue and there may be heart-related problems. But the doctor left work, didn't give a diagnosis, and didn't tell us what to do. He said he was off duty. If he needs to make a movie, he will go to Ezhou First Hospital. We contacted the community at the hospital gate. There is no car in the community, so we have to walk back. There is no one on the road in winter, and the children are afraid of catching cold. We are wearing thick clothes, and our children weigh more than 20 kilograms. My husband and I held the child in our arms instead, fearing that the child would catch a cold again. We walked for almost half an hour and finally arrived at the First Hospital of Ezhou City. In order to ensure the safety of the children, my husband asked me to wait at the hospital gate. He went in to make sure whether the children could shoot here and watched him walk to the back of the hospital. He is so fearless because he is a father and husband. When everyone is afraid of the virus, he doesn't even think about his own risks, for the sake of his children and for my peace of mind. I carried the child in, covered the child's nose and mouth with a gauze towel, and let the doctor on duty check it. The doctor said that his heart rate was normal, his breathing was normal, and the problem was not serious. He also got off work because of filming, and now he doesn't want to shoot children. He can only go to women and children during the day (the hospital he has been to before). Hearing that the child was fine, we both put our hearts at ease and went home with the child in our arms. At home, all the staff sprayed alcohol, changed clothes and took a bath.

Later, we also took our children to the hospital once, which was equally difficult. Fortunately, those things are over.

65438+1October 23-March 23 17 The first thing I do when I get up every morning is to pay attention to the number of confirmed patients, and slowly start punching in health cards to generate health codes, high-risk areas and low-risk areas. Outside Wuhan, Xiaogan (my home) and Ezhou are both prefecture-level cities with the first and second epidemic situation. I hope that the number of confirmed cases will become zero every day and then count down to 18. March 2007 17, Ezhou was unsealed and moved between counties and cities. I asked my husband to contact the community for formalities as soon as possible. In fact, my parents were very kind to me, but I really needed my mother at that time, so I ignored their feelings. On the morning of March 17, we set out from Ezhou and returned to Xiaogan. When we got home, we were relieved. At last, the baby began to laugh very much.

? What impressed me during this period: 1. Once in the middle of the night, I felt something was wrong with my baby. I don't know if it's hormones or something. I just called the epidemic prevention headquarters and 120, 1 10. I want to take my child to the hospital. After a while, I stopped, and now I wonder if I was depressed. 2. The grandfather of the child holds the child every day as long as the child wakes up, and the child does not give up when he is asleep. It is often held one day at a time; 3. When the baby 100 days, grandparents were very happy and took photos with the baby. In a short time, all the WeChat avatars were taken with the baby; 4. Children's clothes are not enough to wear, and it is difficult to stare at the opening of Meituan Maternal and Child Store. There are clothes. 4 Ordinary clothes cost more than 700 yuan, and the linear distance is less than 1 km. I waited directly with SF for a week. My brother works in Guangzhou, and I told him that he couldn't get used to the food in Ezhou. He tried his best to find me a store where Taobao and JD.COM could send it to Ezhou, but they couldn't find it at that time. 6. The child has colic for two months and often cries at night. My husband lets me sleep. Every night, he holds the child and coaxes me. He didn't forget to tuck me in. The question he often asks me is whether I am thirsty or hungry. He accompanied me through my depression. Although I was so ignorant at that time, he followed me all the time, writing papers during the day and coaxing children at night, which gave me a lot of security.

At around noon on March 17, I finally arrived at my home after layers of inspection, community inspection, highway intersection inspection, exit inspection and neighborhood inspection. My grandfather has been teasing him with his child in his arms, and the child seems to always remember to take care of his grandmother. It's easy to make people laugh. My husband and I were relieved and finally got a solid sleep. Since March of' 60,

From March 17 to April 8, the situation in Wuhan is getting better and better, and maternity leave is coming to an end. I don't want to stay at home and take care of the children because I have been trapped for a long time. The big woman in my heart occupies me. I want to work and be independent, so I resolutely give up breast milk (it's too willful and selfish to think about it now) to prepare for returning to work. Because I was very comfortable in Xiaogan, time passed quickly, and I soon saw the news notice and resumed work on April 8;

On April 8, I left my children and arrived in Wuhan. Everything in Wuhan is very tense, and the distance between people is pulled far by the virus. I wear a mask, choose go on road trip and go to work, and spray alcohol every day. I also began to feel uncomfortable when I tried to separate from my child. Even if he was not ill, I couldn't passively see him. At that time, death was my own choice.

? I started work on April 9, and everything is back on track. . . . In addition to spraying alcohol, disinfection, wearing masks, missing children;

? This is like a dream, a dream that feels lucky and unfortunate in retrospect. Because of the epidemic, my husband's employment was postponed, and the formalities have never been done. From September, 2020 to March, 20021year, he was in an unpaid state. During the period, I resumed my studies and started my graduate studies, with no income. Rent, mortgage insurance and family expenses are all supported by my previous savings, and my husband is slowly beginning to feel anxious. At the end of the epidemic, my husband's tutor called and said that he wanted to jump into Chinese, but he didn't succeed. He finally joined the university two weeks ago and began to make money. If it weren't for the epidemic, my husband would have joined the Institute of Technology in June 5438+last year 10. Compared with many people, our influence is very small, but for those of us who have just given birth to gold-swallowing beasts, we need more money to give our children a better life. Now my little family is very good. My husband is a university teacher. I work as a graduate student, and my income can reach 1000+. My children and grandparents live a happy life every day. Everything is getting better, just like the city of Wuhan, reborn from the ashes. So do we!

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