How should I respond if my ex wants to get back together, and how should I respond if my ex wants to get back together with you?

If you broke up at that time, maybe it was just because of some misunderstanding or impulse, then after a cooling-off period, you two were still relatively affectionate and really good to each other. In that case, you can promise him to get back together. After all, you all have feelings, and both sides will be happy together.

If you break up because of something that can't be changed, the feelings of the two people are actually not that deep. Maybe they are just ordinary friends. They think that person thinks he is looking for you to get back together, so you don't have to promise him. After all, without feelings, two people will be embarrassed and unhappy together.

If your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend wants to get back together, there are two ways to answer. 1 is to accept the request of an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, because after all, I have not found a suitable object, so I can only live with my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. The second form of reply is to directly refuse the request. Because I am living a good life now, I don't need to agree to my predecessor's request. I don't want to continue my previous relationship and want to start a new one, so I directly refuse my predecessor's request.

If your ex wants to get back together, it's up to you. If you want to get back together, you should have a good communication with each other, have a good talk, and see if two people can avoid the previous bad phenomena in the future, and then get back together.

If you think that someone like him can't meet the requirements in your heart, then you can refuse him directly and decisively. For example, you can say that since we have both broken up, there is no need to be together again, because if we continue, we will make the same mistakes again.