Tactics of harassing husband's ex-wife (in the face of harassment by husband's ex-wife)

Spot postage genuine extramarital affairs governance Zhu China Development Publishing House 39.8 Purchase Case 1: How to protect your rights and interests in the face of harassment from your husband and ex-wife?

Q: My husband got married for the second time. After I married him, his ex-wife abused me in various ways, harassed my husband and family in various ways, and tried to destroy our present marriage and family. Now his ex-wife is like a psycho. What should I do? How to deal with ex-wife?

Zhu replied:

First of all, you should face up to the problem that your husband was harassed by his ex-wife. What is the purpose of ex-wife harassment? What aspects have harassed your current husband?

Second, you should explore the driving force of your husband's ex-wife harassing you with your husband and solve this driving force, which will help your husband and you solve this trouble, otherwise your husband will enter a state of guilt.

This ex-wife kept saying that we were on good terms. I am today because of you, and I have a bad life because of you. You are responsible for me. What do you want? ...

In this case, it will appear that your husband is guilty, and your husband will pay for her. And this ex-wife may use a name called: I don't care, I force the bully to bow, force the relationship with your husband, force all kinds of unreasonable physical contact, even force property possession, or force the parent-child relationship to do all kinds of damage.

In this case, your husband may go out. At this time, you must explore with your husband, to explore what happened when they divorced.

I'm not curious about your divorce because you have to make it clear to him. I have to show it. It's good for us to get this woman out of our house. Your purpose is this, not to humiliate him or to doubt her husband. You have to handle it this way.

Third, be sure to call the police first. You must make an agreement with your husband, and we will call the police.

What harm could the police do to this ex-wife? You should also discuss this problem with your husband. How about no discussion? If you don't discuss it, then this ex-wife will say that you are so heartless. You are a kind person, because of your wife's words. Your wife is a femme fatale. All right, I'll take you in.

Fourth, crucially, it is best to have a third party to solve it.

Fifth, it depends on who caused the difficulties caused by his ex-wife So you have to know that an ex-wife is harassing her, and there must be her difficulties behind it, so we have to help his ex-wife solve her difficulties.

This is a great challenge for us men who are married for the second time.

Case 2: Psychoanalysis of my husband calling San Xiao face to face.

Q: My husband called San Xiao in front of me and told San Xiao that I knew about their affair. Xiaosan was surprised. I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I don't know how long they've been lying to me. What should Teacher Zhu do about this marriage?

Zhu replied:

First, don't tell me how long your husband and mistress have lied to you. It's how long you've neglected this marriage. We often say that because we are wives, we ignore this marriage and this husband. In fact, you also ignore your own needs.

As women in marriage, we have needs. What do you need? You need him to satisfy you psychologically, physically, materially, personally and spiritually. If you pay attention to these gratifications, this man, he runs outside, how can he satisfy you?

Second, the so-called mistress was surprised. What does this mean? It means that your husband and mistress talked about one thing. We don't affect each other's marriage. I won't affect your marriage. We are pure love. We are pure entertainment, we are pure worship, we are pure enjoyment.

For her, she can accept this state. She didn't want to resist. I'm afraid she has the burden of getting married herself. I'm afraid she knows someone like your husband and can't divorce for him.

This suspicion may be another one, she hopes. In fact, she really wants to be found. You should know that many mistresses actually hope that the original match will find out that they are cheating, because many mistresses also want to know whether this man really loves her or really lies to her.

Do you think that in addition to his wife's obsession with whether a man loves her or not, Xiao San is also obsessed with this? No matter how many times I hear this man say that he loves her, Xiaosan must see how much this man has paid for his love. You don't want a divorce, you don't want to give me money, and you don't want to take me out with these things. There must be a price.

The marriage we are facing now must be evaluated according to the five criteria of saving the marriage. If the evaluation is OK, you can only save it. If you evaluate OK, you should kill the marriage.

Thirdly, now that your husband has told San Xiao, your wife will start talking with her husband about the end of the affair. How can an affair end? We can have tripartite talks, first husband and wife talks, then tripartite talks, and face this matter together.

Of course, if he is likely to face a mistress who says I don't care, I am willing to be a mistress all my life. I don't care. Is this a great challenge for you?

In fact, this challenge is not great. Your point is: your marriage relationship is the quality of your marriage. Your focus is on your husband and wife, not your mistress.

Grade three, would you like to be our grade three? I'm sorry, but I don't want you involved in our family. I can kick you out if you want to do it.

You must reach an agreement with your husband. If your husband says she doesn't want to break up, and I don't want to break up, you can just bag your husband and kill him.

I also tell you in this place: because many people will tell me that this is your choice. You should respect your choice, not her choice.

That's all that matters. Let's not dwell on this. A student of the marriage manager added a part to my slogan. I thought it was very reasonable, so I directly used our student's. I called my marriage before, and that student added a sentence called my happiness, I created it.

Do you like this slogan? Do you like this marriage attitude? Do you like this attitude towards life? Do you like it? This is called my marriage, I am the master, and I create my happiness for everyone.

I don't know what to do if I am betrayed by my husband and run away from home. If you want to ask for help, please write to me privately and I will reply to you.