Is it necessary to invite colleagues to dinner, Zhihu?

It seems to be a tradition to have a farewell meal before leaving. Then some people may have doubts, whether it is necessary to invite the leader to have a meal before leaving the company, which actually depends on different situations:

1. Did you leave your job for unpleasant reasons?

If you leave your job unhappily, I don't think it is necessary to invite everyone to dinner. Even if we eat together, we may complain about work together. In fact, it is not mandatory to invite people to dinner after leaving the company. Mainly depends on human feelings.

Do you think it is necessary to contact in the future?

If it is just an ordinary colleague relationship, there is really no need to do it many times. Because even if you want to invite you to dinner, others may not want to go. Maybe others are more willing to do their own thing. However, although I left my job, I may still have some contacts in the future, need help from others, or have a good relationship with some colleagues. It is necessary to invite everyone to dinner and chat.

Consider it a thank you for your help in your work. In this way, if you need help from others in the future, it will be easier to ask, and others will be more willing to help you.

Eating can really bring people closer together. Inviting guests to dinner also shows that you have more feelings. The mood of farewell dinner is different from ordinary dinner. With the feeling of parting, this meal may also be an opportunity to tell each other's worries.

Your chances of getting sincere advice will also be greatly increased. In this atmosphere, many people may tell you something sincerely. There may be some misunderstanding with a colleague, but it is easier to solve the misunderstanding at this time. In this way, even if I leave, my heart will be much brighter.

In addition, everyone may tell you some experiences, point out your shortcomings, and give some suggestions for future work. No matter which colleague gives you advice, or the leader gives you advice, it is very valuable wealth. Perhaps it is at this time that people are more willing to talk openly. All good things must come to an end. Farewell may be just for a better reunion next time.

To sum up, please don't invite you to dinner before leaving your job, mainly depending on the individual.