Talking about girls' speech skills

Talk about girls' speech skills. Some boys chat with girls, because they don't have much experience and some oral expression skills, so in the process of chatting, girls don't find it very attractive. Once the topic does not continue, it is difficult for their relationship to continue. Here are some language skills for chatting with girls.

On the skill set of girls 1 1. Keep a proper distance from girls and don't pester others all day, just like flies. Whoever does this to you, you get bored, so the mentality is very important. Remember this routine: hot and cold, playing hard to get. The performance of pestering girls all day is very worthless and diaosi.

In addition, don't take out the momentum of "if you don't marry" and "if you have to seduce you", girls will feel more pressure and will only accelerate away from you!

2. It is very important to be reserved when chatting with girls. It is important not to export them all in detail, but to keep some mystery. There must be something that girls don't understand and something that is unknown to you. You must create male charm and girls will be attracted by curiosity.

Skills and thinking are very important. I used to be a mute with low emotional intelligence, and I couldn't chat. I always thought that I could catch up with a girl by being nice to her, and I always thought that I could win a good impression by being a serious man. I also tried to pester me every day, impress me with my heart, often talk to girls, what to do in the morning ..... I often praised girls' circle of friends, but the other party ignored me, and finally got nothing, wasting a lot of time and energy.

Later, I learned many shortcuts to pick up girls in "Alpine Love Network", and soon became lovers, and the relationship could be confirmed in a few days. I suggest you go to Baidu to help you quickly improve the efficiency of picking up girls and master the shortcut to attract girls.

At first, the girls didn't have any feelings for you. As long as they remain friends, there is still room for action. This is not to please you on your knees, to brush your sense of existence every day, or to relax your contact with girls. At the same time, enhance their attractiveness, such as image dressing, humorous chat, hobbies, self-cultivation and so on. .....

4. Hide your desires and forget your needs. Don't give your sister a reason to refuse, cook the frog in warm water step by step, seize the opportunity and hit it with one blow! Some boys and girls are a little more active in chatting or just can't hold it when they meet, and they want to have sex with her when they are hungry. This is a huge mistake!

We call on girls to choose the right person and don't expect too much casually. If your attraction is not done well, your sister will ignore you as soon as she comes up, and even speak impulsively. At least ordinary friends can't do it. This situation is impossible, so be prepared to give up as soon as possible.

6. Many men think it is necessary to have a pleasant chat with girls, so they rack their brains and talk about all the topics they think, which makes them very tired, but girls still don't like you in the end. Why? Because the topic itself can't attract girls, it doesn't help to upgrade the relationship, but those interesting chat routines with high emotional intelligence.

Only by stirring up a girl's emotions and making her happy and sad like riding a roller coaster will she have a long-lasting feeling and memory for you.

On girls' speech skills, episode 2, exaggeration and mistake

When a girl points out your shortcomings, don't excuse, don't lie, and don't deny it. Admit it and exaggerate it.

For example, a girl asks, "Do you often meet such girls?"

You replied, "Yes, you are the100th person I accosted today."

Identify false questions and bypass them without answering them.

Not all questions need answers. Sometimes she just asks them out of curiosity, but she doesn't really want to know. For example, a girl asks you, "Do you like children?"

The easiest way to deal with it is to pretend not to hear it.

Admit it first, then deny it.

Contrary to the exaggerated admission method above. Pretend to admit the girl's accusation first, and then lead to a new explanation, so that the girl can find herself stupid.

The girl asked, "Are you chasing girls?"

You replied, "Yes, I picked up a lot of girls ... I picked up a lot of girls in the swimming pool."

The girl asked, "Do you want to chase me?"

You replied, "Yes. I recently finished sprinting and prepared to participate in the Olympic Games, lacking a sparring partner. "

Ask a rhetorical question

Rhetorical question is a common way to jump out of the trap of the other party. Those politicians like to play this old trick during the US presidential election.

In fact, the essence is still "broken frame." The other party designs a frame, and instead of jumping in, you throw her a new frame.

Some questions give you two choices on the surface, but in fact they don't give you a chance to choose. Whichever answer you choose is a trap.

Just like the alternative questioning method in marketing: "Do you want one tea egg or two?"

The girl asked an embarrassing question: "If your mother and I both fell into the water, who would you save first?"

You can ask, "If your father and I both fall into the water, who will you save first?"

Replace "I …" with "you …"

Any question that makes you feel embarrassed is because you try to answer it with "I …". If you jump out of the circle and turn "my question" into "your question", you won't feel embarrassed and difficult to answer.

"I" refers to myself, not defense. Answering questions with "I ..." is an excuse to make you look weak and make it worse.

"You" means pointing at each other, not attacking. Answer the question with "You …", aggressive, tit for tat, strong and confident!

For example, if you talk to a girl and say you want to know her, she asks, "Why?"

If we use "I …", we can think of the answer as "I think you are beautiful …" "I fell in love with you at first sight …" "I'm not a bad person, so what does it matter if I know you?" None of these answers are strong.

Do you remember the devil's answer: "Because you don't look like a bad person."

For another example, you sent a text message to a girl you met, and she didn't remember. She texted back: "Who are you?"

If you answer with "I ...", "I was Ayue who accosted you that day ..." "I was the handsome guy who asked you for your number at the mall!" They're all vulgar.

If you use "you …", you should answer "Haha, it seems that you have left so many numbers for so many boys that I can't remember who I am."

A wordy answer

Funnily enough, long-winded answers will make you look different. Just like the confession in A Chinese Odyssey: "There was once a sincere love in front of me ..."

For example, a girl asks you, "Why did you come to talk to me at that time?"

The short answer is: "I felt it the first time I saw you." Or ridicule: "I also regret the impulse of that day."

But if you are a little wordy, you can start telling the story of Haruki Murakami 100% girl, which is sensational, romantic and wordy ... After you finish, you should meditate for a long time and don't look the girl in the eye. When you turn your head again, you suddenly find the girl in tears.

Joke first, then be serious.

That is, attractive answers first, and then comfortable answers. Create a push-pull effect.

For example, the question above: "Do you really like me?"

"I really like your cooking ... (pause)! "Let that girl hit you.

You hold her hand and look at her affectionately: "You are in my heart, always the afternoon when I met you, the little white rabbit in the park ..."

Answer vulgar questions carefully.

What is a vulgar question, "What's your name?" "What do you do?" "Where do you live?" ……

These problems make the conversation superficial, and it is impossible to communicate heart to heart.

What is heart-to-heart communication? "How did you break up with your last boyfriend?"

If you answer a girl's vulgar question, she will not think that she brought the topic into vulgarity, but will only think that you are vulgar.

How to answer vulgar questions?

To complicate a simple problem.

For example, a girl asked, "Where do you live?" You replied, "I live in Nanshan. You live in Luohu, then we are in one mountain and one water. "

Another example is a girl asking, "What do you do?" You replied: "I design the future mobile phone, which can be put in your ear, and you can dial directly when you say the name."

Answer with your body instead of your mouth.

The girl asked, "Do you really like me?"

Don't talk, give a deep kiss. "The moon represents my heart ..."

The same question needs different answers.

There is no standard answer to any question. We should give different answers according to different objects in different situations.

Simply put, according to the method of seduction, the attractive and comfortable stage, the attractive stage should show that you are not interested in girls, and the comfortable stage should show that you have a good impression on girls. This is the simplest division, and any question has attractive answers and comfortable answers.

For example, girls love to ask, "Do you really like me?"

Attraction answers, "I like you ... but don't get me wrong, just as an ordinary friend."

Comfort replied: "You are in my heart, and it will always be the afternoon when I met you, the little white rabbit in the park ..."

For another example, the girl said, "I have a boyfriend."

Attractive response: "Great. Is he rich? Next time we eat, we must invite him to eat together. "

Comfort replied: "I know you have a boyfriend, but I still love you hopelessly. I am willing to be your body double forever."

Talking about girls' speech skills and setting up three provocative girl routines;

1、

"Sometimes I really envy you."

"Be liked by a handsome guy like me"

2、

"Maybe we should kiss."

"Relieve the awkward atmosphere between us."

3、

"If you don't like it, get out."

"I have made the sheets."

4、

"Will you come near me?"

"why"

"Want to hug you"

5、

"Why did you hit me?"

"When did I hit you?"

"You touched my heart" (Q&A chat language)

6,

"The world is too messy now."

"Come, hide in my heart."

7,

"I can't get wet when I think about you."

"Really?"

"I'm not just talking about eyes."

8,

"After a busy day, I want to sleep."

"Go to sleep."

"Do you want to come and sleep together?"

9,

"It's late at night and the moon is hiding in the clouds."

"I want to hide in your arms, too."

10,

"Come here, I'll tell you a secret."

"My bed. He misses you. "

1 1, you are so cute! I won't give it back when the wind blows into my arms.

12, I want to buy a piece of land from you. What land? Buy your unswerving dedication.

13, guess where my heart is? On the left. Wrong, my heart is on your side.

14, are you tired? You've been running around in my head all day.

15, why did you hurt me! I hurt you? I like you so much!

16 Can you be my Oreo? Why? Because I want to hit on you!

17, can you guess what constellation I am? Don't you know? I want to do everything for you.

You are a rabbit! Why do you say that? Otherwise, my heart has been beating.

19, do you know what is in the eyes of the person you love? Stone? No, you showed up.

20. I have a shortcoming. What shortcomings? Against you