A letter to my predecessor.

Jiao jiao

? Long time no see. Is it cold at home?

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I finally got up the courage and made up my mind to write this letter to you. I hope you won't be surprised when you see this letter!

? First of all, for us, whether I want to admit it or not, it is an established fact that we have broken up, and I have learned to face all this.

? Secondly, on behalf of me and my family, please allow me to express my deep apologies for the unnecessary interruption to your life.

There is no denying that this relationship between you and me is over. Looking back now, there are still many little beauties. Now I have been able to look at all this very maturely and rationally.

? We met marry u, from the internet to reality, from the initial strong opposition of both parents to the gradual understanding and recognition; When I first met Wuhan, it was really not easy to get to know each other in Jiangcheng, know each other in Quanzhou and settle in Xiamen. How many people envy you that I have this fate, and I can pursue inseparable with the people I love, and how many things make people around me, who used to be strangers, support each other now.

All this, as if it happened yesterday, is still so beautiful.

On May 9, Wuhan Tianhe Airport, the weather was fine, wearing a floor-to-ceiling dress and high heels, coming towards me. I will never forget seeing you in my life.

The three-day trip to Wuhan was the happiest day of my life. I will take you to eat Regan Noodles, take the subway, climb the Yellow Crane Tower, and taste Wuchang fish and epiphyllum forest. You walk happily in the crowd holding my hand, Jianghan Road, and take you to the love wall of Hankou River Beach, the longest pedestrian street in China, to witness the place where our love began. In this way, I took your hand and visited the famous scenic spots in Wuhan and the food street in Hubu Lane, Simenkou.

It's the first time we meet online friends, take you to the subway for the first time, take each other to meet their parents for the first time, and have the impulse to get married for the first time.

However, before that, I never felt that there was something missing in my life.

I didn't know what it was like to be calm until I met you.

The world is sometimes very bad, I hope to be treated gently by you!

No. 1 1, on the day of returning, it rained, and God couldn't bear to let you go. I'll take you to watch wrestling, dad. I still remember that movie vividly. The most profound thing is not only the hard work that Dad put into cultivating his two daughters in the movie, but also because we saw Dad's deep love for his daughters, so excited that we couldn't help kissing goodbye and the dog food was scattered all over the floor.

Seeing you off at the airport, you almost changed your visa foolishly, much like a little girl's reluctance to her father.

I remember Wuhan.

When you were in love for two months, in order to come to Wuhan to celebrate my anniversary and prepare a bigger surprise for me, you arranged things in the store overnight the day before and forgot to bring gifts to my home, but you still ordered dried seafood online and even forgot to bring your own mask.

I amused myself at night, packed my things, was too excited to sleep, and secretly inquired about my home address. I don't even know. The next day, you dragged your luggage to catch the plane. You hate waiting, but you just sleep at the airport and take the subway to my city. I can't imagine you, a road idiot, taking the subway without navigation. It's cute to think about it.

You are also very skilled in making cakes, and you specially made a cake for me in Wuhan for fear that it would melt. I feel it with your heart.

You know, on the anniversary, I was particularly worried about your accident and missed you. I don't know what to do, so I have to write this mood in a circle of friends to express your love for me for two months!

I'm really moved, and I'm even more scared.

To tell the truth, I can't contact you all day. There are people everywhere in the group. Ask them to help me find you and send it to searching for you. Finally, I bought a plane ticket and flew over to find you. I'm afraid you're missing. It was the only day when we lost touch together, and you ignored me. At that time, I was still thinking that you should not be on your way to Wuhan.

When you finally answered the phone, I was so angry and happy that I broke up for five minutes. At that moment, my hanging heart finally landed, but I couldn't bear to leave you alone on the subway. I quickly called to pick you up!

The moment I saw you, I was really scared. I can't describe my complicated mood at that moment in words, including surprise, happiness, joy and fear!

During the twelve days in Wuhan, we lived our little life like a young couple. I am most moved by two things.

I remember one day, I got up early to buy breakfast and got wet in the rain when I came back. You fell asleep and opened your eyes.

Honey, why are your clothes wet?

Be careful of catching a cold. Go take it off.

Nothing, nothing, a little rain is nothing.

I don't think you slept in. Get up and boil water at once to make me brown sugar ginger tea. At that time, you still thought I was a big man, so don't be too melodramatic. Now I understand that there is a woman who loves her man deeply in those small details, and it is still very warm and moving to think of it. No woman has ever cared so much about me.

It's cooked. Drink it while it is hot.

I don't want to drink, it's too much.

So much, I can't finish drinking, what should I do!

Drink if you can't finish eating, or you'll catch a cold.

It's really cute to watch you get angry and force me to submit.

Psychological secretly pleased, perhaps this is the appearance of happiness, Jiao Jiao, thank you for your efforts, very lucky to meet you!

You know, there is a saying that is still engraved in my heart.

Once my mother criticized me that my clothes were piled there and I didn't wash them. When you heard it, you said something that touched me for a long time, and every time you think about it, you will still be a moment late.

"Mom criticized you for being bad, which means I am not good. I am not a wife! "

I was quite surprised at the time. I used to think of me as your husband. You always stand on my side, think of me and protect your husband's image. Now that I think about it, I am extremely ashamed. We are a young couple. Even in front of parents, always consider each other.

In my hometown, in the crowded market, you generously and naturally feed grandma tofu in front of everyone. Grandma can't even close her mouth when she smiles, and she will wake up laughing at night. Praise you in front of me several times, but I can't do it. So far, every time I call her, I will mention you and miss her little darling every time.

Grandma worked hard all her life and did small business all her life. A woman has supported the whole family since she was young. It's really like the song "After Going Home": I gave my youth to your family, and I followed you from youth to old age. I have seen through all the accidents in the world, and no one is more important than you.

In her mind: I have regarded you as a granddaughter.

12 The days in Wuhan were the happiest days before I got married: we cooked and cleaned together at home, and you helped me wash clothes and take care of my brother, and never complained.

We took my brother out to play, bought him toys, helped me choose a couple ring, and specially bought pajamas for my mother! I've seen all this.

It's really wrong to think about it now. Nobody has to do anything for anyone. Just because that person is me and they are my family, you are willing to pay so much.

Thank you for everything you have done for me.

No matter where I eat, I'm embarrassed to help me pick up vegetables every time and feed me from time to time. In fact, my heart has long been happy.

Your cuteness and true temperament are as pure as a little girl in my eyes.

Recalling the past dribs and drabs, I often think of your goodness. I saw a woman who paid a lot for love, and tried her best to think of her husband, her family and our future.

Quanzhou, I remember.

1, I'll take you swimming. You look so graceful in your bathing suit. You are lying on the lifebuoy in the swimming pool, cute as a little girl. I hold you and swim back and forth like a pair of happy little fish, and you are "laughed at" by several primary school students in broad daylight. Just like yesterday, I am really happy to think of it.

Take me to wash my face, squeeze acne, and the acne needle blows my face red, so I am not afraid of being infected. Every time I stop, you kiss my chest, and it really doesn't hurt that much at that moment. Your kiss is like a wave of painkillers, as if time stopped at that moment and you were laughed at by your colleagues. You can't kiss me when you come home.

It was almost 12 o'clock when I got home. In fact, you should be more sleepy than me. You were busy with the store two days ago, and you will take care of me later.

I was so tired that I fell asleep first somehow! You helped me apply anti-inflammatory drugs and masks. Then I went to take a shower and wash clothes by myself. After 1, you went to sleep. Your tenderness, your delicacy and your love are always so touching and warm when I think of them.

Night after night, it turned out that you were watching over me. Sometimes I wonder if you are really not sleepy. No, because that person is me, and you are not sleepy. Because you love me, you are willing to pay for me.

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2. Take me to a seafood buffet, experience the outfield of Ocean Department Store, make soup for me to drink, and we will make zongzi together. It doesn't look as good as yours every time. You always look "disgusting".

? Take me to the seaside to swim, find shells and watch you play on the beach with a shovel. My eyes seem to see you as a child, lovely, naive and kind. I know, in fact, there has always been a little girl living in your heart, waiting for me to hold her hand for a lifetime.

I will take you to climb Zimao Mountain, visit West Lake Park and visit Minnan Cultural Memorial Hall. I still remember you told me to learn Minnan dialect: husband, Ang, wife: Mao! Every time my pronunciation is poor, you laugh there. Every day you smile is also my best day.

Gradually, I found that in the beauty shoot, you have been recording our every day, every photo and every video hides our happy moments.

Xiamen, I remember.

? Take me to Xiamen to meet your parents on Dragon Boat Festival. Always think of me. I'm afraid your father will ask me about my job all the way. You cheer me up.

? If he bullies you, we will not get along with him!

Where my parents live, you can take them to a star-rated hotel to eat in a rented room with one room, one kitchen and one bathroom on the first floor, and you choose to eat at home just to take care of my fragile self-esteem! During the period, I was afraid that I was addicted to the cigarettes handed by your father and criticized my father for not giving me cigarettes. I remember smoking 5.6 cigarettes that day and almost passed out.

Zeng 'an's seaside has left us too many beautiful memories: we ate popsicles, walked on the trestle by the sea, and watched people taking wedding photos at the seaside in the distance. You said we would take such wedding photos, even better than them. It's romantic and sweet to think about it.

You suggested drinking some wine for dinner, also in order to close the relationship between your father and me.

On the way back to the spring, I was drunk and unconscious. You drive me back and forth. I should have done that.

Knowing that I like high heels, you showed it to me specially, but you just wanted to show me that dress in the closet at home, so as not to let outsiders see your charm.

I remember when I got on the boat.

When I went out to travel, I bought Adi's couple's clothes, a couple's polo hat and a volcanic stone bracelet. Sanya Nanhai Guanyin also asked me to sign a blessing with my family, which belongs to our little monk in the zodiac statue. I know you've done too much for me.

In South America, no matter where I am, whether there is a signal or not, you will send me a WeChat. A few nights, the time difference is 13 hours. I'll send a WeChat to wake you up. You don't blame me at all, but chat with me by voice until there is no signal. I know you've been thinking about me countless nights. I see.

I still remember: I rested for half an hour after work, and I rushed back to my room to get my mobile phone and chat with you. Your voice called me as soon as I got my mobile phone. At that time, I wanted to be so compassionate. Now it seems that you should calculate the time to contact me in those nights. You miss me very much. I know, me too!

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Every time I hear your voice of coquetry and hair loss, my bones are tender. What I see in my eyes is a silly, lovely and real little girl, sometimes a little headstrong and sometimes unreasonable. I know that I will pet, love and care for this girl all my life. Let her be herself in front of me. I like her like that. She is silly, lovely, naive and carefree! I want to treat her like an ostrich and bury my head in my arms all my life, so follow me!

Tanabata Valentine's Day,

In your name, in my name,

The greedy snake spent one night writing down I love you. Either it's too big to take a screenshot, or it's touching other snakes, or it's shaking hands. What sustains you from painting again and again for so long, is it love or missing?

Brazilians can't buy you flowers. You don't blame me, but you also understand me. I just want to video chat with me, and I am satisfied. I never ask for what I want, and I don't complain. Also think of me everywhere, pay for me. I often wonder why I can find such a good wife! Friends often say that a person's real success is to talk about a sweet love, build a complete family and run a happy relationship for life. Having a happy family is the greatest wealth in life.

Mid-Autumn Festival

During the Mid-Autumn Festival, I didn't forget to send moon cakes to my grandmother and mother as a surprise. I was very sorry when I saw that my mother didn't give me a birthday present. I was very moved at that time and didn't know how to express it. Because you consider yourself a part of this family, you always want to do more for this family.

I remember I told you once shortly after I got on the boat.

I may come back in February, 65438+, when you were so happy.

Really? Can you come back for the Spring Festival?

I know how much you expect us to spend the New Year together.

Now we are not separated, but we are all on the same front and our hearts are still tied together.

The second time I said 10 October 2 1 I went back to China.

It's you again, more excited than me, sending it to the group to show off that her husband is coming back.

Later, I made you happy for nothing because I didn't make it clear. When the ship returns to China, people still have to complete the contract for 9 months on board.

I know how cruel it is to keep a woman waiting for nine months. Although you said you could wait, I feel distressed! When my husband is not around, I can't share it with me when I am happy. When I am sad, there is no comfort from me. I have no arms when I can't sleep at night. Now I know, in fact, what you want is simple. You want your husband's love, a lot of love, and his concern. You don't need him to do too much, and you don't need him to buy any gifts. As long as he is with you, this is the longest confession.

? 65438+1October 3 1,

In order to come to Shenzhen to see me, I gave up more than 3,000 orders and didn't buy a ticket until six o'clock. I finished my business and dressed up to see me. I deliberately wore my favorite high heels, made curly hair, or my favorite nail color, and put on new clothes. You are most afraid of taking the train. You traveled thousands of miles, too excited to sleep, carrying so many bags and two bags of specialty products.

1 1 went to the hotel at night, but I still couldn't sleep. I carefully prepared romance for me. I bought roses online at twice the price in the middle of the night and went out to buy red wine. It took a long time to communicate with the waiter to get the red wine glass. I bought crayfish specially, made me an appetizer, and personally made me an album "Kiss of Love". I'm afraid my boat will be windy and cold. I bought a scarf and hundreds of CK underwear for me. It's a blessing of 500 years. I gave a lot for me until I couldn't hold on. I don't know how to save your broken heart. I can only strive to improve myself and make money, so that I can catch happiness in the future.

Thank you, Jiao Jiao. Thank you for doing so much for me. Your feelings will never be forgotten.

Frankly speaking, the life of lovelorn is not easy. During that time, I really couldn't eat well, couldn't sleep, was awakened by chest pain in the middle of the night, was weak during the day, and had to be on duty. I used to think that it was nothing for a big man to fall in love, but it was his turn to find it really painful. How do people who have never loved understand? Fortunately, I have come out!

To tell you the truth, I have been trying to save your heart since we broke up. I don't know how to save your heart, but I must know what my problem is. I tried all kinds of ways to save it, collected money from all over the world, made a photo album and wrote a book about our mental journey since we fell in love. That's the only gift I can make on the boat for a long time. Maybe you will be moved, but I know this can't fundamentally solve my problem.

? I lost myself, I found my confidence, and I found my lost happiness!

I also started a new life and had a new life plan. In the past three months, I have studied English and business, and the new captain's impression of me is getting better and better. I believe you, too. I sincerely wish you find your own happiness as soon as possible.

? No matter what happens in the future, as a friend, I unconditionally support and respect your choice! I sincerely hope you have a good time and live for yourself!

65438+February 28th, your birthday, it's really a pity that I can't spend it with you, because before your birthday, I have foreseen many birthday scenes with you, with two people in the Flower Rose Theme Hotel; A lively scene where friends and relatives get together to sing birthday songs for you; There is a romantic part where I personally give you a birthday present; Three or five friends went skiing around Wuhan with great interest; There are exciting photos of the two of us taking pictures at the beautiful seaside. ..................................................................................................................................................................

Unfortunately, in the days that followed,

I can't go to the movies with you in a couple's costume and take you to a candlelight dinner.

I can't accompany you to Tibet to see Gesanghua, Shenzhen to see old friends, Wuzhizhou to dive, Sanya to Lushan. I'll go alone.

I can't accompany you to your hometown to feel the southern Fujian customs, and I can't take you to my home to see the Dragon Lantern Festival in my hometown.

I can't spend Valentine's Day with you, take your son on a trip, help you realize your wish of four lollipops, and take you for a ride.

I'll never have a chance to eat my Regan Noodles again, and I won't have a chance for you to sing to me and teach me how to make cakes.

I can't hold your hand, put a wedding ring on you and take me to your hometown to get rid of moles.

On the road of future travel, no one is watching you without me. Pay attention to your own safety and don't get lost. Remember to be happy, to be happy, so that as a friend, it is safe!

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Thank you very much. I am writing this letter to thank you. You have done so much for me this year. You almost remember everything I said and did. You don't like WeChat chat. You always come back to me as soon as possible, even on the way to the outfield. Really, you take me to the boat and leave everything at home to you. As long as I tell you, you will arrange everything. You always think of me. But I seldom think about you and what you want. Although I will work hard for our future ideals, I often cannot understand your good intentions and your love for me. Now I calm down and have a look. Really learned a lot and grew a lot.

We walked all the way to today.

It's not easy. Long-distance love is opposed by both parents.

From agreement to stalemate, I know in my heart that you need love and understanding in your heart.

Yes, I still don't love you enough You didn't coax her into letting you go.

You should love her. You have to break up with me. Nothing I can say can let you go.

Jiao Jiao, because of your kindness, I once loved you desperately, and I was afraid of losing you. Now I find that I was wrong, which is not enough.

It should be. It should be me. Because I love you, I should treat you better and cherish you desperately.

If one day, we can start over, I hope we can start over with an independent attitude, instead of pinning our life plans on you and making excuses for our lack of efforts. I must stand up independently, so that I can be qualified to long for love, choose and stand proudly by your side.

Having said so much, I really thank you, thank you for loving me, thank you for giving me so much, and you made me grow and mature.

It was you who told me what true love is, how to love a person and how to manage a relationship, which helped me to establish correct values and views on marriage and love, and also helped me to correct my attitude towards life. Without you, I don't know how long I will wander on the road of life!

? Try to feel each other's existence, in order to make each other better, is the best ending in feelings, is the best true meaning of feelings!

? The next relationship, I believe I will be more mature, brave and strong to face. I have deceived myself before, and now I need to do what I have in front of me to see the end of the distance.

Perhaps as Liqun's advertisement said: Life is a journey.

The location is not important, what matters is the scenery along the way and the mood of enjoying the scenery. Thank you for spending the best time of my life with me.

Goodbye, Jiao Jiao.

Happy Valentine's Day and wish you happiness.