A man who keeps in touch with his ex? How should a woman fight him back?

My boyfriend broke up with his ex three months later. Now he is very kind to me and will boldly show me his old circle of friends and photo albums.

Because they haven't been apart for a long time, he certainly can't forget his predecessor at present. From the circle of friends he showed me, I think it should be a sign of letting go.

But I will still mind. I want him to stop praising his predecessor and delete his predecessor, big cousin. Would it be stingy for me to ask? What should I do?

A:

Women must have confidence first.

Now that your boyfriend has broken up with his ex, and he is with you, you must believe that you must be excellent in some way, and there must be something better than his ex-girlfriend.

Because of this, you attracted him, you are very attractive to him, very attractive.

So don't doubt it. Instead, you should be generous and confident. My mother is excellent, charming and charming.

Show your strengths, make continuous progress and become a better woman. At this time, your confidence will make him focus on you.

Women must know how to trust.

If a man is always evasive, never reveals his personal privacy, does not show off to you in the circle of friends, and does not take you to meet his friends, then you can doubt him.

But if a man shows you his circle of friends generously, tells you something about his predecessor normally, and expresses your existence in public, then you should know how to trust him.

He has been separated from his predecessor for three months, so don't fantasize about what else they have, whether they will still miss and love their predecessor.

When you doubt, you will question him. Once you question him, there will be no trust.

Originally, men thought you were excellent, you were confident, much better than his ex-girlfriend, and associating with you was a treasure.

But once you do something you don't trust him, he immediately thinks that you are like this. Even if you are not as good as your predecessor, he will think of his predecessor's goodness and feel that he should not break up with his predecessor and regret it.

Finally, women should have a sense of ownership.

What is master consciousness?

In ancient times, there was another emperor, and this emperor was sure to do something.

It may be to dismiss several officials, promote several officials, or enact new laws. In short, it is to let others know that the regime has changed. I am the emperor now, and you all have to listen to me.

This is called master consciousness.

Then when you associate with this man, you want him to stop praising his predecessor and delete his predecessor. In fact, it is also a sense of ownership, but it is a little late.

So this behavior is right, but the timing is not good enough. You should do these things when you have just established a relationship or are about to establish a relationship, not wait until now.

Because at that time, you can say to him prudently: I don't like my man's contact with other opposite sex. I can't accept my man's praise for other women. ?

In this way, men will realize that now you are the head of the family and you have the final say.

But now that time has passed, you can't be so tough, but you should be a little softer when you talk to him about it.

Dear, women are a little narrow-minded. We can't accept the contact between boyfriends and ex-girlfriends, because it will be like a thorn, which will always be uncomfortable in my flesh.

I believe you can handle this matter. After all, you love me so much?

Then give him a kiss and say, I love you too ~?

Then a man with self-knowledge will handle it himself.

What if he doesn't handle it? This also shows one thing, he is a half-hearted person, and we just saw him early.

If I were you, I would leave without looking back. After all, you don't deserve a good woman like me.

My husband has a good ability to make money. He gives me all the money and always puts me first.

Food, drink and clothes are all useful and interesting things. The first one is for me.

However, it is such a nearly perfect husband, but his personality is extremely extreme and rude.

A casual remark will make him angry and keep it in his mind.

His temper will explode in a few minutes. As long as he calls, I'm busy, and I hang up on him, he keeps calling and comes back to yell at you as soon as he comes in.

When you are angry, you can yell, deduct all my money, let me roll and drag me.

Big cousin, I'm confused. I don't understand why he can have extreme warmth and extreme scum! Kneel down and beg big cousin to dispel doubts. I urgently need to jump out of the fire pit. I am looking forward to it!

Isn't this a perfect man? How many women want to have such a man.

But we only look at the second half, with extreme personality, easy to get angry, short temper, strong desire for control and slight domestic violence.

Isn't this typical love rat? All women are afraid of meeting such a man.

What a woman wants and wants most is a man, which is the most interesting place.

This man is both an angel and a demon. In fact, this is the performance of a normal person.

Just like we sometimes want to be decadent, we just lie in bed and do nothing, eat takeout and watch TV shows all day.

Sometimes I especially want to make progress, work hard to make money, swear to buy my own nest, and work overtime spontaneously just to do a good job.

We can't always be decadent, but we can't always make progress. We will want to make progress after a period of decadence, and we will want to be decadent after a period of progress. We will always be here.

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Switch in this state.

When he has been acting like a warm man, his demon side will gradually emerge and make him a? Love rat? .

It's like you've lost weight 1 week in a row, and there must be a demon in your head calling you to have a big meal.

What about after he performed for a while? Love rat? Later, his angel side will gradually emerge, making him a warm man.

Just like eating fried chicken with barbecue hot pot for a few days, there must be an angel calling you to lose weight in your mind.

Then the devil appears to tell you to eat a big meal, then the angel tells you to lose weight, then the devil appears to tell you to eat a big meal, and then the angel appears to tell you to lose weight, and so on.

Is that why this man has been warm to men and women? Love rat? Between switching, you will often see these two faces in him.

Decadent and enterprising people are real people, so those who are both angels and demons are real people.

What should such a man do?