What should I do if the girls don't meet?

I think the first thing you need to understand is what she wants to associate with you. Don't be wrong, remember that the other person is not your same sex, she is the opposite sex, and women are the most fickle and emotional. No matter whether she has a boyfriend or a family, she only wants to decompose her love life when she contacts you, and she doesn't want to be realistic psychologically. Although this is not authentic, there are many such men and women in this society, otherwise they would not be so popular.