I just saw my wife’s cell phone and discovered that she is still in contact with her ex from ten years ago (I have been married to her for ten years). What should I do?

It is really difficult for a person to forget his first love. First love is the love that comes from everyone's heart. So it's hard to forget. You have been married for ten years. Since there is no interference in life, they can live in peace. Forcibly telling them not to contact each other, judging from past events, it is impossible to stop contact. It will only temporarily suppress this kind of feeling. If something happens between you and you are angry or have conflicts, they will resume contact, discuss the truth, and talk about it.

The wise approach is to further deepen the relationship between two people. Make her feel that you are better than her ex in every way. Don't interfere with her privacy, and your relationship will be "peaceful," without interfering with each other. Be generous and you will get good results. Be careful not to artificially push her to the side of her ‘ex’. As long as there is a conflict between you, she will seek emotional comfort, and talking to her ex will be her channel to vent. As long as she hasn't done anything sorry for you, the matter can be settled peacefully.