Why do you feel that people nowadays don't like to answer the phone?

According to my own experience, I don't like answering the phone in three ways. (1) Don't want to answer the phone calls of people you know: the leader asks for you outside working hours, probably to ask you to work overtime, just after dinner, call you for dinner, and make a pair of chopsticks to pour you wine and tea; It's not my own leader, it's a pure colleague relationship that I don't often associate with in the work circle. Looking for you is nothing more than something to bother you with. I don't want to answer it for fear that I can't do it and refuse it. Know clearly the purpose of the other party's call, such as selling insurance and withdrawing money from the bank. If you don't need this business, you should not only think of reasons to refuse, but also accompany you for a long time. Students who haven't contacted for a long time may call because they are married, have children, and get married. Bauer asked you to make up a red envelope, or asked you to attend a class reunion because you were either rich or expensive and didn't want to show up. Of course, it is impolite not to answer other people's calls. Generally, even if you don't answer the phone, you have to wait until there are n reasons in your mind before calling back. Ha ha! (2) I don't want to answer the phone I don't know: I need a mobile phone for work. If I don't have a number, I can know that I am a colleague. Then don't answer it. I don't know him anyway. (3) Selling fraud: I don't answer! ! ! Or: "We have a villa with a sea view here ..." "I have already bought it." Ha ha!

Yes, yes, I dare not answer the phone! Why? It's just that there are too many harassing calls for advertisements, and advertisers are also very smart now. Most of them are made of mobile phone numbers. Let me see if they are unfamiliar, whether they don't answer or not!

However, their persistence is very good. If I don't answer every time, they will continue to have headaches from time to time. So I always give nicknames or names to people I know basically, but there are also some phone calls, which are often not advertisers. It's also a problem when I really want to talk to you.

And I don't answer the phone, because I'm afraid of my relatives and friends who do direct selling. They called, and I couldn't refuse! Call me downstairs sometimes. What should I do? Can you refuse?

So, I really don't like answering the phone. If there is anything, you'd better say it on WeChat!

Why do you feel that many people don't like answering the phone now?

I think people don't like answering the phone for the following reasons.

The reason for 1 is that with the continuous development of mobile phones, the AP P of mobile phones, especially social platforms such as WeChat, has become a tool used by consumers. Consumers can communicate through social platforms such as WeChat, whether it is video chat or voice chat.

They can completely replace the telephone and bring us such a way of communication.

The second reason is the continuous development of the network, which actually makes consumers more willing to communicate through the network, whether in the form of software or in the form of some PCs.

The third reason is that most of our current mobile phones are mainly software, not telephones. Everyone has changed the habit of using the telephone, unless it is an emergency or a necessary thing.

The fourth reason is that many people are reluctant to use the phone because of the emergence of many harassing calls. Because harassing phone calls will often affect our lives, all kinds of telecom fraud and so on. On the contrary, we don't like mobile phones so much, and we don't want to consider some harassing calls.

So many people are reluctant to answer the phone now. The biggest reason is that the telephone is no longer the main way of real communication. The appearance of harassing phone calls also makes phone calls something that some people worry and fear.

Why do you feel that people nowadays don't like to answer the phone? I like to talk about things on WeChat. Many people feel scared when they see mobile phones. Why?

I think some people don't answer the phone, and some people don't want to call. If you can make it clear on WeChat, WeChat will say it. You only call when it's urgent. Usually I don't want to call.

I still remember the excitement when I first installed a landline phone at home when I was a child. I look forward to the phone ringing every day, and then I have a BB phone and a smart phone. There are more and more functions of mobile phones, and people rely on them more and more.

Could be social phobia. I am used to communicating in front of the screen. Making a phone call will give people a feeling of being caught off guard. If I am not prepared, I will be a little flustered and don't know what to say.

Mobile phones have both advantages and disadvantages. When you miss your loved ones, you can send a video to watch. After all, you can't see them on your mobile phone. I can't see the white hair on my mother's head, the wrinkles and the smile on her face. I can't see the children jumping and drooling.

The intelligent informationization of mobile phones makes us fondle admiringly now. Many couples quarrel because of cell phones, playing games and chatting vaguely. In short, I just don't want to say a word to each other. When young people go home for the Spring Festival, parents want to talk to their children, but the children only see unimportant gossip on their mobile phones.

Mobile phone was originally a communication tool for human beings, but it gradually evolved into a slave of mobile phone. Ignore the relatives around you. Call on everyone to play mobile phones moderately and spend more time with the people we love.

The appearance of telephone has indeed brought great convenience to all mankind, making the exchange of information between people in different places convenient and fast. Make them feel that the distance is no longer far away.

From the fixed telephone, to the emergence of mobile phones, to the emergence of smart phones today, it is more and more convenient to make phone calls.

Mobile phones have brought us a lot of convenience. With a mobile phone, it is convenient to contact relatives, friends, colleagues and classmates. Many things or businesses can be done by a phone call at work or at home, without going in person or traveling long distances. It's really convenient without hard work and money. So now almost everyone uses mobile phones, and the development of smart phones has provided many functions, such as video function, camera function, bank transfer function and game function.

Videophone, so that relatives far away from home can not only hear familiar voices, but also see relatives far away with their own eyes, which is a great comfort to both sides.

Let's talk about this banking function first! It's really convenient and practical. Many times, as long as you download the bank app, your banking business can be carried out. It's really convenient to deposit and withdraw money, transfer money and manage money. You can transfer money with people thousands of miles away without leaving home, which is time-saving and convenient and practical.

However, while mobile phones are convenient and practical, they also provide opportunities for scammers. Liars don't like trying to get rich, they always want to get something for nothing. Many of them have high IQs and are thinking about how to use these people with mobile phones to cheat money. They often commit crimes by gangs, using people's mobile phones that are eager to get rich or intimidate, and cheating you step by step according to their designed steps.

So at ordinary times, everyone should be vigilant and pay attention to some phone calls involving money.

First, many times we will receive advertisements to promote sales. We use the interception function of the mobile phone. When we see this kind of call, we will not answer it directly.

Second, I don't know how I got your news from many phone calls: for example, the store selling real estate; The phone bill package has been upgraded. Once I went to the business hall to ask, and people said it wasn't one of them. I knew there was something fishy going on. When I get another call like this, I say no. So who leaked my information; There are also many calls from other provinces and even foreign countries. I have no friends in these places and countries. I don't know how such a person knows my phone number. I won't answer them at all, I will be cheated. As for tea sellers, wealth managers and retired health care products, all kinds are ignored because they are afraid of being cheated.

I have so many close relatives, good friends, good colleagues and good classmates ... things and people in other places have nothing to do with me, and I am not interested or want to get rich, so I don't answer these calls from outside. Don't want to be cheated.

Young people generally don't believe and don't like these petty advantages, so almost no one believes in propaganda. But some old people, as soon as they hear that the interest given by this project is high, have money to earn; Desperately transfer money to others. Others make people say that they have been targeted by the police, and they are scared to transfer money to others. They don't understand the operation of mobile phones themselves and want to make a fortune, so they are often cheated. So if there are elderly people at home, it's best to let them use the old machine or press the landline, just to answer the phone. And tell him not to listen to messy phone calls, especially those involving money. It's best to get a bank card or passbook for your child's money at home, so that if there is a lot of money to be transferred, the bank will also check it.

In addition, too many telephone calls and communication have affected people's quality of life. It was a rest day and I wanted to have a rest at home. I can't go because of my face, because of my friends' phone calls and parties. After a while, my classmates called and went to the party again. Everyone is together, chatting with each other, making a scene, drinking stagger, and my wife is not satisfied when she comes home. After a long time, physical strength and energy are exhausted, family conflicts occur frequently, and children's education also has problems. Therefore, many people are reluctant to answer the phone after work or on rest days. Too many calls affect the happiness and harmony of the family.

There are also many parents of young students who buy mobile phones to facilitate contact. As a result, due to poor management by parents, they are addicted to games, reading pornographic novels or gambling ... So, parents have to have snacks to put an end to this imagination and prevent children from ruining it.

In a word, having a telephone is to facilitate work, unblock information and let people live or work better. We should make good use of the good aspects and be vigilant against the bad ones to avoid losses.

I don't like answering the phone, and I don't like making phone calls. Generally, I like WeChat contact, for one reason. I am shy [covering my face].

I can't express myself in words. I like to make a draft first. If I make a phone call, I will not be able to organize my language well and express my true thoughts.

Psychologically speaking, this is a "phone phobia", not a formal diagnosis, but it is indeed a common phenomenon.

In order to answer this question, I'd like to invite you to do an imagination exercise first:

Imagine, at this moment, the bell that makes you jumpy rings. Wait, don't take out your phone yet! Ask yourself a serious question: in the worst case, who are you most afraid of? If this person really calls, what are you most afraid of?

For example: "What about a good paper? I thought you said you had finished it last week! Why haven't I received it yet! 」

Generally speaking, you will think of one or several callers (such as your boss) who make you particularly afraid. You will think that the reason why he called is definitely not to greet you with a happy summer, but to collect debts or assign you a new task. In short, some topics bring you pressure. We've been under enough pressure. Therefore, it is normal to be afraid that mobile phones will bring us more burden.

The burden brought by interpersonal relationships is often the corresponding worries and negative associations in our hearts after we perceive the expectations, scrutiny, evaluation and even dissatisfaction of others (for example, will they punish us? )。 So it has something to do with the characteristics of self-mentality. People who are unsociable will certainly be more afraid of such things. So it is a concrete manifestation of social anxiety. As for why you are afraid of phone calls and interviews? Why do few people have "knocking phobia"? You should take into account that most interviews usually start with a phone call, and then the phone has an early warning function. Therefore, it is safer to knock on the door before receiving a phone call or further notice, perhaps to deliver the courier to your door. -But if you turn off your cell phone and hide in the house to avoid debt, knocking at the door may also give you the willies.

Some people say that e-mail and text messages may also bring us pressure. Why am I not afraid? My explanation is: because the phone is more mandatory than email and text messages. As soon as the bell rang, we responded immediately. Of course, we can pretend not to hear it, but we can't hide from the fifteenth day of the first grade, which will only make the next time we hear the bell more stressful. SMS and email have a great tolerance for reply time, so I can reply immediately, or I can spend a minute or two slowly wording, and if it's not urgent, I can spend half a day (when the other party chooses email or SMS to initiate communication, it usually defaults that the other party is not in such a hurry and needs to reply immediately). -time is tight, which will lead to different sense of control. Even if the pressure is the same, I can "choose" when I get involved in this pressure and when I can "choose" to escape temporarily. You can catch your breath even if you think about it. Some people say that I never need to pause when texting, and I won't be nervous even when I receive it. Yes, but at least you know you have the right to put it down. Sometimes we don't really escape, but we need to know that we have the right to choose, so that we can feel safe. The process of making a phone call is coerced, and it is impossible to catch my breath in the middle. So calling is more stressful than texting, emailing or QQ.

In addition, when a person lacks confidence in his expressive ability, he will prefer to use words rather than voice input. Because the text can be revised repeatedly and sent after consideration. And voice must be in one step. So the fear of calling may also be caused by poor voice expression. To prove this, let's see if you are also afraid of WeChat voice chat. Is it closer to the anxiety of calling or the relaxation of texting? -If it is the former, it is the pressure of voice input.

Yes, the phone rings, which means that I will be forced into a tense interpersonal relationship, unable to pause or quit, and have a certain sense of invasion. From this, you may think, does the interview have the same characteristics (the boss asked you to talk in his office)? But in fact, the phone is more threatening than the interview, because the phone can only communicate with the other party through voice, and when the other party finishes speaking, it means that I have to give a response within one or two seconds to avoid silence. The silence on the phone was particularly embarrassing. Once there is no sound, it is completely blank. So there will be a particularly strong pressure to urge everyone to answer. In an interview, at least we can have tea, pretend to think or look at each other with a wry smile when we are not talking. These interactions can fill the embarrassment of no sound, serve as a buffer when we have nothing to say, and make the atmosphere less rigid. In other words, we can all relax during the interview, which is less disturbing than calling.

Considering these potential discomforts that telephone communication may bring to people, we will have potential anxiety about taking the initiative to call others, just like taking the initiative to invade others' lives. Especially for people with higher status, such as leaders or elders, I feel impolite after offending. Our most common expression of this anxiety is: "Now is not a good time to make a phone call, is it? -getting up too early in the morning; What if people are in a meeting during working hours? Will it be bad to disturb others at dinner time? What if I drive on the road after work? In the evening, it's too late, and I may have rested; On weekends, people on weekends definitely don't want to answer the phone ... In fact, behind these expressions, we can also see that there is an assumption that calling is intrusive and the other party may be dissatisfied with me when receiving my call.

So in general, if it is not too urgent, we will send a text message first: Is it convenient to answer the phone? As mentioned above, the short message is very compulsory, which is equivalent to giving the other party the right to choose. So whether he agrees to call now or arrange another time, I will be relieved: at least for now, this relationship is not completely established by me.

To sum up, the reason why the phone rings makes people nervous is because it means that we will be coerced into a relationship, and the result of this relationship is likely to increase my pressure. The more sensitive a person is, or the more he is in a period of high pressure, the more likely he is to feel uncomfortable under coercion and have the will to escape. Similarly, we don't want to intimidate others (especially important people) into our relationship in this way. Because it's not sweet to twist a melon, we are also afraid of hurting ourselves.

Hello, why do you feel that people don't like to answer the phone now?

The following is my personal opinion:

1 First of all, the development of the communication industry has entered the Internet era. With the entry of WeChat qq into thousands of households, even my grandmother will use WeChat at the age of 90, and WeChat video calls will gradually replace telephones.

2 When using WeChat, as the receiver, you can choose to reply or not, and the initiative is in your hands! Make yourself feel more active and comfortable! On the contrary, when I got a promotion call, I didn't promise not to go to an accident. I promised to die! (For example, a good friend borrowed money and the leader suddenly asked him to go back to work overtime)

3 Some people lack self-confidence and have a late social circle. Unless you get a call from a close friend, your brain will suddenly feel anxious when you suddenly hear a noisy bell, and the conversation will be quiet. They have a serious lack of self-confidence and even inferiority since childhood, even worse than newcomers in the workplace! In view of this, I suggest that everyone go home and look in the mirror every day, or try to shoot vlog to enhance their self-confidence and strengthen themselves before they can arm themselves!

That's why I think people nowadays are unwilling to answer the phone, afraid to answer it! Thank you [smile]

Hello, everyone, I'm edamame who loves shrimp balls. I'm glad to answer this question. Why do people nowadays feel that they don't like answering the phone? The telephone was born to facilitate contact, and now it has penetrated into all aspects of society.

There may be several reasons why people don't like answering the phone now.

The first is people's dependence on WeChat. Send a WeChat if something happens, which is convenient and saves money, and will not cause sudden feelings for the other party.

The second is that some people suddenly receive a phone call and feel that their private space has been violated, which is particularly uncomfortable and sometimes leads to irritability.

The third is that after work, colleagues or leaders still call and feel that private time is occupied. Is there anything you want to talk to the unit? If you want to talk on the phone after work, you have to tell the unit that it feels unnecessary work.