How can I chat with my elders when I go home for the New Year?

There are always many elders to face during the Spring Festival. You should learn to find a topic and enliven the atmosphere. Generally speaking, it is embarrassing to face your elders. In addition to grasping the situation in advance, you need to practice the skills of having nothing to say, making polite remarks and greeting. To do this, we must understand each other's customs, interpersonal relationships and family situation, so that we can talk about seven aunts, family, society, entertainment, news, astronomy and geography.

If you really don't understand and don't want to know, you must follow suit. For example, in rural areas, what about crops this year? In the city, children work, and the current economy. Anyway, there is nothing to talk about, others should be able to answer. Don't be timid. Overconfidence is better than lack of confidence. Don't be afraid to say the wrong thing. Not speaking is more misleading than saying the wrong thing, and you will feel arrogant or slow. Everyone in the family likes to be smart and flexible, and the way of treating people can reflect whether this person has the ability and can live a good life in the future, and relatives will not leave words that will be looked down upon or criticized in the future.

If you are really introverted, start with daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and start with every meal. Anyway, you want to praise others. At this time, hypocrisy will not affect you, but it can show that you are not stupid. Even if others know that you are flattering and saying nice things, it is very useful. This is a common fault of people, and they like to listen to good words.

On the other hand, if you clean up food, whether you are a man or a woman, you should abide by the customs. For example, in the north, you should help clean up the food and greet the guests. Some children tease their children, praise them and talk about their work with their peers. Some old people ask about their health and tell them to pay attention to their health. These stereotypes are inevitable, but they are better than nothing. If you don't talk, you will be embarrassed. This is also a reflection of your social skills. If you still can't do it, say it when someone asks you about your job, whether he understands it or not. Anyway, what are you good at? For example, someone asked me what you have done in recent years. How's it going? I told you I started my own catering company. I have become a big hot pot brand, and I am doing well now. It has been developing over the years, and plans to expand abroad in the future. No matter whether you think they know or not, no matter what joining is, no matter how much they know about hot pot, just say it anyway, say your plan and your plan, modestly say your current achievements, say your views on the industry, say the thoughts of young people now, say the thoughts of old people and so on. .

If we can't talk anymore, it's simple. Talking about the beautiful clothes and figure of young people and the profound views of old people are all reference topics.