There are three reasons why my husband doesn't return messages.

What does it mean that the husband doesn't return the message?

Can't reply now.

For example, in the middle of a meeting, it is convenient to click and read, but it is difficult to type a string of characters under the nose of the leader. Or it is really difficult to type on a 5-inch large-screen mobile phone with one hand while driving, and the car shakes; Otherwise, you may be sleeping, awakened by the prompt, looking at unimportant things and then going back to sleep; Or you are watching a movie. If your mobile phone is turned on for too long, you will be stared at by the people next to you. I can only skim through the content. As for the reply, wait until the movie is over. In addition, there is a slightly different situation in this category. When you receive more important content, you need to think about it before you can give a reply. It's like receiving a message from a subordinate saying, "Let you scold me for no reason, I quit!" " "This kind of information can be answered directly without saying yes orno..

I don't think it is necessary to reply.

This situation is embarrassing and troublesome for both the sender and the receiver. The recipient opened the email and found that it was an email that he didn't know how to reply. For example, people who feel strange (or even have no good feelings) send a message saying "Did you miss me", or write a list of what they did today, just saying "Are you there, what are you doing, have you eaten?" People make such opening remarks every time they chat. In short, even if you don't hate it, you can't make people talk patiently. Why reply? Although two reasons are listed, more than 90% of the troubled "back reading" cases are the second case. After all, it is a special reason that I didn't reply immediately. Generally, this will not happen. I'm afraid this situation has lasted for a long time, so that the sender is so upset.

Deliberately not reply

When a man deliberately doesn't reply after seeing your news, this man obviously doesn't care about you. The man who obviously received your message but didn't reply, and then made a lot of excuses when you asked, didn't care if you were angry or not. Because your feelings mean nothing to him, you'd better leave such a man as soon as possible. Don't make yourself sad because you don't get anything in return for your feelings.

What should I do if the message is sent to someone I care about, but the other party has never looked back?

My suggestion is that you can go shopping, exercise, play games and read books after sending the letter, as long as you don't stare at your mobile phone all the time. Especially if the other party doesn't reply within a certain period of time, don't keep sending messages and swiping the screen. More importantly, if the other party doesn't reply anyway, don't ask anything next time we meet, just pretend it never happened. Because the other party does not reply, it is a reply in itself. Continuing to entangle this matter will only make the other party more disgusted and have no benefit. What's more, even if you have to give the other person a reason, she will only give reasons such as "Oh, I walked the dog and forgot", "I changed my mobile phone, but I lost my record", "I was watching TV, but I didn't see it" and "Mom asked me to contact you". Appreciate each other's good, and she is willing to give you a step down. She already respects you very much. Don't be aggressive, insist that the other person tell the truth that will only embarrass you: they just don't want to talk to you.

After analyzing these, some people will think, why have I been thinking about her/him? I care a lot. Why does she/he care so little? Why are you doing this to me? Unfortunately, that's the truth: a relationship is defined by the one who doesn't care. If you are not the person you don't care about, don't try to get anything through preaching, cold war or unreasonable means. This way will not end well in the end. The only thing you can do is to know how much the other person cares about you through the length of your reading. Some people may think it's unfair? Yes, it's unfair. You're not Wang Sicong. As for the other 10%, please do your own thing. The other person is busy with what he is doing and will definitely contact you. For those who will be troubled by this, my suggestion is to adjust their mentality. You are too possessive or controlling about this relationship or this matter, so you feel extremely safe in the enterprise law. After all, the lack of security can't be redeemed by anyone. If you don't want your partner to say "I feel tired" to you one day in the future, use these anxious times to control your possessiveness.