A breakup letter to a third party

When there is a third party in love, stupid women try to solve women, and smart women try to solve men. The following is my letter to the third party. Welcome to refer to.

A breakup letter to a third party

I'm sorry

I think you will understand everything when you see these three words. I can't go back with you. You've always wanted me to meet your parents. They've been urging you to get married for a long time. I am ashamed to meet them. I let you down. I can't give their baby daughter happiness, which hurts you deeply. The tickets have been booked, but I'm going to break the contract.

I stood you up this holiday, and I will stand you up forever. Please forget me and start a new life.

You said if we started, it wouldn't end. You said that we would wait until the day when I made the final decision. But I was afraid of you. I didn't even think of it at that time. My decision is to leave you and go home.

This is my fault. At first, I was so miserable that I always quarreled with my wife, so I chose to talk to my colleagues. You just entered the workplace, and you still have the enthusiasm of a teenager. What you see in your eyes is a man who is suffering for love. You're on my side, sympathetic to me, pitying me. You are a direct witness of my career, and the intersection of my work makes you understand that my busyness is not an excuse, but a fact. During that time, you really understood me better than your family, and your gentleness melted my pain. No one can tell when feelings will ferment. Maybe men and women can't get too close. I admit, I am lost.

You have a fatal attraction to me. When the family is gloomy and dreary, like a closed stove, and you are so bright and fresh, like redemption and new hope. Of course you know that such feelings are not widely known, but you believe that love can break through all obstacles.

Now I'll tell you the answer, no, love is too much to bear. You will understand when you have a family. You can call me shameless and play with you, but I really don't think so. When I am with you, I really want to be nice to you, but I have been, I am really scared. I'm afraid to see my wife's face and the children's faces. You and I have been secretly together for more than half a year, and I have been flustered. I feel like my heart has collapsed, and the cold wind is pouring in. I'm more uncertain than before.

I dare not think if you hate me, it must be. I just hope you don't hate all men for it. You deserve to be treated well. Don't believe the confession of a married man. When they are talking about love, they may not even know what they are doing, but just want to escape and use passion to escape setbacks.

xxx

Xxx year, xx month, xx day

The second part of the breakup letter to the third party

The most intolerable thing between husband and wife is having a third party. If you want to maintain a good relationship, you must leave a third party.

Kiss you for the last time, dear, I want to break up with you! After satisfying the physical and psychological needs, after you disappear into the misty feeling, while recalling your breath, you secretly make up your mind: break up! Break up! !

Yes, it's really hard to make up your mind after all these years together. Perhaps the first acquaintance was a wrong start. Of course, I have no right to blame you. I know that my will is too weak, and I can't live without you gradually in a kind of curiosity. Whenever you fiddle with your slender figure with your fingers, an instinctive impulse will spread all over your body, but satisfaction is only a short-term pleasure. Time and time again, year after year, we have been too long.

After falling in love with my wife, she discovered our secret and said, leave her for our future. ? I said yes. That was the first time we broke up. I don't know how you felt at that time. Anyway, it took me months to forget you. Although I often meet you, I still pretend not to see you. At that time, I thought: leave and leave, and pain is the price.

We lived in peace until we got married and had children.

Two years of calm have just passed, but I didn't expect that drunkenness to push us together again. I really drank too much that day, so I didn't know who I was, forgot my promise to my wife, and held hands with you in the laughter of my friends.

To tell the truth, after years of estrangement, we haven't adapted to each other yet. Although we are still you, we feel completely different. I even felt a dull pain at that time. When I got home, my wife seemed to smell you from me. People say that women have the most sensitive sense of smell, which was confirmed that day. My wife was surprised. When I told the whole story truthfully, she said, let bygones be bygones. I hope you won't do it again. Listening to her tolerant words, I almost cried with gratitude. That night, I promised my wife that I would never touch you again!

As the saying goes, desire is the devil. Since we meet again, we can't extricate ourselves; Always sneaking around, where my wife won't find us, our footprints are everywhere. I guess my wife felt it, too. At first, it was a kind reminder again and again. I promised verbally, but I didn't listen. Later, she was angry about it, and I always denied it and pretended to be wronged.

I didn't admit it until my wife saw us at home that night. Maybe I think she has adapted, maybe I know I can't live without you, maybe I broke the jar and fell, and I said, honey, I'm sorry. ? She said:? As long as it is changed, it is a good comrade. ? I said:? Hard to change? That day, I saw my wife's complicated expression for the first time.

After that, we were even more presumptuous. The living room, kitchen and even bedroom at home have left your traces. My wife scolded me angrily: please don't be in front of her and the children. I think this is the wife's tolerance bottom line!

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We have been together for so many years that we can't say we are unhappy. However, I must break up with you in order to love my people and myself! Maybe I will miss you, maybe I will feel bad, but I decided without hesitation! !

xxx

Xxx year, xx month, xx day

A breakup letter to a third party

Dear Fei, hello!

Please allow me to call you that for the last time. After all, it is not easy to contact for two years. Today, in this rainy season, I want to say, let's break up peacefully!

I don't want to be entangled, and I don't want to stay in this strange circle that suffocates me. I want to go home?

I can't help but say that you saved me and I will be grateful to you for a lifetime! Before I met you, my married life was neither salty nor light. After five years of marriage, my wife and I lived a Platonic life, enjoying each other and loving each other, but we couldn't give each other the same pay. She can't give me a complete married life. After all, I am a mortal and a human being. Marriage without sexual life has always been my inner struggle.

My wife is good at everything except sex, which constantly challenges my physical limit as a man. At that time, I never understood that she loved me very much and was willing to cooperate with me, but she just couldn't live a married life. Every time I see her frightened, all my desires are paralyzed and defeated in an instant.

I understand her difficulty, but who will relieve my pain?

Later, she pushed me to you?

She cried with me many times and said, if you really can't do it, let's go and find a young lady to vent. ? I am a decent man, how can I find a lady casually?

God really played a trick on people and let me meet you. Remember that April day on earth? It is also the rainy season. I am drinking tea in a coffee shop, waiting for a friend of mine. It happened that you walked across the street, personable and extraordinary in temperament. I was attracted to you at once, and I couldn't help looking at you again.

You found a seat nearby and sat down as if waiting for someone. My friend greeted you as soon as he came in, so you are acquaintances. In this way, he introduced you to me. I learned from my friends that you are a divorced single woman working in a government department. I don't know which nerve touched me, maybe it was sexual repression for too long. After knowing you, I have an impulse to make a breakthrough here. To tell you the truth, my initial idea was obscene. I don't want a divorce. I just want you to be my lover and solve my physical problems. But things went beyond my design, and we fell in love. Love is a mess, so it's gone?

In order to be with you, I moved out of the house and separated from my wife, deliberately snubbing her.

God played tricks on people again. After living with you, our problems were exposed. You began to monitor my every move, check my mobile phone messages, and restrict all my actions. You often interrogate me, especially when I am not allowed to have any contact with my wife. Your reason is: you really let me enjoy the right to be a husband, and we are the real husband and wife! ?

You want me to divorce and be with you.

But after all, my wife is a legally recognized wife. In order to save our marriage, she made the greatest sacrifice and effort. She put down the big lady's figure and talked to me again and again. She went to the hospital for hymen? Bankrupt? Surgery, make yourself a woman completely. She sends me messages every day, telling the warmth of the past and expressing her regrets. No matter how painful she is, she never quarrels with me, nor does she quarrel with me. During that time, it was my most painful day. I hesitated, not knowing how to choose. Although she is not with me, what she gave me is enough to shake a man's will and belief. I can't help it, and I can't make a clean break, even though the balance of feelings is biased towards your side.

Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Why didn't I choose you in the end, but returned to my family?

You blame my indecision and my adviser for giving me advice. You are wrong. In my most painful and difficult time, I obviously felt that you threatened and persecuted me more, which made me too depressed. You really don't understand. I don't like being suppressed, I don't like being arranged by others, and I don't need to be saved by others.

I have been wandering and depressed many times, but you just don't understand that men are most afraid of these shackles. Your mistake is that you didn't express it clearly once, so let me choose it completely from my heart! No matter what decision I make, I make it myself, not others. I can't force my feelings. Right and wrong can't be compensated by marriage! ! !

I know you love me, you love me very much, and you are willing to pay for me. I also consulted a lawyer. I can't have sex, but I can ask for a divorce. But after all, I lived with my wife for five years. If my heart didn't come out completely, I wouldn't have a good life with you. You don't understand this!

Thank you all the same! Sex is really important for men, but it is not necessarily effective to tie a man's heart with sex!

You are a good woman, but we have come to a crossroads that we should not cross.

I can't forgive myself and I'm worried about you. I hope you don't get stuck in it and suffer. Forget me and wish you happiness!

xxx

Xxx year, xx month, xx day