Can the third anniversary be advanced by a few days?

The third anniversary is the most important memorial ceremony for the deceased, so family members attach great importance to it.

There are several questions that must be kept in mind on the day of the memorial service.

1 Do you need to go on the same day as the third anniversary memorial service?

A: According to the traditional etiquette, it is generally necessary to go on the third anniversary, which can neither be advanced nor postponed. (If it is built in by relatives, you should go forward for a day to show your respect for your relatives. The calculation date of the third anniversary is calculated from the date of death of the deceased. The anniversary is 65438+ 10/in 2005, and the third anniversary is 65438+1 0/in 2008. (For single-day processing, it is 65438+February 3, 20071)

Who should attend the third anniversary?

A: On the day of the memorial service, the children and family members (or brothers, sisters and family members) of the deceased should attend. Under normal circumstances, relatives and friends will not be notified to commemorate the deceased. When relatives and friends ask about it, they can inform the schedule and invite them to attend.

3. On the day of the memorial, how should the family members pay homage?

A: On the day of the memorial service, the memorial service will be conducted in the order of blood relatives and generations in the family. At the beginning of the memorial service, the host read the eulogy, followed by the guidance of the memorial service. According to folk custom, the eldest son (or eldest daughter) in the family should offer three cups of tea to the deceased, and then hold a memorial service (pouring wine, offering offerings, offering flowers) and saluting (bowing or bowing) according to the closeness and seniority of family members. Finally, the host will announce the end of the memorial service.

What offerings should be placed for the third anniversary?

A: Generally speaking, the tributes for the third anniversary are fruits, snacks and food. Among them, fruits and snacks are mainly singular, and it is advisable to put three on each plate. Fruits: apples, oranges, bananas, etc. It symbolizes peace. (Never put pears) Snacks: round cakes, rose cakes, etc. Mainly round snacks, which means a complete memorial service. Food: Chicken, fish or jiaozi, steamed bread, which means that relatives can have food and clothing in heaven.

Does the tomb site of the third anniversary garden need to be arranged?

A: In order to highlight the solemnity of the third anniversary and the family members' yearning for the deceased, the blessings of the deceased should be decorated with flowers. At the same time, according to the personal preferences, personality, occupation and style of the deceased. , and in line with the actual situation of the park, the overall layout.