Will you send blessing messages in groups on holidays?

Forget that once upon a time, short messages replaced letters, replaced a lot of walking around the street, obliterated feelings, and there was a touch of sadness from then on! I am also young, so I have not been spared from assimilation and joined the army of sending New Year greetings. As a literary youth, I once dabbled extensively in Bo Gu's On the Present. In order to show that I am well-read and talented, I made a survey at home and abroad, then developed my own special New Year message for a few days, and then sent it out in groups. But, what? .

Now, WeChat has replaced SMS and corrected the reason. SMS is charged, 1 gross 1. What about wechat? Free, free. In those years, my Nokia feature phone was full of text messages from friends and relatives. If you want to collect another one, you must delete one first. And whenever I delete information, I will struggle, because every item is precious, every item is full of warmth and memories, and every item is reluctant to delete. ...

I will dig up information from time to time, regain massiness, regain temperature and regain true feelings. ...

In recent years, my mobile phone has been upgraded from a function machine to a smart phone, and it has been constantly updated and upgraded according to Moore's Law, becoming more and more powerful: the capacity of SMS inbox has also increased from 50 to nearly countless, but except for occasionally receiving information from various service providers and information platforms, SMS inbox is empty most of the time. I wonder from time to time, is the SMS function broken? ...

Even so, in my heart, I began to refuse more and more, I began to resent it, and I didn't want to complain. It's just that a long time ago, I stopped sending New Year greetings in groups.

When I was a child, the popular New Year cards were out of fashion, even hard to find, and my mind was gradually less careful. Instead, no matter who the other party is, make up a note or copy a New Year message to send it in groups, so as to be consistent. The main function of the New Year message has also changed from expressing a specific intimate relationship to maintaining a relationship, from "you are my important person" to "I have not forgotten you".

Now everyone's life pressure is increasing and the pace of life is getting faster and faster. Usually busy, no time to contact. During the Spring Festival, when they have money and leisure, they send messages of blessing to the New Year in the group, just for the sake of bubbles and brushing the sense of existence, just like diving in the group for a long time and suddenly surfaced: "Hey, dear friends, although I am not here at ordinary times, I have been there, and I still miss you, don't forget me!" Or: "I didn't expect it? I still have your mobile phone number/WeChat, please contact me often if you have anything! " This is the subtext of the people's New Year greetings, and then continue diving. Imagine that more than half of the 1000 New Year messages are all similar. Some people don't know who sent them, and the sense of similarity is overwhelming. Will you continue reading? Can you remember how many friends sent you the same New Year greetings? The most interesting thing is that those self-defeating cute babies are obviously sent by Xiao Wang, but they are signed by Xiao Li. Is it interesting to send blessings without changing your name? I believe, have you received such information more or less?

As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. In fact, the other party may feel impolite, or the other party may feel that your New Year message is insincere and not profound. And the actual experience tells me: the news of mass New Year greetings is a kind of fire, which is a hot side! Therefore, I never send such social New Year messages in groups again. During holidays, you should relax and have fun with your family, friends and relatives. However, I know that many people are very tired on holidays, because their hands will cramp just by replying to the mass messages of New Year greetings. I don't want my New Year greeting message to bring you more trouble than blessings, waste your time of deletion and bring you no value.

The mass-sent New Year message itself is "Hello, I am good, everyone is good". Let's come and go together to create a feeling of missing each other and sincerely blessing, which is more accurate and explicit. If you also feel that there is not much "sincerity" in sending new year greetings in groups, please don't send them to other friends in groups. In this way, you can save yourself trouble without disturbing others. As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you, right? You know, when you really need help, whether others help you or not doesn't depend on whether you send a new year message in groups. It really doesn't matter if you don't send a group.

We may not understand these reasons, but most of our friends insist on sending new year messages in groups every year. Why? Well, like most of my friends, I once believed that "connections are the veins of money". Everyone likes money, and naturally they like contacts. Then hearing the contact person is equivalent to hearing the pulse of money, and you will naturally get excited, and you will involuntarily and uncontrollably rub your hands and blink your eyes! The existence may not be reasonable, but at least there is market and space! It is absolutely no accident that the mass sending of New Year greetings is overwhelming. Even a smart person who thinks he knows everything in the world will somehow establish his sense of security with "how many friends I have" and be proud of "who I know".

Pay attention to family when socializing. Simply put, it is an approximately equal exchange of resources. You are not in the same class. You can't be true friends. Therefore, it is ineffective to manage social activities by mass New Year greetings.

On the Spring Festival Evening of 20 14, the singer Hao Yun wrote and sang a song "I won't reply to the masses", the lyrics of which impressed many people:

I bought a mobile phone after graduating from college.

At that time, it seemed that I was quite awesome.

From now on, New Year's Eve.

It is all kinds of sensational New Year greetings.

Moved me to tears.

Suddenly found that the signature name was wrong.

This is a mass message.

I cann't believe you forgot to modify the suffix

Suddenly I feel that the New Year is boring.

It's like drinking a bowl of warm water

How did he get beaten like this?

I really want to give this man a hammer.

No matter who you are.

I won't reply to mass emails.

It's not that I don't give you face.

I really feel too tired.

No matter who you are.

I won't reply to mass emails.

It's really not a matter of face.

I just missed the real thing.

Meng Bao, what do you think of Hao Yun singing? Did you sing the lyrics?