What should a woman do after being betrayed by a man?

Zhang Ailing wrote in Red Rose and White Rose: Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright line at the foot of my bed"; Married a white rose, the white is the glutinous rice on the clothes, and the red is the Zhu Shazhi in my heart.

The essence of a man is a playboy. It's a little difficult for you to make him loyal to you all his life. In this case, I hope you can make some preparations.

Loyalty is what everyone should do, but if one party has lost loyalty, then as the injured party, you should show your bottom line and never forgive him blindly.

If you forgive what he has done, it will eventually lead to worse and worse results between you.

You can't wake a person who pretends to sleep, let alone a person who doesn't love you. No matter how nice you are to her, it's no use. In this case, I hope you can be yourself. When a man betrays you, it is easier for a woman to save him by doing so.

02

Shao Lin and his wife were each other's first love, and they got married at the happiest time.

After getting married, Shao Lin vowed to treat his wife well.

But many times, feelings are easy to change. No matter what you say now, if something goes wrong, you will completely forget all your vows.

Shao Li and his wife had a sweet time for five years. At that time, his heart was full of wives, and he felt very happy living with his wife.

But in the sixth year, he discovered a series of misunderstandings between them.

Sometimes when he comes home to see his wife, he will think for a moment, is this the woman we used to know? Why do you dress so exquisitely before marriage, but you dress sloppy after marriage?

When men begin to have this idea, it shows that some subtle changes have taken place in your marriage.

At that time, Shao Lin's disgust was not known to his wife. Because her husband still loves her as before, she still takes care of everything for her husband in this process.

But by this time, Shao Lin had met another woman and was making friends with her.

After years of marriage, there is no romance between him and his wife. After three years of marriage, he didn't give his wife a gift, but spent money on another woman.

There is a saying in the relationship that is very good. A woman scrimps and saves in marriage, doesn't want to eat, and devotes herself to this family. Unexpectedly, Shao Lin spent all his money on another woman outside marriage. This situation is unfair to Shao Lin's wife.

Shao Lin's wife discovered her husband's betrayal. It was one night that her husband went in to take a shower, and she didn't know her husband until she accidentally saw the text message on her mobile phone. Now I'm half-hearted about her. Knowing this situation, she didn't cry or make trouble, but quietly, as if nothing had happened.

Only the next day, she didn't cook, didn't send clothes to her husband as usual, and smiled at him at work.

As soon as she got up in the morning, she painted a very delicate makeup for herself and told her husband that I would go out for a party with my friends, and you should cook for yourself and leave quickly.

The husband was very surprised to see his wife in this situation. At that time in the morning, she was standing in the kitchen preparing a delicious breakfast for him, but today, Shao Lin was a little surprised by his wife's abnormality.

Even after his wife went out, Shao Lin stayed there for a long time, talking to himself and thinking that his wife was a little abnormal.

In the later days, my wife changed her abnormal personality. Instead of being a housewife at home, she dressed herself up beautifully, went shopping with a group of friends, participated in some high-end activities and expanded her cognitive circle.

In the past, she shut herself at home. Now, after she came into contact with a different world, she found that her past self was too stupid and her life was too depressing.

Giving each other good food and drink can be exchanged for betrayal. Now, after releasing myself, life is simply too happy.

After seeing his wife's condition, Shao Lin was too busy to take care of other things. He comes home early from work every day, stays with his wife, and tentatively asks her, how do I feel that you have been different recently? Did I offend you?

When his wife heard Shao Lin ask this question, she knew that she had successfully reminded him.

When a man begins to feel a sense of crisis about your change, it means that your behavior is correct.

Men are like this, they don't cherish it when they get it, but when they are about to lose this woman, they will become particularly nervous.

After his wife changed, Shao Lin found her particularly attractive. In the past, he did not pay attention to observation. Now that his wife has changed so much, he has completely cut off contact with women outside and returned to his family.

03

In marriage, if a woman finds out that her husband has betrayed you, then you must never cry, let alone make trouble. At this time, your crying and making noise are meaningless.

When a man changes his mind, the last thing he likes is to see a crying woman. The more you cry, the more he refuses.

In this case, a woman should discover her charm early and let the other person see that you are different.

When he thinks you are different, he will slowly begin to accept his heart and have a sense of crisis.

People are strange. When you obey him, he doesn't cherish it at all, but when you ignore his strength, he will turn around and ask him to give you a good face.

This is human nature. Under such circumstances, I also hope that women can be themselves.

In this world, career is far more important than love. If the cause can't last forever, then love can only be regarded as a flash in the pan. No matter you love someone again, I hope you can leave some dignity for yourself.