My lover told me not to call or text him when he comes home.

He doesn’t say this because he wants to give up on you, but because he doesn’t want you to disturb his life.

As far as he is concerned, his wife is the most important thing, and you are just a sneaky snack.

You can only be a wretch and give yourself to him when he needs it. When he doesn't need it, he will ignore you.

If a woman has no dignity, she cannot blame a man for disrespecting you.

But his request is very reasonable. If you want to be someone else's lover, satisfying his request is the minimum. Otherwise you are breaking the rules of the game.