A letter to my husband before the divorce.

Entering the besieged city of marriage, husband and wife will always live together, but they have not become * * * couples with the same language. They can only divorce if they want to be happy. Below I sorted out a letter I wrote to my husband before my divorce. Welcome to reading.

A letter to her husband before the divorce.

Dear husband:

Let me call you dear again, because I once loved you deeply. I told you, you are important to me, even more important than my son. You smiled indifferently, I know you don't believe me. But it's true. I can give my life for you.

? Divorce? In the past three years, this word has been put forward many times among us. Three years ago, when I learned that you had a woman outside, my heart ached. Do you believe that I have been in such pain? You said that the mistakes you made were only those made by men, and you would change them slowly. This change is three years. I'm ready to forgive you. Actually, it's impossible for you? Forgive? This word, because you never think you are not wrong, that's right. But what I can't let go of most is that during the Spring Festival three years ago, you and that woman went back to their hometown and you stayed there for twenty days. You haven't called me or my son for twenty days. On New Year's Eve, I called you countless times, but? My son asked me again and again? I miss dad, when will he come back? I think maybe the phone is out of service. In these twenty days, I am full of worries about you, and even wonder if anything will happen to you. Full of ideas. At that time, missing was also a kind of happiness for me. But who knows, in every night when I can't sleep because of worry and missing, you have an affair with her? Looking forward to, looking forward to, finally, you came back, I almost cried with joy, because you came back safely and healthily. But I saw you wearing that woman's sweater (I didn't know they were spending the Spring Festival together). Our divorce war has also begun. You take that woman out for the night again and again, and come home wearing the clothes that she bought (with your money, of course). You said that no woman has ever been so kind to you. You said she was gentle, and you said she would marry you. I said? Let's divorce. ? You don't know. You said you'd have time, and you'd end it. I waited for three years, which was a terrible three years. Last August, after we had another quarrel because you were wearing the clothes she bought, you said it was over. I'm going to forget everything and continue to live with you. But just a few days ago, I heard that you spent the Spring Festival together, and my heart still hurts like that. I ask you: Why? What were you thinking? How can your parents accept it? I just want to hear you say, well, I was wrong, and now I regret it. ? But no, you're angry, angry at my questioning, don't you think? It is all over now. Why do you bring this up? For you, this may be the past, but you know what? For me, this is a pain in my heart forever. What do you say? It's not my fault. I have another woman because you are not gentle enough. ? What is tenderness? Is that woman's sweet talk (coaxing you into money) gentle? We have been together for more than ten years. How many times have you washed clothes? You hurt me for so many years, but you didn't even wash your socks. You've never even touched the ground (maybe once, but never twice).

I always see you sitting there playing computer games when I get off work by bike from ten miles away every day. When the water pipe cracked and leaked, my son asked me to repair it, but you were indifferent; I advise you not to smoke at home, so you must promise to fry melon seeds for you. We build a house, you rest at home, I let you drink water to change bricks, you said you went home on holiday, let me go? Sometimes I get angry when I meet these times. You said I was not gentle enough, I admit it. You called me stupid and corny. I admit that. Not long after we met, I didn't give up when you wanted to spend 100 yuan to buy me a dress. I just bought one from 30 yuan. You call me stupid?

Yes, I'm not gentle enough, I'm stupid, and I'm corny, so you have to go out and find another woman. It's not your fault to find another woman. Besides, isn't it over now? At noon the day before yesterday, you received a phone call. Listening to your flustered tone, I asked, who is it? You said it was XXX's, and I said, how do you hear women's voices? (Actually, I didn't hear you clearly.) You said that YYY's daughter called her father's cell phone and asked you to contact XXX's shop to work. So we quarreled again. At night, when we lie down, I want you to hug me. I want you to save my strength, but you say I don't trust you and ignore you. I asked: Don't you have feelings for me? You say yes, I say? Me too. We will go through the formalities tomorrow. ? You said yes.

I went to the relevant departments for consultation yesterday. They don't go to work on Sunday, so let me go on Monday. Stop writing, you will go home soon.

XXX

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A letter to her husband before divorce.

Husband:

The word "husband" is synonymous with "happiness" in a happy marriage; In an unhappy marriage, it is synonymous with "sad reminder". Whether you give others "happiness" or "sadness" is only heaven and earth know, you know and I know.

The first time I called you "husband", it was the moment I signed the marriage certificate with tears in my eyes. At this time, we became husband and wife and entered the besieged city of marriage. Husband and wife have been living together, but they have not become lovers with the same language. You signed an engagement with me with a blank sheet of paper with love, and I walked into the wedding hall with you from the colorful emotional world. My sympathy has replaced your loyalty.

The second time I called you "husband", I accidentally called you after we separated, because you are my son's biological father. The identity of the husband is also in name only, just the father of the child. The change of role made me feel relieved, and I can finally enjoy the life of a single aristocrat. I thank you for giving me freedom;

Calling you "husband" for the third time should be the last time before the divorce, because I will call my lover "husband". You marry for marriage, and I marry for love. I was never on the same side from the beginning. I can only apologize for your injury.

It is my fault to get married knowing that there is no love;

You know you love me, but you don't know how to love me. This is your fault.

We chose the wrong marriage at the wrong time and place. Now let go of the cold hand, return to the origin of emotion, and pursue your love at the right time and place.

Husband should be a lover, lover and lover, but you didn't play your role well on the stage of life, and you didn't manage a loving marriage in the besieged city of marriage.

Affection will break our bonds, and love will break our bonds. Please don't hate my ruthlessness, because I don't live for life, but for love. We don't have the same outlook on life and values, and we can't hold your hand and accompany you to grow old together.

You are a gentleman who ignores women's eyes, doesn't listen to lewd voices and doesn't say bad words, because you are too straight to dominate love. Lewd but not beautiful, romantic but not coquettish, gentle and rude, that is the hero in front of love.

You gave me life, but not love. I need you to light the passionate flame of two of a kind for me. More importantly, I need to light a passionate and hysterical flame for me, but you can't light it. Even if you do, it will go out instantly. I have to quietly leave your sight and go out of your heart to make way for the love flame you want to rekindle.

You are the good man I respect most, the "model husband" and the "five good husbands" in marriage. Unfortunately, what I want is not the "good husband" in my life, but the "Mr. Right" and "Mr. Right" who hold your hand all my life. What I want is to burn myself in love and drown my marriage in love. You can't give me all this, I can only say "goodbye!" "

Thank you for marrying me, leaving me and helping me. The greatest act of loving someone is realization. Only when you realize others can you succeed.

XXX

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A letter to her husband before divorce: Fan Wensan

Husband:

Please allow me to call you that for the last time and for the first time. I haven't called your name for two years, and I always feel strange. Never thought about it, a word? Husband? Will arouse infinite tenderness in my heart. Maybe you will disdain to read my last letter to you. Maybe you'll delete it halfway. However, I don't care anymore. I am speechless. I don't know where to start. I know it's impossible to interview you. I have to use this letter to move the big stone that has been weighing on my heart. Do you remember what day it is? Today, 20 1 1, we met on the first day, and our acquaintance was drawn by a paragraph. Today, 20 13, let's put an end to our marriage with this passage. To tell the truth, no matter what, it is a lie to say that you don't feel anything.

I used to really like you. I can be hurt again and again by you. It really hurts. Time and time again, from meaningless to pain, to helplessness, to despair, I also need an exit and a way out. In fact, in the final analysis, we lack communication, trust and tolerance. As a wife, it is her sadness and helplessness that she can't get her husband's love and even say some ugly words. Whenever I see other people's husbands love and take care of their wives, I feel envious of inferiority. Why can't I have this life? I want it, too. There is always a big mountain between us! I long to live an ordinary life like a normal person, even if I am poor. However, such a request has become an extravagant hope!

I still remember those hurtful messages you sent me two nights before I was going to have a daughter. I cried all night that night. So I have always been such a person in your heart. Gold and gifts make me speechless. These words you sent are enough to prove that as a man, you are not open-minded and haggle over every ounce, and you have been entangled in divorce since then. Originally, I always hoped that after marriage, we could forget our unhappiness in the past, be a good wife and husband, and give our daughter a warm and stable home, but it didn't come true.

I took care of my daughter at home last year. Have you fulfilled your responsibilities as a husband? Few phones care about my daughter and me. In this year, I have been asking myself, what am I trying to do for you? Want money but have no money, no one needs it, and have a bad temper and no ability. Maybe it's because we don't have any emotional foundation We don't communicate in life. You don't know what I'm thinking and I don't know what you're thinking. In this way, this knot is getting bigger and bigger, and we can't untie it now It's really speechless and sad to think about it. However, this year has also been fruitful. Fortunately, I get along well with your mother's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a recognized problem in society, but in my opinion, it is just a simple matter. At the same time, I also received comments from people around me that you are an irresponsible man who doesn't care about his family and doesn't speak or do things properly. Your mother always puts in a good word for you in front of me and tells me not to care too much about you. Your personality is like this Your father is in charge of your home now, so you don't care. It will change gradually in the future. Is it? I don't know. A leopard cannot change his spots. I can only give myself a good hope.

The idea of divorce was brewing in my mind until the second half of last year. Do you want to know why? It all started when your mother fell. One night you were drunk, your mother didn't like to scold you, and then you quarreled with her. When you stepped into our room with alcohol, you collapsed on the big bed like a sheep, looked at me with blurred eyes, grabbed my hand and said, thank you for being so kind to my parents. I am under great pressure and want to die. After I die, I will give you half of my savings in my passbook. You can take this money and find a good family to marry. ? At that time, I felt that you still had a little place for me in your heart, which was a little comforting. I am such a cactus. With a little care, it will last forever, not a rose that needs daily care. Other women may think, "why can't I get all your property except half after you die?" And I was sentenced for your drunkenness? The truth? I have been secretly happy for a long time, and even gave up the idea of divorce before.

You did something good in your hometown in October. After you came back this time, you gave me a different feeling, a woman's sixth sense. This subtle feeling can't be expressed in words. At the same time, I also feel that you feel the same way, and your attitude and tone have changed obviously. Even your mother said you've changed? Okay？ Yes, it warms my heart. Looks like a loyal wife. I wonder if you agree, or am I mistaken? I thought everything would get better gradually, but it wasn't. You broke my heart again. I have been daydreaming. It's really sad

During the Spring Festival, you mentioned taking your daughter to Guangzhou several times. Why don't I think about it? My greatest hope is that our family of three lives together and has the warmth, simplicity and happiness of home. I haven't found a job during my stay in Guangzhou. I am anxious to find a job, rent a good house and bring my daughter to a family party. I miss my daughter very much, so I always cry secretly alone. She is a piece of meat that fell from me, my dear, the only sustenance. I want my daughter back anyway! Do you remember? You don't want a daughter from the beginning of pregnancy. You also hope that this daughter is not your own, and you have to do an appraisal after birth. You have not fulfilled your responsibility as a father, and you are not qualified to get your daughter back.

At that time, our work had not been decided, and I was not feeling well. At this time, you came to tell me that you are going to Shanghai, and your mood suddenly fell to the bottom. Isn't it hopeless to live a good life and get married? When I learned that you had no goal of going to Shanghai, my first reaction was to advise you not to go. Stay in Guangzhou and you will find it. You agreed, and your mood suddenly became clear. I'm glad you took my advice. On second thought, you are under a lot of pressure because your job has not been settled yet. As for me, I put my work aside for the time being because of my physical problems. First, I asked my friend if he had a good introduction (preferably from Guangzhou), but my friend introduced me to Inner Mongolia, which is really far away. I don't know if you are interested. Actually, I don't want you to go. Considering the treatment, it's ok, but you may not want to go. How do you know I didn't ask? You don't even have to think about it. If you are interested, I have nothing to say. Go, go, men are ambitious, and you can't lose your career because of my dream. As long as you remember that you still have a wife and daughter waiting for you, remember to call often and remember your responsibilities as a husband. It's silly of me to let you go so far, and the life of family reunion is gone.

When a woman is pregnant and gives birth in October, that kind of pain will never be forgotten. Is there a saying? Man, please cherish the woman who is willing to have children for you? It is out of reach for me. The pain of childbirth is the only way for every complete woman, but she has gynecological diseases after childbirth. As a husband, you don't care, and your attitude is extremely bad. I don't care if I'm your wife or not because you can say such an ugly thing. I can only say that our marriage relationship has come to an end. I can only say that you have never considered this marriage. I can only say that my previous sixth sense was wrong, wrong.

On the afternoon of March 30th, you agreed to my divorce decision. I was so sad at that moment that I almost blurted it out? We're not leaving. Should we start over? But I feel sad and uncomfortable when I think about how I have come over these two years. So that whenever and wherever I think about it now, tears will flow uncontrollably. See here, are you strange again? If I'm so sad, why should I divorce? I guess if I don't tell you, you may never understand how I feel.

I used to think that time is really a good medicine for healing, and everything will get better after a while, but I was really wrong. It turns out that some things will not change with time. After I tried to save this marriage, I think we really came to an end. This kind of suffering will fill our life from time to time, and our temper and character will become worse. I thought giving my child a seemingly complete family was the best life for her, but now it seems that it is not like that. The disharmony, unhappiness and unhappiness between us, to be honest, will not be good for the children's future. This is the last thing I want to see. I have tried to convince myself and comfort myself countless times, but your indifference to me has deeply hurt my heart and pushed my best dream to a state of perdition. Everyone has worldly desires, but you are as ruthless as wood to me. I am really tired. I'm so tired. This kind of fatigue is from the heart. It tortured me to death. I will often cry alone. A woman with a glamorous appearance is so different inside. I don't want to pretend to be myself in front of others. That kind of heartfelt happiness can't be faked by cosmetics and clothes. From the initial entanglement to the current initiative, I have also thought about it. Maybe this will hurt many people, but because they are not me, no one can understand my feelings. The pain is indescribable. Living with someone who doesn't love himself is like asking for the happiness of others. I am willing to do such a thing that harms others and does not benefit myself. People often say: home is a safe haven for the soul. Even the marriage ties that make up the family can't control your soul, then the family loses its meaning of existence. If it can't be repaired, why not abandon it? A boat? Find another happy life path or perhaps the most satisfactory ending for us.

I know you've been obsessed with gifts and gold. I can only say that you are in a bad mood. How do these compare? According to your mentality, other men give tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands of women, don't you take a knife to collect debts? Besides, local customs are different. Don't always think that I must bring money when I get married. Don't always think that I will be rich after working for a few years. It seems to me that before talking about others, you have asked yourself why you have no money. You are a big man, you should haggle over every ounce for these things, and you are not open-minded Shouldn't you move on? Think about how to make money back. Seeing this, are you going to curse again? Scold as much as you want. Anyway, I'm used to it and I'm numb. As for gold, I lied to you. Belongs to the woman's personal property in the marriage law. I can handle it as I want. You're just worried about being greedy for my family. I don't know what your mentality is. I am speechless. I always thought my mother and I were playing some tricks. May I ask, what are you greedy for your family? Eighteen thousand? Gold? I feel so wronged until now. All along, I have given you enough noodles in front of my mother, so I will tell you about my trip to Guangzhou with good things. Your mother gave me 2000 yuan. In front of my mother, I said that you give me 3,000 yuan, which I usually give to my family. People say that my daughter is my mother's heart, but for you, my heart is willing to lie in front of my mother. I don't have to be such a person anymore. I will live well. You touch your conscience and ask yourself, just for this little thing, you have been bitter until now, since you can't get along, let's break up. Let's go our separate ways.

I've said so much back and forth, and I don't know how much you agree. This is the truest idea I can think of now, and I don't need to think calmly. I've calmed down countless times and thought about it countless times. No matter how it ends, even if it drags on for months or years, it's just that. Let's get together and bless each other.

I wish you a pleasant journey, and love is accompanied by love plus.

XXX

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