What if the old man dies at home?

1. If you call 120 and 120 at night, the doctor will finally determine whether the old man is dead or not and whether it is necessary to continue the rescue. At this time, the doctor talked to his son (I don't know why he didn't talk to his living wife) and his son signed it. Go to the emergency team early in the morning to check the doctor's death certificate. If 120 does not arrive at the scene, you can also contact the street health service center to issue it.

2. Wipe the old people with diluted alcohol and put on the clothes prepared at home (the old people in the city don't need to buy old-fashioned mourning clothes, mainly because the size is not suitable). Different nationalities come according to customs.

3. Contact the vehicle on duty in the funeral home at night (the vehicle in the funeral home can only be pulled after changing clothes). Pay the fee with the car to the funeral home and determine the cremation time.

4. Take the first item, take the death certificate, bring the old man's household registration ID card to the police station as soon as possible to open the cremation certificate and cancel the account. If the police think that the emergency doctor is not standardized, they can't find anyone when they go back to rewrite it, because he works at night and has a rest, but he can't see him again until the next day. If the old man has a bank deposit, his ID card will be cut off and invalidated by himself. It is not clear which is more important.

5. 10 After half a day, go to the street with all the formalities to handle the death. He died of illness and the house was completely disinfected.

Six. Brothers and sisters have the same roots, sit down and discuss, there is no insurmountable contradiction!

Everyone will die. Once the old man dies, many children will be at a loss. Now let me talk about what the children's families should do after the old man dies.

1, issue a death certificate. If an old man dies at home, he should inform the neighborhood committee or village committee where the old man is registered and the relevant local police station as soon as possible so that they can issue a death certificate. If the old man dies in the hospital, the hospital should issue a death certificate.

2. The family members who cancelled the old man's account went to the local police station with the death certificate issued by the relevant department, and cancelled the old man's account and ID card.

3. Call the local funeral home and communicate with the funeral home about the specific time to transport the remains of the elderly. Family members can put a shroud on the elderly before coming to the funeral home, buy ice coffins at the local funeral shop and temporarily refrigerate the remains of the elderly. Our local custom is to mourn at home for three days after the old man dies. In rural areas, monks and Taoists are usually invited to carry out relevant sacrificial activities, then relatives and friends are invited to attend the mourning ceremony, and then a chef is invited to cook for the visiting relatives and friends. Our country is called "tofu rice".

4. The remains are in funeral home cremation. When the hearse arrives, the remains of the old man will be sent to funeral home cremation. Now in the cremation process, the families of the deceased no longer need to queue up at the funeral home in the early morning as before. Because at present, the funeral home will cremate the remains in the order of cremation, unlike the one who came first before.

After paying the relevant fees, the remains will be cremated in the cremation furnace room. After cremation, the funeral home will also issue relevant cremation certificates, and family members can collect the ashes of the deceased within 1 to 2 hours.

4. Family members can dispose of the ashes by themselves after receiving them. Now the ashes can be buried in local cemeteries or stored in funeral homes. Of course, other burial methods can also be used, such as sea burial. Of course, this situation is relatively rare.

In our local area, the cemetery is usually purchased before the death of the old man, and after receiving the ashes of the old man, it is buried directly in the cemetery.

My mother stayed at home. Let me talk about the whole process and the precautions at that time. * * * Five big points and nine small points. I live in a city, according to my local customs.

Walking around the house, there must be no doctor to prove anything. So make sure you're really gone. My mother didn't want to write when she left. I'll tell you how to do it. Of course, this is actually relatively easy to determine. After all, it is your own family.

If you have brothers and sisters, please call your brothers and sisters at once. I was very sad at that time. My wife made all the phone calls and other things. There are many sisters, one by one. Especially the sisters who are married far away, after all, it will take some time to come to my house.

When it's normal, you should prepare the shroud first. In fact, when the elderly are not in good health, these are all preparations. There are several kinds of shroud, which can be bought according to the situation, some are expensive and some are cheap. For better or worse, everyone left, and these were finally cremated with the old man. After the sisters came, they scrubbed their mother and put on the shroud as soon as possible. It is not easy to change clothes, because my limbs are stiff after a long time.

We have a special company here, and he will help you prepare all the related work, such as setting up the mourning hall, red strips of car cloth, burning paper, firecrackers and so on.

In fact, no matter whether the elderly leave in the hospital or at home, their families must get the contact information of one-stop company in advance (the hospital is not necessary, and the hospital will definitely have relevant contact information). One-stop company will help you contact the funeral home car.

One thing to note here: if your home is in a residential area and there is no elevator, there is not much time requirement. Anyway, take the stairs. If the home is a high-rise elevator, it's better to wait a little later, for example, let the funeral home car pick up the elderly after 10 in the evening. It's too early to get into the elevator and date someone else. If it is past midnight, it will be early in the morning. In short, it is best to let the funeral home company take the old man away when no one is around. It is suggested that if there are enough people, it is best to leave one person at the elevator entrance and one person at the ground floor, and then it is best to persuade the neighbors to leave.

After the elderly are sent away, they are usually frozen in the freezer of the relevant room of the funeral home. You can go to the funeral home with me whether you walk during the day or at night, but it doesn't mean much unless you are cremated immediately. It is generally impossible to cremate immediately. So the next thing to do is as follows.

1, and then contact the one-stop service company.

They will give you the specific time when the old man will be cremated. It usually takes about three days or a week here. It depends on the zodiac, birth, and conflicting zodiac signs. This has nothing to do with us. One-stop company will give it to us.

Then I'll ask you if you want a wake. If you want to decorate the mourning hall, then you should prepare staff at home, two normal people. Father left at the wake, but mother didn't.

2. Pack a certain number of red envelopes

This estimate varies from place to place. We're here to return the red envelope. There can't be words on it. Specifically, how many people will go to the funeral home to send the elderly, and how many people will drive to the funeral home. Everyone who drives a car needs a red envelope, a set of firecrackers and a red cloth. Red cloth strips and firecrackers are provided by one-stop company. So are white flowers. But red envelopes should be prepared by yourself.

3. Prepare a one-inch photo, develop a large photo and frame it.

Ask someone else or yourself to take an inch of photos to the photo studio and let it swell. You just have to tell the people in the photo studio that this is for the death of the old man. He knows how to wash and frame you.

This big photo is hung in the mourning hall, and the ashes are not put in the funeral parlour, but used in the ancestral hall. The dutiful son and grandson should take it to the ancestral temple.

Be sure to bring small photos, because small photos are needed on the urn. Many people will forget this photo because of sadness. I've been afraid to forget to bring it.

4. Ask relatives and friends to print the death certificate and cancel the household registration certificate.

The death certificate is generally issued by the village or neighborhood Committee. Then go to the hospital to change the medical death certificate.

The cancellation of the household registration certificate is at the police station, so be sure to take the old man's ID card carefully. I remember my cousin called this card. Thank you for suggesting that this certificate can be called later to avoid some special circumstances)

Proof is very important, because the death certificate will be replaced by the cremation certificate in the funeral home (equivalent to an ID card, which will be used in the future if there are any outstanding things, such as handling the inheritance).

Step 5 prepare a certain amount of cash

This must be remembered, and it is best to prepare several thousand yuan during this time. We have regulations on cash for weddings, funerals and weddings here, but we still have to prepare it separately. My father bought the urn and paid the related expenses when he left. He did not accept WeChat and Alipay, but had to accept cash. I'm fine. I know how to bring thousands of dollars, otherwise I have to go far away, where there is a bank.

6. Sort out some old clothes worn by the old people in advance.

Why do you have to prepare these? The custom here is that when the old man leaves, he should put a layer of clothes under the coffin and put some clothes on the side. But these clothes don't need much.

7. Prepare two coins

Copper coins used to be used, but now one-dollar coins are generally used. I won't say much about where they are used. Some funeral homes will prepare.

8, hand gift money

This is quite special. We ask here to wrap a red envelope, 600 or 800 yuan, wrap it in red paper and put it in the old man's hand. Take the old man away before he goes into the coffin. This money is generally used to raise pigs in our countryside. It is equivalent to the old man leaving his last thoughts at home. I didn't spend the money, and I don't want to spend it. Different people look at their own specific situation.

9. Go home and clean the room.

It's ready at five o'clock in front, that is, to send the old man on his way. How to arrange after getting the ashes depends on the specific situation.

At noon, friends and relatives are usually invited to have dinner together. Smoke, wine (you can't drink it before, but now you can) and towels should be prepared for people.

After dinner, I went home. It is necessary to tidy up the room where the old man once lived. If there are many brothers and sisters, it's best for everyone to be present to tidy up. In case the elderly have private money. When my mother left, there were still several thousand yuan, which were divided equally among several people to avoid disputes in the future.

The room had better be disinfected with alcohol. Throw away everything the old man used. But you can't throw away used clothes. Pack. Because we are going to burn it for the old people in the ancestral hall on March 7th and July 7th.

This is the general situation. It is estimated that there will be differences in different places. It is best to ask these polite local elderly people in advance to avoid being in a hurry.

In cities, once an old man dies at home, he should first report to the community and police station where the household registration is located and explain the situation. They will send a forensic doctor to make a forensic appraisal of the deceased (no treatment shall be given to the deceased before the forensic doctor arrives). After forensic identification, on the one hand, you can inform your relatives and friends, on the other hand, you can contact the funeral home by phone. The funeral home will come as soon as possible according to your request and provide you with all funeral services (including bringing clothes worn by the deceased and setting up a mourning hall)

First, we must make sure that this man is dead. If it is a city, the procedures after the funeral are complicated. It is most convenient to call 120. The hospital is an authoritative unit, and there is no special person in the community police station at night. My father died at home this year, and it has been confirmed that the death was not as big as 120. Afterwards, they directly contacted the car and shroud of the funeral home, but the death certificate after cremation took a lot of trouble and was finally issued by the rear office of the original unit. If you have bought a cemetery in advance, please contact each other. If you haven't bought it yet, prepare a photo as a portrait of the funeral service. You should inform your relatives and friends who can help you at the first time. Many people work together, like motels, to prepare some sacrificial supplies. Don't panic. Everything revolves around being buried underground, keeping everything secret and being sparse. Any negligence is a trivial matter.

In our countryside, it is normal for old people to die at home. Generally, sick old people are hospitalized in hospitals, and there is no therapeutic value in the end. Doctors will give critical notices, while rural elderly people want to die at home when they die. If their children don't really insist that the treatment is ineffective, it is the wish of most old people to go home and die at home when the metropolis is in danger.

When the old people are finally in danger, most of them are local village doctors. When the death is announced, the family will quickly put on the shroud prepared in advance for the dead old man at that moment. Then burn "inverted stickers" and shoot three times, which means to inform the villagers, and then the family kowtows and cries.

If he died before 12 in the afternoon, or even the day before, the old man stayed at home for two days; If he dies after 12 pm, he will stay at home for three days even the next day.

After the old man died, the village deacon knew that he would automatically send someone to the main house to help arrange the funeral, and the main house just took the money.

The afternoon after his death, the old man will be cremated. The person in charge will arrange someone, but he will definitely send someone close.

When you return to the village entrance from the crematorium, the people who follow you should fire their guns to inform their families that they are back. The relatives waiting at home were brought paper money by the wise men and cried sadly. The eldest son of the old man took the urn and welcomed them home.

When the ashes arrived home, my son carefully told me that the ashes were scattered in the coffin in human form, and then the museum was closed by the villagers. At this time, the child shouted his parents' special names, "Father or Mother", and said at the top of his lungs, "You hide". From then on, there is no intersection between yin and yang. After the museum closed, the people did not return and left directly.

On the night after cremation, the old man will be sent to Nanshan, commonly known as "sending the mountain". That is, all relatives will send sedan chairs at night. If we look at the old man's clothes and get on the sedan chair, we will send the old man's soul to Nanshan, which we don't know.

On the third day, all my relatives came to see me off. At noon, all the male guests held family sacrifices in the mourning hall, and the deacon asked people to worship separately in order.

Generally speaking, our family and in-laws are distinguished guests here, so we should look up and worship in the order of relatives and friends.

In the afternoon, the old man was buried. On the way to the funeral, the female guests took the bus, and most of the daughters cried their eyes out, which made people feel distressed. The way the daughter-in-law cries is the focus of everyone's attention, and we can also see the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the old man before his death.

At the funeral, the eldest son held a spirit tablet and an "old basin". After the eldest son-in-law makes the "head sacrifice", he must break the "old basin" once, not twice. Then move the place out to worship relatives. Along the way, relatives have to kowtow to the coffin bearers many times to thank them for their hard work and let the old man reach the cemetery smoothly.

After burial, the girl's son must mourn for three days before going out, and then he can go to the police station to cancel his account.

My father passed away on July 5 this year. Tell me about my experience. As soon as I found out that something was wrong with the old man, I immediately called 120 to inform all my brothers and sisters to come over immediately. The emergency doctor came with a full set of equipment. Plug in the life detector and find no vital signs. The doctor said, "I'm sorry for your loss. The old man passed away. " Then explain to the hospital emergency center and get the death certificate. I sent it to the center. Let me confirm whether the information is correct and get the death certificate after confirmation. Then contact the funeral home. Then go to the office of the funeral home in the city to handle the relevant memorial service and cremation. Then notify all relatives and friends before you die. Determine the number of people, set up banquets and hotels, and arrange for relatives and friends who need accommodation to attend the memorial service.

The old man died alone at home, and no one even knew for a few days! A child is not around, such a thing, whether the government departments consider, lonely old people networking, exchange information! You can also organize the elderly to help others when they have the ability, save working hours, use them whenever they can't move, help each other, stand on their own feet and strive for self-improvement, and drag others down less. Let the society be full of love!

I have experienced such a thing myself! In 2003, my mother suddenly left us in the middle of the night because of a heart attack. It was the next morning when we found out …

This is my eternal pain buried in my heart. I am the only daughter in my family. My father accidentally fell into the lake when I was 10 years old. Since then, I have no father. My mother didn't abandon me, but chose to be strong and raise me alone.

When I was in senior three, I dropped out of school and went to Wenzhou with my sisters in the same village because I really couldn't get into the exam. At that time, I went to a shoe factory.

The first time I lived alone, the first time I left my mother. During that time, I often dreamed about my mother at night. After my first salary, I left 200 yuan for myself and called my mother for the rest …

I could feel my mother's joy at that time, and I knew she was proud of her children's filial piety.

Time passed, and during that time in Wenzhou, I met my husband now. She is from Jingdezhen, Jiangxi. She is a very careful person and is very kind to me. What impressed me most was that my husband, who had been in Myanmar, dared to propose to me in front of so many sisters in the factory.

Soon we got married, and in the second year of marriage, I gave birth to my baby son. Because my mother is not used to city life, I asked her to come and live with me many times, but she refused. My mother said, "There must be a generation gap between the old and the young. It is better to separate. As long as you have time to see me is enough ... "

Although we are not far apart, we really spend little time with our mother every year. All I can do is give my mother as much money as possible.

In the Spring Festival of 2003, my husband and I took our son back to our hometown to celebrate the New Year with our mother and spent the last time with her …

On the second day of the first month, around 9 pm, my husband took his son to bed, and I helped my mother finish the housework and went to bed.

At about 8 o'clock in the morning, my children and I got dressed and got up, only to find that the door at home had not been opened. If my mother is ready to give us porridge at this time, I will go to my mother with doubts. When I arrived at my mother's door, I said to my mother, Mom, I came in and shouted a few words without answering. Then I pushed the door and went in.

But what I saw scared me silly. I saw my mother turning pale and staring at the wall. I was so scared. I called out to my husband. I hurried up and gave my mother a push, and the cold touch broke my heart …

My mother just left me without leaving a word. On the same day, I called my elders at home. After discussion, we decided to invite a doctor to have a look. After the final examination, it was found that there was myocardial infarction caused by heart disease …

After my mother left, I began to deal with my mother's affairs, mainly in the following aspects;

First: notify my mother's family, that is, my uncles and aunts.

Second: contact the funeral team to prepare ice coffins and pipes for mother.

Third: discuss the funeral arrangements and funeral preparations with the elders of the clan.

Fourth: Choose a graveyard for your mother.

My mother was finally buried in my hometown on the eighth day of the first month of 2003, which is less than 10 meter away from my father's grave!

After all these years, I still can't forget the scene when my mother left.

Later, I got a general understanding of the reasons why my mother left, which can be roughly divided into the following two points;

First: long-term work leads to physical weakness.

Second: I have a history of heart disease, but I haven't prepared the relevant first-aid measures (this is also the place where I feel guilty most. As a woman, I should be prepared for my mother).

My mother has been away from me for almost eight years, but I hope that the lesson of blood can attract everyone's attention and make my tragedy not happen again. I sincerely hope that everyone must care about the health of the elderly, especially those with medical history.

Here I want to mainly distinguish whether there is labor insurance. If you have labor insurance, that is, the so-called pension, if you die at home, you must contact the hospital to issue relevant certificates. Or the neighborhood Committee will issue a certificate, and finally the police station will issue a death certificate before cremation. Then you can receive related funeral expenses and pensions. It doesn't matter if there is no labor insurance, such as farmers. When it's finished, just cancel your account at the police station. It doesn't matter if you don't cancel. Last year, my father was a retired worker and died at the age of 88. Not long after, my second aunt was a farmer and died at the age of 79.