On Prose of Relationship between Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law

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On Prose of Relationship between Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law

The tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China has always been a commonplace topic. Whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious is related to the quality of a marriage. The contest between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been strong.

Perhaps, China people are deeply influenced by traditional ideas. When you become a mother, you are virtuous and virtuous, and you have learned to protect your children. Therefore, many mothers, in their love for their sons, finally cultivated a deep-rooted idea of protecting calves, and finally formed a situation that was incompatible with their daughter-in-law.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, and it's really right and wrong, so I can't say it clearly in a few words. In every tense mother-in-law relationship, there will be such a clear view. Mother-in-law thinks that her daughter-in-law is not sensible, lazy and distressed by her son's suffering, and she is not pleasing to the eye. The daughter-in-law thinks that her mother-in-law is self-righteous, pointing fingers at their young couple's family life, making things difficult everywhere, and deliberately finding fault with everything, so she also has a lot of complaints about her mother-in-law, and even has a big fight in getting along.

The drama of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law always makes a fuss about this point, and Ode to Joy 2 is no exception. Bao Yifan's mother is realistic and smart, and turning her face is faster than turning pages. This woman who started from scratch with her husband is really full of twists and turns towards Andy. At first, I was very happy with Andy. I let go of all kinds of intimacy and made Andy uncomfortable.

Later, after hearing Wei Guoqiang's wife's malicious slander on Andy, her attitude changed 360 degrees. She is afraid that Andy is a "senior girl" and that Andy wants to protect their property. She also said that Andy's private life was a mess. No matter how persistent Bao Yifan was, she cried and hanged herself three times, forcing Bao Yifan to break up with Andy. In the face of his mother's hunger strike, Bao Yifan told the truth that Andy is Wei Guoqiang's own daughter. Her face turned from cloudy to sunny at once, and all the symptoms were cured in an instant. He also actively advised Bao Yifan to get back together with Andy.

After learning that Bao Yifan broke up with Andy, she put down all her figure and ran to Andy, and finally got Andy's understanding. Seeing these scenes, I thought, should this woman be good to Andy in the future? When she saw her husband crying with mistress, Andy accompanied her and comforted her. Unfortunately, the plot is not what I imagined. After all, she is a woman who can calculate abacus better than anyone else. After learning that Wei Guoqiang was imprisoned because of his ex-wife, she also showed extreme indifference to Andy. Apparently, she invited Andy home for dinner. As a result, she showed a cold face to Andy.

Therefore, after Wei Guoqiang is fine, she will be full of enthusiasm for Andy again. When I saw these plots, I really felt more disgusting than swallowing countless flies. How can there be such a woman? How can there be such a mother-in-law? It's really terrible, but the terrible thing is yet to come. She secretly investigated Andy's life experience and finally angered Andy to confront her. This is a strong confrontation. What will happen to this mother-in-law in the end? I still don't know after watching the TV series. However, I deeply dislike such a mother-in-law.

Also, Wang Baichuan also has a very powerful mother, who is extremely disgusted and disgusted with the woman her son likes. Wang Baichuan's mother disliked Fan when she had never met her, and even asked her out behind her back. In other words, she wants Fan to break up with him. In her words, she just didn't want Fan Gulai to drag Wang Baichuan down.

Later, Fan's brother put their father who had suffered a stroke at home, and his mother was anxious to let Fan's father leave at once. She was more critical of Fan's family and Fan, and further pressured He Fan to break up.

I'm surprised, too. This Wang Baichuan doesn't want anything. His ability is average and his appearance is average. She just went to Shanghai to start a business. What qualifications does her mother have to find fault with Fan Meisheng and even be afraid? If Wang Baichuan were any better, his mother would look down on fan Mei Sheng even more. Having a son is not very good, and he still looks down on Fan Meisheng who is based in Shanghai. I am also angry at such a plot.

In the play, Qin Ying and his mother always make me laugh and cry. Before his mother appeared, what Qin Ying did left a bad impression on me. I have always felt that a person's work and family education are inseparable. Indeed, as soon as Qin Ying's mother appeared, I felt that she was also a powerful role. When her mind is full of principles, when she can apply principles to herself, she has no principles.

Qin Ying's mother looked down on Qiu Yingying, whom she had never met, and her words were full of disrespect for Qiu Yingying. When she and her son were in danger, she brazenly sent a distress signal to Qiu Yingying. When Qu Xiaogan asked her if she recognized Qiu Yingying as Qin Ying's girlfriend, she also denied Qiu Yingying's 10,000 yuan, so Qu Xiaogan said that she was the most unprincipled and shameless person.

In this TV series, only Zhao Qiping's mother makes people look comfortable. After seeing Qu Xiaoyu for the first time, the university professor only kindly reminded his son that married life is a dull life after passion. What kind of person Qu Xiaoyu is, there is no easy evaluation, and there is no fault and spite for her when I first met Qu Xiaoyu.

Facing Kong who overheard their mother-child conversation on the phone, her mother didn't make any comments on Kong. When Zhao Qiping's mother first appeared, I felt that not all the mothers-in-law in Ode to Joy 2 were unsystematic and critical of the future daughter-in-law. I also think that Zhao Qiping's mother, as Qu Xiaoyu's future mother-in-law, is attractive to people.

Only when parents show respect for their children's marriage can they truly show their love for their sons. If you interfere with your child's marriage in various ways in the name of love, it is a disrespect for your child and a manifestation of the pattern. How many books a person has read is not reflected in a person's face, but in the mode of doing things.

Obviously, Zhao Qiping's mother, as a university professor, understands that only by respecting her son's respect can she get his respect. No matter what kind of wife the son chooses, it is the son who will live in the future, and it has nothing to do with himself. A person with a big picture will never rashly interfere in other people's lives from his own standpoint.

There is only one mother-in-law in Ode to Joy 2, and that person is Zhao Qiping's mother, the mother-in-law with higher education, which fully shows us the democracy and equality between people. Before Qu Xiaogan met this future mother-in-law, she was very afraid of this future mother-in-law. She was afraid that her mother-in-law would think that she was uneducated and unworthy of Zhao Qiping.

But this highly educated mother-in-law gave Qu Xiaoyu a sense of intimacy and intimacy, which not only made Qu Xiaoyu feel very comfortable, but also made our audience feel very comfortable. Zhao Qiping's mother also let us instantly cross the gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and instantly understand that not all mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are incompatible with ice and fire.

I like Zhao Qiping's mother very much, although I don't have many opportunities to play. Because I also like a knowledgeable and reasonable mother-in-law. A good husband and a good mother-in-law will make people's lives much better in an instant, so I finally expect everyone to have a mother-in-law who is satisfied with themselves.

It is my bounden duty to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a family problem that is difficult to solve in any dynasty, which is also the legacy of China's 5,000-year history; The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a popular word in China, which is involved in people's conversations and online forums. How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an art as well as a knowledge. I have been thinking, exploring and practicing. ...

Yes, I got involved in this problem ten years ago: in June 2000, when my son was about to graduate in wuhan polytechnic, he was recruited as an employee by Shenzhen Huawei Technology Company. He is going to go home (I am in Loudi rural school) to see us. Unexpectedly, Huawei bought tickets and let them take the train to the company at 3 pm the next day. I can't go home. I really want to see my son and let my husband take the train to Wuhan overnight to see him for me.

When the father arrived at his son's school, the students recruited by Shenzhen Huawei Company were sent to Wuhan Railway Station by car before the father and son could have a cordial conversation. The father had to accompany his son on the train. When the train slowly pulled into Wuhan station, the son pointed to a girl and said to his father, "This is my girlfriend." Before the father could ask his son more, the train had already left.

Later, my husband told me that my son had a girlfriend, but I refrained from asking my son. In March of the following year, my son, who just turned 19, called me and asked for my advice. "I want to bring my classmates and girlfriends to Shenzhen to find a job (they are classmates who merged for the first time, that is, they don't need to be assigned and find a job themselves). Do you agree? " I immediately replied, "I agree. You have already joined the work, so it's up to you to find a girlfriend. " After thinking about it, I went on to say, "Son, it's normal for boyfriends and girlfriends to live together for a long time." But you must pay attention: you can't have children, get pregnant, have an abortion or take medicine for five years. What I have to do is to buy books for myself. "

When my future daughter-in-law arrives in Shenzhen, I really want to see her, but I don't want to disturb their lives, and I don't want my son to bring her back to see me and give them space and time to develop freely.

Six months later, in June 10, 1, my son suddenly said that he would bring his girlfriend home, and I warmly welcomed him. I happily bought a new dress and went to Xiangxiang Railway Station (from school to railway station) more than 100 miles away to meet my future daughter-in-law. The first time she saw such a thin and soft person, she couldn't help shivering. But I immediately thought that my son likes it and I should like it. It's time to advocate slim beauty. My enthusiasm came again, and I took her to meet my parents, parents-in-law, etc.

At that time, my husband and I had not made up our minds whether to buy an old house in the city or tear down a house and build a new one in our hometown. At this time, our future daughter-in-law observed the topography and geography of the house with us and saw a hole dug in advance. She and her son are very supportive of building a house at home, and they have no plans to buy a house in Shenzhen. So the next year we built a new house at home. When she left, her elders gave her a present. Then I took them to my poor school, and she adapted. At the same time, she was warmly received by her colleagues.

In this way, my future daughter-in-law has a good initial impression of me: warm-hearted, kind-hearted and amiable.

I also have a good evaluation of my future daughter-in-law: dignified and generous, intelligent, virtuous and gentle.

The first impression between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important.

The accumulation of feelings between people is like a bank, which needs constant savings and cannot be overdrawn. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law-two women with completely different ages, personalities and experiences will have a lot of friction in the complicated process of getting along with each other in daily life. If we pay attention to the accumulation of feelings, even if there is friction, the other party will interpret it from a good starting point. If there is no accumulation of feelings, even the best intentions may be misunderstood.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not natural imaginary enemies, and there is no fundamental conflict of interest because they both love the same man deeply. For the happiness of this man and the stability and harmony of several families, modern women can use more work and wisdom to establish a more harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In 2003, my husband and I went through the customs formalities for going to Shenzhen at Loudi Public Security Bureau where our registered residence is located (not since 2004), and we plan to go to Shenzhen for the first time for the New Year. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law fell ill and died (father-in-law 200 1 died). After burying my mother-in-law, it is close to the Spring Festival, and we will not go to Shenzhen. At this time, my mother urged us to go to Shenzhen to spend the New Year with our son. My son called again and said, "I really want my parents to come to Shenzhen for the New Year." He also told me that his girlfriend's parents wanted her to go back to Wuhan for the New Year. "She really wants to wait for the chicken cooked by her mother to return to Wuhan." At this time, I immediately promised my son, "We will come by train tonight." I asked my husband to kill the chicken, so I cooked it at home. I took the train that night and went to Shenzhen the next morning to let my daughter-in-law eat the chicken and return to Wuhan by car. Although she only ate a little chicken, we were all satisfied. She came to Shenzhen to accompany us before the end of the third day holiday. I'm really happy.

The affection between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law deepened.

In 2004, the winter vacation was coming, and my son called and said, "Who told you to knit so well?" Your daughter-in-law wants one. " "good". I immediately ran to Loudi Street and picked out the best and finest wool. This is really knitting all day long. I spent a week knitting a turtle neck and a sweater vest for my daughter-in-law, and sent them to the post office to let her put on a new sweater for the New Year. This is a gift from my mother-in-law.

I once saw a magazine about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After reading it, I sent this message to my son: Er, I read an article "The Art of Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law Getting along" today, and I was deeply touched. I put all the key points into my mobile phone, ready to keep it for a long time, and remind myself at any time! I will respect you more and give you as much space as possible. Attach a summary.

How to be a mother-in-law today: Since we love our son, we should accept his beloved wife ... We should allow the young couple to have their own independent living space ... Strengthening communication and mutual understanding is the magic weapon to improve interpersonal relationship ... Mother-in-law should always take the initiative to chat with her daughter-in-law, not only telling her life experiences and feelings, but also listening to her daughter-in-law's confidences ... The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be adjusted slowly in a long life, but haste makes waste.

These short messages have been kept in my mobile phone for nearly 7 years. I will keep them, and I will always open them to remind myself.

In 2005, my son had an intention to buy a house, and I actively supported it. At that time, I borrowed some money after building my own house. I have been paying off my debts for two years and have no savings. In order to support my son to buy a house, I borrowed money from my parents and sisters to help my son pay the down payment. Later, I gave all my money, I gave everything I had.

June 2006 65438+ 10 1, it's time for my son and daughter-in-law to get married. I respected my daughter-in-law's family and went to Wuhan to talk about my son's marriage. Ask their advice on how to do a good wedding. Finally, we got to know each other. On the spot, we decided to hold a wedding on New Year's Day in 2007 and invited all our relatives to Hunan. Of course, I warmly welcomed the guests from afar. This time, I went to Wuhan with my son and daughter-in-law to celebrate my 90th birthday. Communicate with relatives and in-laws to enhance the feelings between relatives. As one of my netizens commented in my diary "Notes on a trip to Wuhan": "Smart move, your daughter-in-law met a good mother-in-law, which not only won the daughter-in-law's favor, but also brought the two in-laws closer together, and admired her friend's move."

For the sake of career and family construction, my son and daughter-in-law dare not have children for several years, and I have no problem with it. I'm just a little worried that they will become a Dink family. Recently, they said they would raise children, so I'm naturally happy.

My son and daughter-in-law work in Shenzhen Huawei Company. Because working overtime on holidays is two to three times higher than usual, they want to work overtime to earn more money to pay off their mortgage. I strongly support it. Besides, the traffic is tight on holidays, so I don't want them to come back to see me. Sometimes when I miss them, I will go to Shenzhen to see them and take their photos as my desktop image. Every time I turn on the computer, I see them and feel that they are always by my side.

I heard that my son and daughter-in-law were going home, so I told my sisters first: I'll bring them to see you. The implication is that they should treat my daughter-in-law well. Especially eldest brother and sister-in-law went to Huaihua to celebrate their aunt's birthday. In order to come back to see her daughter-in-law, she drove home that night. As expected, they warmly hosted my daughter-in-law, held a high-class banquet in the hotel, and invited and accompanied us to sing in the evening. Really in karaoke bars, our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law sing on the same stage. Although I am a tenor and my wife is a bass, it is very harmonious and everyone present applauds. My mother told me that I was 10 years younger. I am really excited and intoxicated. Now they have left me for several days, and I have been immersed in happiness. In fact, a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often a dull beginning, lasting persistence, and then moving flowers at the time of * *. Appropriate expectations and appropriate ways can make the flowers of family love last longer.

I'm working hard and looking forward to being a good mother-in-law, which will make our relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more and more sweet. Let the son be happier, make the family sweeter and make people warmer.

Prose dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

My old classmate's wife has a tense relationship with his mother. On one occasion, his mother was opinionated and rude because of disagreement about raising children. His wife beat his mother. His mother was so angry that she left her grandson, who was a few months old, and left his house. My old classmate doesn't know what to do. Then he found me with his mother and asked me for help.

People all know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a thorny family problem and a common social problem. Daughter-in-law has her daughter-in-law's fault, and mother-in-law must have her mother-in-law's fault. If the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not intensified, we need to take appropriate measures to resolve the contradiction and let mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get back together and live in harmony. So how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

I first advised my old classmates' mothers not to be too angry. It is very important to take care of her health, and we can't help others if we take care of it. Daughter-in-law beats mother-in-law, which is a big illegal act and should be chopped to pieces. If my daughter-in-law disrespects my mother, I'll make a clean break with her at once and sweep her out of the house. Even if I'm single all my life, I won't marry an unfilial woman as my daughter-in-law. There is a reason why you are always beaten by your daughter-in-law. As a mother-in-law, you should see if you have done anything wrong. His mother calmed down after hearing what I said, admitting that she shouldn't scold her daughter-in-law because she disagreed with her grandson, and scolded her mother by the way. I smiled and said to her, "This is why you are always wrong. If you have something to say, you shouldn't be rude, let alone insult your mother. Since you are in-laws, you are a family, but you can't treat your loved ones as enemies. "

So, my old classmate went home with his mother. As soon as I entered the door, I saw my daughter-in-law holding her child and her mother-in-law at home. Before his daughter-in-law could speak, his mother-in-law became angry and accused her of not taking care of her grandson, arguing irrationally and hurting people.

When the two parents were talking, I called my classmate's wife to the south room and severely criticized her. She also knew that she had done something wrong and worried that her husband would not forgive her. I asked her to apologize to her mother-in-law. When she left home, she stopped her mother from quarreling, and then sincerely said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, it's my fault. In any case, I shouldn't hit you in a hurry. I hope you become me. I never dare again. " Mother-in-law said, "It's my fault to be angry and scold you for a while. You have to forgive me more. " The mother of the old classmate's wife saw that her daughter and her mother-in-law had made up, and she had nothing to say.

I said to my two parents, "The relationship between you two directly affects the relationship between husband and wife. Parents are like sisters, children follow suit, and husband and wife are harmonious. "