Yu Qiuyu’s classic quotes about love

1. If you want something, let it go. If it can come back to you, it will belong to you forever; if it does not come back, it is not yours at all.

2. A person sheds tears because of pain; a person feels pain because he cares; a person cares because he has feelings; a person feels feelings only because of you. It's a person! Therefore, if you feel something, care about it, feel pain, or shed tears, it means that you are a complete person who cannot be more complete. When you are sad, forgive yourself. You are just a person. There is no need to regard yourself as so indestructible.

3. If one day, someone who can't come back disappears, and someone who can't live without leaves, it doesn't matter. Time will bring the right person to you. Before that, all you have to do is take good care of yourself.

4. You can remain silent and ignore my anxiety; you can not reply to messages and ignore my anxiety; you can use my concern as the reason for your irritability; you can treat me as The thoughts are thrown into the corner and ignored. You can smile at other people, you can give others hugs, you can be kind to the whole world, but forget that I am always sad. ------ You are just relying on me to like you, and that is the only reason that makes me humble.

5. There are some people in life who we pass by, but we don’t have time to meet; we meet, but we don’t have time to get to know each other; we get acquainted, but we don’t have time to get familiar with them; we are familiar with them, but we still have to say goodbye. ------Be kind to yourself, because life is short; be kind to the people around you, because you may not meet them in the next life.

6. A person’s life begins at the age of 0, grows at the age of 10, hesitates at the age of 20, is oriented at the age of 30, works hard at the age of 40, looks back at the age of 50, grows old at the age of 60, rubs the hemp at the age of 70, and bask in the sun at the age of 80 , lying on the bed at the age of 90, hanging on the wall at the age of 100. The greatness of life and the desolation of death. When you can hold hands, please don't stand side by side. When you can hug, please don't hold hands. When you can love each other, please don't talk about separation. Life is just so short.

7. When I was a child, I hoped that I would grow up quickly, but when I grew up, I found that I had lost my childhood. When I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover. When I was in love, I missed the freedom of being single. ———— Many things always feel good when they are not obtained. After getting them, we begin to understand: "We are losing at the same time when we get them."

8. Facing is not necessarily the saddest thing. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. Getting it may not last long. Losing does not necessarily mean you no longer have it. Don’t fall in love because of loneliness, don’t fall in love because of mistakes and stay lonely all your life.

9. What can be cultivated slowly is not love, but habits. What can be gained over time is not emotion but emotion. So love is a momentary gift. If you have it, you have it. If you don't have it, you don't have it. But on the other hand, love and marriage are actually not the same thing. Not all love requires marriage, and not all marriages include love.

10. In this world, no one can truly feel the pain of another person. Thousands of arrows pierce your heart, and you are in agony. This is only your business. Others may sympathize or sigh, but they will never know how badly your wounds have festered.

11. Stop regretting what you missed. Only others will have the opportunity to meet the people and things you miss, and only you will have the opportunity to have them if others miss them. Everyone will miss it, everyone has missed it, but what truly belongs to you will never be missed.

12. Because of you, I have been serious, I have changed, I have worked hard, I have been sad...I am stupid, because of you; I feel pain, because of you; late at night, you are my only one. Such habitual memories... I don’t want to struggle with the past, I don’t want to work hard for the past, I don’t want to worry about missing you, but these are just things I don’t want to do, I can’t do it. . .

13. If you enter "story" on Google, you can get 113,000,000 results, but if you enter "ending", you can only get 44,900,000 results. It can be seen that not every story has an ending.

14. To be a happy woman, you must be happy. Even if you are not happy, you must create happiness. Smiling may not make the world bloom, but it can relax your tight chest. If you are happy, just smile and make everyone happy. When you are infected, sad, cry, beautify, talk, then everything returns to zero, feel cheerful, smile to your humble self, draw comfort and strength, trust, feel refreshed, and then you can dance lightly, life is actually nothing Big deal.

15. Some people, even though they know they are wrong, have to persist because they are unwilling to do so; some people, even though they know they are loved, have to give up because there is no end; sometimes, they know there is no way out. , but still moving forward, because I am used to it.

16. People who are afraid of being hurt will never find true happiness; people who are afraid of hurting others will always be hurt intentionally or unintentionally by others.

17. They said, stop being naive and be more steady. They are right, but can I relive the joy of childhood for the last time and then abandon that innocent heart? Be what everyone wants me to be, a mature and stable person. I have always wondered, if they saw my happy expression at that moment, would they continue to urge me to grow and mature?

18. Sometimes, we feel that we have come to an end, but in fact it is just that our hearts have come to an end. No matter how deep the despair is, it is a process and it will eventually end. Avoiding it is never an option. Have the courage to move forward boldly, maybe the opportunity will be in the next second. Jimmy said that I always see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair.

19. The most cruel way to treat a lover is not the intertwining of love and hate, nor deception and betrayal, but the gradual indifference of love after extreme love.

20. In love, there is always a protagonist and a supporting role. It is the protagonist who is tired and the supporting role who is hurt. Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury: cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt others. , choose to hurt yourself; life is a kind of endurance, and you need to learn to support it. To support career, support family, and even support the entire society, if there is support, there will be tolerance. How much weight is supported, how much pressure must be endured.

21. People who really love you can’t tell the reason why they really love you. They only know that they don’t care about others; people who really love you always make you angry, but you find that they don’t care about others. I don’t know what he did wrong; the person who truly loves you will only cry in front of you alone; the person who truly loves you will scold you when you forget to reply to his text message; the person who truly loves you , I rarely praise you in person, but I am sure in my heart that you are the best.

22. If I didn’t care about you, I wouldn’t laugh for you; I wouldn’t become so fragile; I wouldn’t care about everything you do; I wouldn’t quietly think about you in a daze; no I will remember every word you said; I will not feel heartbroken for you; I will not cherish the moments with you alone; I will not always think of you involuntarily; I will not let pain torture myself so easily; I will not for Arguing with you over unimportant details; all because I care about you.

23. If one day I don’t bother you anymore, if one day you don’t have me in your life, there will be no more calls every day, no more messages every day, no more cares every day, and no more little tempers every day. I expressed everything, you knew it, you understood it, you understood it, and you were finally moved, but I left. What is strange today is familiar yesterday...

24.1, what I miss is not you, but the fatal past you gave me. 2. The broken promises, the yesterday that cannot be put together again. 3. The most painful pain is forgiveness, and the darkest pain is despair. 4. It was you who made my waiting pale and made my persistence ironic. 5. I can only forget about the scenery along the way. 6. We practice smiling all the time, and finally become people who dare not cry. 7. Once upon a time, the sea was drying up and the rocks were rotting, but it was no match for getting together and being separated.

25. If one day, you want to leave me, I will not keep you, I know you have your reasons; if one day, you say you still love me, I will tell you, in fact, I have always Waiting for you; if one day we pass by each other, I will stop, stare at your retreating back, and tell myself that I once loved that person.

Maybe we can fall in love many times in our life, but there is always one person who can make us laugh the brightest, cry the deepest, and think the deepest.

26. No matter how difficult life is, in the end you will always find someone you are willing to be silly with.

27. Everyone has a blind spot from which they cannot get out and others cannot break into. I keep my deepest secrets there. You don’t understand me, I don’t blame you. Everyone has a wound, deep or shallow...I put the reddest blood there. -You don’t understand me, I don’t blame you. Everyone has a line of tears, drinking cold water and brewing hot tears. I put my most poignant grievances there. You don’t understand me, I don’t blame you.

28. I had no time to participate in your past, but I will accompany you in your future to the end.

29. I also have bitterness and suffering, so I won’t talk about it. I also have obsessions that I won’t let go of, so I won’t talk about them. I also have thousands of twists and turns, so I won’t talk about it. I'm not pretending to be stupid and not saying anything. It’s not that I haven’t seen it, it’s not that I haven’t thought about it, it’s not that I don’t understand it, it’s just that I don’t talk about it.

30. When you still want to continue, never say goodbye; when you can still bear it, never say give up; when you can't let go of someone, never ever say you no longer love him (her).

31. If, in the end, the person around me is really not you. After going through so many ups and downs, they will eventually separate. If the story comes to the end, there will be other people around us. If memories, promises and determination to love each other become small and vulnerable in the face of reality. No matter what happens in the future, no matter what the ending is. Now I am still willing to love persistently. ------ Let's wait for our end together, the end.

32. If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together; if you love someone, you will be inexplicably disappointed when you are together. Like someone, you will always be happy; love someone, you will often shed tears. If you like someone, you will smile slightly when you think of him; if you love someone, if you think of him, you will stare at the sky in a daze. To like someone is to see their advantages; to love someone is to tolerate their shortcomings. ------ Like is a mood; love is a feeling.

33. I hope you are that hedgehog, I give you a soft hug, and you give me bloody love.

34. Silence is a girl’s biggest cry.

34. There is always a person who always lives in my heart, but disappears from life.

35. Woman, you are always so afraid of separation, but you always pretend to be strong; Woman, you are always so afraid of the night, but you always hide in secret; Woman, you are always so afraid of being alone, but you always I am alone; Woman, you are always so easy to give, knowing that it is pain, but you are still so persistent; Woman, you are always so easily hurt, knowing that it is deception, but you still deceive yourself; Woman, why are you always so stupid, making people Feeling distressed.

36. I often inadvertently think of someone from my past. It’s not that I can’t forget it, but that I can’t let it go. Those worries that you don’t want to mention to anyone anymore are growing secretly in the dark corners. It’s always when you don’t understand love that you meet someone you shouldn’t give up. After you understand love, you inflict unintentional hurt. Only when you meet someone can you truly understand the meaning of love; only when you miss someone can you truly feel the pain of heartache. Feel.

37. You, the most important passer-by, are only a passer-by because you have never stayed for me. You once sowed the seeds of joy in my life, but they were just seeds without blooming because you never watered or fertilized them. There was a scar in my life. The scar was because you never showed me gentle mercy. You once gave me a ray of light and suddenly brought all the darkness. The reason why it is dark is because you never thought of lighting up for me.

38. We have always felt that we can achieve happiness by compromising, making do, and tolerating, but when you lower your bottom line, you will get lower results. ------Don't always complain that the people you meet are unreliable. If others always treat you this way, then you must have taught others to treat you this way.

------ Love is equal, you can give more, you can also love him more, but it is never compromise, accommodation or tolerance.

39. Time makes deep things become deeper and deeper, and shallow things become shallower. If you look at it lightly, you will be less hurt. As time passes and love fades, it will fall apart. ------Don't wait for the people you shouldn't wait for, and don't hurt the hearts you shouldn't. It really takes us a long, long time to understand what kind of people and things we really miss.

40. The smoke is rising, I will wait for you at the door. As the sun sets, I'll wait for you on the mountainside. The leaves are yellow, I'm waiting for you under the tree. The moon is bent, I will wait for you on the fifteenth day. When the drizzle comes, I'll wait for you under the umbrella. The water is frozen, I'm waiting for you by the river. Life is tired, I'm waiting for you in heaven. We are old, I will wait for you in the next life. What can stay together until old age is not only love, but also responsibility and habits.

41. Plato’s famous saying: 1. If you love, please love deeply; if you abandon, please do it thoroughly; don’t be ambiguous and hurt others and yourself. 2. The most regretful thing in life is to give up easily what should not be given up and stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted. 3. Said, I thought the bird could not fly across the sea because the bird did not have the courage to fly across the sea. Ten years later, I discovered that it was not that the bird could not fly across the sea, but that there was no longer waiting on the other side of the sea.

42. Remember, not tears can restore what is lost, so don’t shed your tears easily; remember, you must cry if you are not sad, so don’t be so stingy with your smile; remember, it’s not Give if you think you can, so don’t make a promise so easily; remember, it’s not that you haven’t done well enough, so don’t pity yourself for accomplishing nothing; remember, you’re not the only one working hard, so don’t give up easily .

43. If confession is a kind of harm, I choose to lie. If lies are also hurt, I choose silence.

44. When you choose to be strong for the first time, you must think clearly: Are you ready to bear everything? Because once you choose to be strong, even if you are just pretending, you must always stick to it. Because your past strength will make people think that no matter how great the pain is, you can still endure it.

45. Never bear grudge against a man. After all, he once loved you, loved you, and gave you happiness. Never say that there are no good men in this world anymore. Maybe tomorrow, you will meet the man who loves you. In your eyes, no matter how bad he is, he is still good. In fact, there is no need to hold grudges after a breakup, let alone give up on yourself. Love does not belong to two fixed people, but a combination

46. Only after experiencing pain can you know how to protect yourself; Only after crying can you know what heartache feels like; Only after being stupid can you know how to persist and give up at the right time. Only after falling in love do you realize that you are actually very fragile. In fact, life does not require such meaningless persistence. If you don’t have something, you really can’t let it go.

47. One day you will forget me and devote yourself to new love and indulge in her world; one day you will have a beautiful wife and lovely children; one day you will be busy in the complicated world. In the crowd, forget the dreams of your youth; one day you and I will pass by each other, but cannot recognize each other; one day you will occasionally think of my name, but cannot remember my appearance; one day you will die in old age. Ward, you will never think of me again until you die.

48. Someone told me that the memory of a fish is only 7 seconds. After 7 seconds, it will not remember the past and everything will become new again. Therefore, the fish will never feel bored in that small fish tank. I would rather be a fish. I will forget everything once the 7 seconds pass. The people I have met and the things I have done can all disappear. But I am not a fish. I can’t forget the person I love, I can’t forget the pain of caring, I can’t forget the pain of lovesickness...

49. I can’t hide secrets, nor can I hide sadness, just as I can’t hide love. Your joy cannot hide the hesitation when you are separated. I am so calm, if you are willing to get hurt, then get hurt.

50. Loving someone means growing up with them over a long period of time and dying together in the last years of life.