I often chat with a Scorpio girl recently. Every time I talk to her, she always replies. We know each other in real life, and we play the same game.

It seems that the people below are very stubborn.

First of all, let me answer you whether she likes you... This is not necessarily true, but there is a high chance that she only treats you as a friend.

How to see it? First, you need to clarify a few questions:

1. Do you talk to her a lot in real life? It doesn’t mean whether you talk about real-life issues a lot, but whether you talk face-to-face a lot. If not, I’m sorry that your relationship is not as deep as you thought.

2. Does she have the same attitude towards other people? As long as you have some social skills, this question shouldn't trouble you. If you have social problems, I suggest that you chat with a few boys who you can talk to and know her well, such as asking which girl is good, and you can usually get answers. Then again, if she treats other people the same way, then it's a pity that you are not that special to her, but it's good to know that she treats you as a friend.

3. Has she ever talked to you about topics other than games? Occasionally pulling a little bit does not fall within this range. If you have chatted for a long time about two or three non-game topics, then congratulations, she has a pretty good relationship with you, and then you can go back and look at the results of the entire chat (pay attention to your own performance, don’t be obsessed with it) I am obsessed with looking at the records of other girls...), if you perform well, congratulations again, you have a high probability of gaining her trust.

And based on the above, the deepest relationship between you and her is just a trustworthy friend.

On the other hand, does the girl know that you like her? Answer: She at least knows that you have a great crush on her! Girls' emotions are more delicate than boys', and even if they don't like her, she can still see such an obvious affection.

Then look back at yourself, are you sure you really like her? Don’t rush to answer, let me ask you to think about a few questions first:

1. How much do you know about her? After all, you also said that you just started chatting recently. In fact, you only saw her social side. If one day you find out that she has other bad shortcomings (more serious ones like never using paper for a large size...), will you be able to accept her? You must be able to accept it, because you will never think so badly of a girl you have a crush on, right...

2. Are you sure that your so-called feeling of liking her is not a feeling of thirst or impulsiveness? Of course, most of the things you like are impulsive, but just imagine, if other girls (you can take the girls around you who have a good relationship with you as an example) interact with you in this way, would you feel the same way? ? If so, then your feeling is just a good impression, and even if you like her, it is just as a friend.

3. How much are you willing to pay for her? This is a good idea, right? Even if she does nothing but play games, even if she chats like this with other men, would you still treat her like this?

If you find that you still like her, then let me give you a few suggestions:

1. Don’t listen to the nonsense of the people downstairs. Talking about what you love is a terrible thing that only diaosi can do. You should work hard to deepen your relationship now. You have to know that confessing love in a relationship of this level will not only end the relationship, but also make it awkward to be friends. It’s all lies to say that you are a good person and can still be friends. Ask any normal person who has been raped. After confessing, I can still be friends with you without being embarrassed or pretentious. Confession is equivalent to manipulating the relationship. Once you confess, the relationship cannot be restored. It will either improve or get worse. You must remember this.

2. Gradually deepen your feelings and learn to be tolerant. The same goes for pursuing things step by step. Don't impose your feelings on others just because you like them. This would be suspected of emotional kidnapping. Maintain this relationship first, and then continue to deepen it. Occasionally discuss other issues in life, treat her to a meal, make a small joke, make a bet, and try to make the atmosphere between you active and happy. Then be aware that instead of pulling her into your own world, you should enter her world.

For example, maybe you still like to play the guitar, but that doesn't matter. You don't have to ask her to play the guitar. You can just play it for her. If she says she wants to learn, you can teach her. What you should do is, if If she likes tailoring, then you can actively ask about related things and hope that she can make you a glove or scarf. However, please do not use it as an interaction if you are not interested in it. For example, if you clearly hate cooking, there is no need to ask her for it. She taught you how to cook, so she can easily see your distaste.

3. Be generous but confident. If she has a good relationship with other boys, if she is jealous, please speak up boldly, but don't show your stinginess. Generally, it is more appropriate to say in a joking way, "Oh, I really envy that man, I want to be with you too." , instead of doing this with a black face (don’t think it’s easy to do, you will understand later). If a competitor appears, it is both a challenge and an opportunity, because she may be snatched away by others, but you can take this opportunity to express your love more boldly, or even confess your love.

In short, you still have a long way to go, and it’s not just love.