My boyfriend seldom misses me. Why does he send a message saying that he wants me to love me every time he gets drunk?

My boyfriend seldom misses me. Why does he send a message saying that he wants me to love me every time he gets drunk? Some people are usually not very good at expressing their feelings. When they are drunk, they want you to show that they really like you.

Usually, we say we hate me, but we can get drunk and miss me. We summarize some common drinking patterns: 1. We regard drinking as the most important or very important thing in life, occupying a central position in our hearts and never forgetting it. 2. Compared with the initial drinking, the amount of drinking increased gradually. 3. the speed of drinking is getting faster and faster. 4. Always drink alone or behind your family's back. 5. Take wine as medicine to relieve emotional distress. 6. Possession of alcohol. 7. Often forget things after drinking. 8. Unplanned drinking often leads to accidents after drinking. 9. Drinking in the morning, commonly known as "open-eyed wine", some people even drink after waking up at night. 10. Drink before going to bed. 1 1. Like to drink on an empty stomach, and seldom eat vegetables when drinking. 12. Choose the brand of wine if possible. 13. Because drinking and quarreling with family members affect family harmony, or drinking affects work. 14. I once gave up drinking, but it didn't take long for my old illness to recur and get out of hand. Generally speaking, if a person's drinking behavior has more than three manifestations, it is highly suspected that it is alcohol dependence. It is often seen that some alcohol addicts have brought many adverse effects on their health, family harmony and work because of drinking, and even have some illegal behaviors after drinking. Although they feel guilty and regret for these consequences, they still can't completely stop drinking, stop drinking and drink again and again. Do they have no ambition and perseverance? No, this is because alcohol dependence is a disease, and it is a worsening disease. This disease, like diabetes and hypertension, cannot be completely eradicated. But it can be controlled. The reason for drinking again is related to the sensitivity of the body to alcohol and the psychological impulse to drink. No matter what bad consequences will be brought about by drinking again, you can't overcome it by your own perseverance. Like other diseases, there will be some characteristic clinical manifestations. Once you become dependent on alcohol, suddenly stop drinking or suddenly reduce the amount of alcohol you drink, there will be many physical discomfort symptoms, which is called alcohol withdrawal syndrome. For convenience, some people divide alcohol withdrawal syndrome into three stages according to time and severity: the first stage of alcohol withdrawal syndrome: it usually appears 6 ~ 12 hours after drinking, showing tremors in both hands. In severe cases, it can accumulate the whole upper limb or even the trunk. In severe cases, besides common symptoms such as anorexia, insomnia and irritability, tongue trembling may also occur. The second stage of alcohol withdrawal syndrome: it occurs 24 ~ 72 hours after alcohol withdrawal. In addition to the above symptoms, auditory hallucinations often occur, and the content is mostly abuse or persecution, which can lead to impulsive behavior and less excitement. Three-stage alcohol withdrawal syndrome: delirium tremens, which often occurs 72 hours after the last drinking. At this time, the patient is unconscious, has obvious tremor, walks unsteadily, and may have various vivid hallucinations, such as seeing various small animals, and the patient shows nervousness, anxiety and fear. The memory of patients is obviously impaired, and some patients may have epileptic convulsions. Even in developed countries, once delirium tremens occurs, the total mortality rate of treated patients can still reach 10% ~ 15%, and even higher for untreated patients. Therefore, it is impossible for long-term drinkers to suddenly stop drinking. If you highly suspect alcohol dependence, you should go to a specialized hospital for treatment as soon as possible. People who form alcohol dependence can't control their drinking behavior or their drinking quantity, so can they still drink normally after a period of abstinence? As far as we know, no one has ever been able to drink "normally", or just stopped drinking for months or years in social situations. Once a person develops from binge drinking to uncontrolled and desperate binge drinking, there is no turning back. Alcoholics don't deliberately drink to cause trouble, but excessive drinking is bound to cause trouble. Many people who depend on alcohol think that it is okay to drink a few cans of beer or a few glasses of light wine after a period of abstinence. Not many people get drunk after drinking a bottle or two of beer. So I mistakenly thought that I could quit by drinking only two or three bottles of beer every day. Occasionally, they can do it in a few days or weeks. Then it will be concluded that even drinking will be "comfortable". However, they will drink more and more beer or wine at a time, and before long, they will drink as much as before. Another wrong idea is to replace high alcohol with low alcohol. For alcoholics, wine is wine. No matter whether it is martini, whisky and soda water, champagne or a small glass of beer, no matter what wine you drink, it will lead to excessive drinking and repeated drinking. Therefore, it is very dangerous for alcoholics to try to control their own alcohol consumption or to drink only low-concentration alcohol after abstinence for a period of time. But in order to ensure complete abstinence from alcohol, it can only be a teetotaler. How can we do that? In addition to completing the treatment of alcohol withdrawal under the guidance of a doctor, you should also receive long-term rehabilitation treatment, including the treatment of related psychological or mental diseases, anti-relapse drugs, psychotherapy and joining some self-help rehabilitation organizations. As long as you have the desire to give up drinking and make unremitting efforts, you will succeed.

Alcoholism is often described as "a lonely disease".

At first, we drank mainly for entertainment, and the infusion of alcohol into the body helped us to become enthusiastic and cheerful in an instant.

But once the effect of alcohol fades, what remains is more alienation and unsociable feeling, which also makes our mood more depressed. At the same time, if we feel guilty and ashamed of our drunken or rude behavior, this tangled and complicated emotion can easily make us feel abandoned and exiled-endless gloom and unspeakable pain. So we quickly picked up our glasses again.

We have contact with people from time to time when we drink. However, most of the conversations we think are important are almost hidden in our hearts and never easily exported. We are sure that we have never been understood, and we often don't care much whether we are understood by others.

Years of drinking make us suspicious, distrustful and self-centered. We habitually show a narrow-minded, stubborn and indifferent attitude, as if we have always been withdrawn and difficult to get along with.

When we begin to have the opportunity to develop normal interpersonal relationships with others and even accept their friendship. Over the years, the burden of inner fear often makes us hesitate, so we begin to feel lonely and depressed. Old thinking in the past can easily encourage us to pick up the first glass of wine again.

How dangerous it is to face the challenge of alcoholism alone. Even if we have great determination and desire, there are few examples that we can beat alcohol on our own. When I am alone, the idea of wanting to drink often appears in my mind furtively. When we feel lonely and empty, the impulse to drink always seems to beat us faster and stronger.

But now we can sail forward with other like-minded friends, and our recovery journey will be safer, more meaningful and more secure. Therefore, we are no longer afraid to ask for help from others. It is not a sign of cowardice to accept others' help in the process of recovery. It is extremely meaningful to cooperate with others, because we all need to help each other.

Of course, each of us needs some alone time to sort out our thoughts, reflect on ourselves, or deal with some private affairs to release the accumulated pressure in daily life. But if you indulge yourself too much and indulge in solitude, it is quite dangerous. Especially when our mentality gradually becomes withdrawn, depressed and self-pitying, it is better to have friends to accompany us than to take care of ourselves alone.

For these reasons, we advise people who have just given up drinking to "avoid being too lonely".

When the idea of drinking comes to mind, if you can stop thinking and talk to someone online as soon as possible, you can at least start to get rid of that dangerous state of isolation.

A drunken friend always sends messages saying that he misses me and asks me if I like him. Of course, you should take it seriously. He must like you.

Why does my boyfriend get drunk and say that everyone likes me? One is that he loves you very much, and his heart is full of you.

The second is to make excuses for what you did wrong after drinking, saying that you thought others were you.

The woman who broke up was drunk and said she missed me. Can I believe it? Maybe that's what he meant. 、。 Boyfriend wants to break up. It's basically true. . . Because they are more rational than women. . I won't joke about breaking up. My boyfriend jokes about breaking up, too. Actually, it's not a joke. He really wants me to break up with me. . . Later, I separated,

After my boyfriend got drunk, he sent a message, missed me, and couldn't wait to find me a courier that had been running for more than a year. Yesterday, I finally became a manager. I remember what the manager said to me: Aaron, why don't you take my broken chair? Changed the sofa.

Every time my boyfriend gets drunk, he tells me sad things in the past. Why? What should I do? Men are like wild animals, they only show their bellies (weakness) in front of their masters.

Your boyfriend's performance proves that he really loves you and entrusts himself to you completely.

You don't need to do anything, just stay with him, listen to him and pat him occasionally.

When he woke up, he changed again.

My boyfriend often calls me when he is drunk and asks me if I like him to tell the truth after drinking.

Really drunk.

It means I'll drink for you, and you have to call and ask.

Why do boyfriends only say when they are drunk: I miss you so much. There is a saying, tell the truth after drinking. I think he must be as introverted as I am, and he wants to say something to you, but he can't say it. I always look like a fool in the face of the girl I like. Always want to say something, but I can't say it well. I've been trying to tell her that I like her, but I can't. I just looked at her calmly, but my heart was not calm. If one day I am drunk, I will tell her that I like her when I am drunk. Because it has been suppressed for a long time, this sentence has been buried in my heart for too long. But if I don't drink, I don't think I will ever say so.

Why does he always send me messages after drinking? Say: miss me very much? Loneliness, a person will think a lot of things after drinking, once lonely, no matter who is around, who will be missed. Illusion, have you ever seen him say he misses you when he doesn't drink?