Dalian girls have been studying in Germany for 17 years and have not heard from them. What is the root of the problem?

In today's society, more and more students choose to study abroad. Foreign countries have better learning conditions, but the problems of overseas students are also endless.

17 years ago, an international student studied in Germany, but for 17 years, her parents didn't hear from him. She was like into thin air, and there was no news. Did something happen to her abroad? What's going on here?

First, the only daughter in the family, with excellent grades

Cao Qian's academic performance is excellent, and she is basically in the top three in every exam at school. Cao Qian has also participated in many competitions. Cao Qian's father still cherishes the honorary certificates of Cao Qian's participation in various competitions in that year. She won the final certificate of the 4th National Hope Cup National Mathematics Invitational Tournament in 1993 and the fifth place in science in Lushun Middle School in 1996-1997. Many years later, Cao Qian's classmates are also very envious of Cao Qian, but Cao Qian's personality is very introverted, and there are not many friends around him. He is often alone and solitary, and his personality is very lofty. In 1998, she was admitted to Liaoning Normal University by her own efforts. Because of her excellent grades, she planned to study in Germany in her junior year.

Cao Qian is eager to study abroad. In her opinion, studying abroad can not only broaden her horizons, but also learn more professional knowledge and have a better future. Due to the poor family conditions, in order to realize her dream of studying abroad, her parents scraped together 7 thousand yuan for the down payment.

In p>2, Cao Qian started her study in Germany before she graduated. Before going abroad, she also took two photos with her family as a souvenir. In the photo, Cao Qian snuggled up in her parents' arms and was full of longing for the future!

Second, I have been studying in Germany, but I haven't heard from her.

When my daughter went abroad to study alone, her parents were naturally very reluctant and very concerned, just as "Ode to a Wanderer" wrote: the thread in the hands of a fond-hearted mother and makes clothes for the body of her wayward boy. Before departure, a needle was stitched together, afraid of the son came back late clothes damaged. This is also a true portrayal of Cao Qian's parents.

After Cao Qian started studying abroad, she first studied German in Berlin for two years. After that, I went to Munster to make up a year's culture class. Finally, I went to Hamburg University to study German language and literature.

During the first three years in Germany, Cao Qian also had correspondence with her family. In the letter, Cao Qian said that she often worked outside the home to subsidize her tuition, but her boss often bullied her and squeezed her salary because she was a foreigner. She also mentioned that in order to graduate as soon as possible, in addition to learning what she should learn, she also learned the learning content of higher grades across grades.

Although there are bitterness and sweetness in my heart, my parents are very satisfied with Cao Qian's state and full of longing for her future.

However, after Cao Qian made the last phone call with her family in 23, there was no news, as if she had never been in the world before, and there was no news of her again. According to her parents' memory, she didn't do anything unusual before she disappeared. They were worried that something might happen to her daughter. But Cao Qian's parents couldn't do anything. Her daughter was far away in Germany, and the means of communication at that time were very simple, only letters and international telephone calls. If her daughter didn't take the initiative to contact them, they could hardly contact her, so they could only wait day by day, hoping that her daughter could contact them one day. But after a long time, they still haven't received any news from their daughter.

Third, the parents searched hard, but there was no result.

Her parents felt uneasy because they had not heard from Cao Qian for a long time. Her parents tried every means they could to find Cao Qian's whereabouts. In the more than ten years since her daughter disappeared, her parents searched all her classmates and their relatives and friends, but the news they finally got was of no definite use to them and could not bring them a trace of comfort. Cao Qian's parents also contacted the Consulate General in Hamburg, Germany, hoping to get their help and look for the whereabouts of their daughter together, but in the end they only found the invalid phone number that Cao Qian had used.

The Embassy suggested that Cao Qian's parents publish searching for you in local German newspapers, or contact German police through domestic public security departments to investigate Cao Qian's whereabouts, but for various reasons, Cao Qian's parents did not accept the Embassy's suggestion to find Cao Qian's whereabouts.

Fourth, the root cause of "disappearance"

There are different opinions about the root cause of Cao Qian's disappearance. Some people say that before she lost contact, she called home and asked her parents for 3 thousand yuan for living expenses, but her parents didn't give it to her, which led to her no longer contacting her family. However, according to Cao Qian's parents, Cao Qian has always been a very obedient girl and won't do anything that makes her parents sad. Moreover, Cao Qian has been doing it since she arrived in Germany.

It was also said that Cao Qian had been in Germany for nearly ten months and had no contact with her family. When she called her family again, Cao Qian's father was very angry and said something drastic to Cao Qian, which made Cao Qian disappointed. She thought that her parents didn't care about her own safety, so she stopped contacting her family.

Some people say that Cao Qian had an accident in Germany and had already passed away. However, there is no definite basis for any statement. No one will know the real reason why Cao Qian didn't contact his family until he found Cao Qian.

After five or seventeen years of hard search, I finally got an answer

This year, Cao Qian, who hasn't heard from her for seventeen years, finally got news. In order to find the whereabouts of Cao Qian, many caring people in Germany specially set up a' transnational search for Cao Qian's micro-letter group'. With the efforts of many caring people, they not only found the traces of Cao Qian's life in the city, but also learned that Cao Qian had lived in 25.

Now it is known that Cao Qian is still alive safely, but the reason why she didn't contact her family or even go home to see it is still unknown. Cao Qian's father said calmly after learning the news, "What does she do now? Do you have children? Can you call home? "Years of searching finally drew a paragraph in this father's heart. He only hopes that Cao Qian can contact his family once now.

Summary:

Li Mi wrote in "Chen Qingbiao" that "the birds are having an affair and are willing to beg for help", expressing his deepest love for his grandmother who raised himself. As the most ordinary farmers, Cao Qian's parents did their best to send their daughters abroad to study. In their view, as long as their daughters can have a brighter future, they are willing to give their all, and their parents' love for their children will always be the most sincere.

Now Cao Qian's parents are both suffering from cancer, but they didn't ask Cao Qian to come back and do their duty to support them. They just wanted to have a phone call with their daughter before they left. Being a man can't forget one's roots. I hope Cao Qian can satisfy her parents' last wish.