How to break up with a man who is having an affair?

To break up with each other completely, you must first make up your mind. Delete all the contact information of the other party, even if the other party sends a text message, don't reply, or just one word: get out! This is stronger than anything. This will make the other person think that you don't like the other person. You want to break up with each other quickly, you don't want to be each other's lover any more, you just want to return to the original quiet life, just like your world is better without each other. Therefore, if you want to break up with each other completely, you must be cruel. To break up with each other completely, you must learn to transfer your feelings. The so-called pursuit of people in this life, no matter how big, will eventually lead to family unhappiness, which is a failure. Therefore, your problems and troubles always need to be solved by yourself. People who have extramarital affairs often take pleasure from you because they are unhappy. These people often betray their family responsibilities. Since they can even break their vows, when you have an affair, your thoughts wander. Your happiness and sadness are often closely linked. On the one hand, you like each other, on the other hand, you can't see each other, or you hate each other very much when they can't satisfy your desires. You always vacillate between contradiction and embarrassment, but if you don't break up with each other completely, you will bury your life in such a boundless sea of suffering. How to say goodbye to a man who has an affair? 2. Men's psychology about extramarital affairs. When a man expresses his love outside marriage, he only wants this woman in his heart. He won't naively want to marry her. He thinks his wife is very nice. When a woman expresses her love, she often flashes the picture of two people standing in the church in wedding dresses. This completely different mentality constitutes a huge psychological difference between men and women in extramarital affairs. After experiencing the fresh period of marriage (about two years), men began to fantasize about cheating in their hearts. But for him, family is a very safe, fit and leisure vest. He struggled to find what he called noble love in the vast sea of people, but there was a yellow episode in his bones. He has a wife who is very satisfied with him and trusts him, and this trust urges him to speed up the pace and find a confidante. He has no love for his wife and even has a heavy sense of responsibility for his family. He will make a lot of efforts for the growth of his children, and be a good husband and a good man in front of his family and outsiders because his wife suddenly falls ill one day. The second truth: the attraction of a small and successful married man who is having an affair is mostly created by his wife. The charm of mature men in them has always been nurtured with pride and self-confidence in the appreciation of their wives. His eyes showed peace and warmth because of his wife's gentleness. He learned how to express his feelings through his wife's teaching. He won't go to that dirty place, it's neither safe nor affordable. Looking for a safe and inexpensive woman, as long as she puts on the coat of "love", the rich emotional world will be enriched and the sexual problem will be solved. The third truth: in fact, even if he doesn't meet you, he will fall in love with other women at first sight. This kind of man may or may not hate his unhappy marriage, which seems to have nothing to do with expressing love to you. He will say to this woman: I love two women most in my life, one is you and the other is my mother. It's not that he has no feelings for this woman. He always misses her and buys his wife something a little cheaper than a gift when he is on a business trip. At home, because of you, I am often absent-minded about my wife. This is exactly what he wants to feel. He hopes to have the passion of a young love season and a colorful life under a stable living condition. Sometimes, I will think of marrying you when I am passionate, but I will wisely reject my weak soul afterwards. Smart women will find that there are fewer and fewer stupid men who divorce as soon as they have an affair. The fourth truth: men just want to fall in love, and they are both happy and afraid of the idea that women outside marriage want to marry him. You want to marry him. Men are proud that this woman really loves him, but they are afraid that she will entangle with women without regrets. The end of this relationship, mostly from the moment when the woman asked him for a divorce and she wanted to marry him. However, the man who was having an affair didn't want to leave her at once, so he took a roundabout tactic. So, just as the man promised to "divorce his wife in 2005" and marry Xiaoqing, the same promise was born. Until the woman couldn't stand it, regardless of the beauty's great anger, she vowed to leave him. The problem is that most women are unwilling to admit that they love the wrong person. When a man says a gentle word and adds a few crocodile tears, it is easy for a woman to forget her previous scars. As a result, the man got panic disorder and the woman got crazy unless she got married. The fifth truth: a man who repeatedly makes excuses not to divorce and desperately expresses his love for you has no intention of marrying you at all. He doesn't want to marry you, so he will find an excuse to break up with you. By this time, he has regretted developing too deep a relationship with you and exhausted himself. What he is considering at this time is how to end it with you. It's best if you can't wait and leave. Maybe you're still sorry for him. In any case, you must not affect his career and family. On the night when you write a farewell letter and prepare to leave, he will kneel in front of you and say with muddy tears that his heart is broken. He will treasure you in the deepest part of his heart Every night when the music is played, he almost cramps to death. How to say goodbye to an extramarital lover? 3 how do men break up outside marriage? 1. Reduce contradictions. Forgive him for saving his family, and don't have any more contradictions. Don't criticize each other even if there are contradictions between the two sides. Wait until the mood calms down. If the two sides blame each other, it will only make the distance between them bigger and the problem more difficult to solve. Try to be tolerant of each other when dealing with problems, because tolerance can reduce many contradictions in life and promote harmony between husband and wife. Second, change the way you get along. Why change the way you get along? Because there are problems in your marriage, a large part of the reason is that there are problems in the way you get along after marriage. The model at that time didn't suit you. Maybe it used to be a monotonous life, which made you mistakenly think that this is the life that ordinary couples should live. However, when life lacks passion, men are easily attracted by the novelty of the outside world, which leads to derailment. Changing the way we get along with each other, of course, does not mean strictly controlling him, but creating a richer and more interesting life, such as traveling regularly and participating in parent-child activities regularly. Third, communicate seriously. 80% of the contradictions between people are caused by poor communication. What you want to say is not conveyed to the other party, and the other party's understanding is biased, so contradictions arise. Especially between husband and wife, two people live together for a long time, and there is no kitchen in the bedroom, so communication problems are even more troublesome. The trick to divorce recovery is to calm down and talk about marriage and children. If you want to make up, you must take the initiative to admit your own problems and show your willingness to work hard to improve family relations.