How to Understand ZhangJike's View of Love? Girls should never "fall in love" when they are in love.

ZhangJike's point of view is: "If two people are in love, it is normal to be clingy at first, because she cares about you. Over time, if she still sticks to you in different ways, I think it is a distrust of you. The information of two people will be delayed for a few minutes, and continuous information will come without interrupting your contact with her. "

Sticking to people is usually understood as a unique mode of getting along with people in love. They want to tell each other everything and stay together all the time. If not, call and send a message at any time. However, this sticky mode will generally reduce the stickiness with the progress of time, the stability or cooling of feelings, and the rupture.

At this time, it depends on whether the two can enter a new emotional stage at the same time. If one party thinks that the relationship between two people is stable, then everyone should mind their own affairs. As ZhangJike said, there should be a lot of personal space, but the other party doesn't feel the same way, which will reduce the stickiness of one party, and the other party will still maintain the clingy state during the infatuation period.

The relationship between the two sides is out of sync, one cold and one hot, and the relationship between the two is bound to crack. With cracks, it is easy to have distrust. Information series and telephone series are both signals sent by the other party, aiming at attracting your attention and improving the relationship between two people.

If you hate the other half being clingy, you should first think about why she is like this. There is more than one way for couples to get along. Some people are introverted and hide their feelings, which can only be felt by the other person. Some people are bold and unrestrained, so they must confess. Different modes of getting along are determined by the personalities of both men and women.

For example, in the well-known "Pride and Prejudice", Elizabeth's sister Jane almost mistakenly thought that she didn't love herself because of her reserve, and she loved Mr. Bingley deeply. Bingley's good friend Darcy also thinks that Jane and Bingley are cold when they are together, which is not worthy of Bingley's enthusiasm and love.

This is a misunderstanding caused by personality and expression. After some twists and turns, the two men understood each other's thoughts and confirmed their feelings, and the result was happy.

Girls' unreserved love in love is often the most injured party. Take love too seriously, and you completely lose yourself in love, which is a very irrational behavior. If you love him so much, people will only get tired of you.

Girls will still give each other a certain sense of space in love. Not too much love, but cool. That's what men do. With the extension of their love time, if you are too attached to him, men will think that you don't trust him. If you don't cling to him, they will feel insecure and don't fully control you.

When you are in love, you should be moderately indifferent. You should see how he feels about you.