How did the family style come from?

Family style, a word that is unfamiliar when spoken. During the Spring Festival, CCTV made a nationwide survey. Unlike the previous sentence "Are you happy?" What is the family style this time? How many questions are there in people's minds. What do Yinchuan people think of "family style"? Our reporter also visited recently.

Adults have something to say.

Family style is just under the beam.

"Speaking of family style, I think of the old man sitting in the hall in the costume drama, and said to his kneeling son," Come, serve by family law ... "Facing the question of what family style is, Chen, 26, who just got married at the end of last year, said with a smile.

The word "family style" is really "old". In view of this, reporters generally follow a sequence from long to young.

"Family style is something we did have at that time." Sun Shiping, a native of Yinchuan, said that he is 65 years old. He even exposed his "ancestral family precepts" to reporters in the form of short messages afterwards: "hard-working, filial, hardworking and diligent; Aboveboard, clear distinction between public and private, be kind to neighbors and others ... "

"I watched the interview on TV, and I think their answers are not true enough." Zhang Jin, a 73-year-old old man from Yinchuan, also has a lot to say. "When I was a child, our family style had strict rules, such as being polite when meeting people, and bowing to our elders before coming home from school; Pay attention to the rules when eating, and make sure that guests or elders move chopsticks first ... But in my opinion, the most important thing is that family style should set an example, just like the old saying' fish begins to stink at the head', family style should first set an example. "

"Well, I admit that I haven't thought much about it before." Under the reporter's questioning, Chen said, "Then I will make one temporarily now-my wife is responsible for beauty and my husband is responsible for making money to support the family." Different from the "dignified" of the older generation, young people's answers to family style are obviously more playful and innovative.

Children and fools tell the truth.

Family style is to love grandma as much as grandpa.

Compared with adults' "think about it", children's answers are simple and lovely.

After 70, Ms. Yu, the mother, took her two babies, aged 10 and 7, to sit around in Ningxia Library and asked her about her understanding of family style. She smiled: "Well, I really can't say it at once." The child next to 10 couldn't help it: "This is the rule at home!" After asking again, the child replied, "The rule in our family is to watch TV after finishing homework ... This is our family style."

"My family style is' democracy'." Pepe, who is doing homework on the chair in the lobby on the second floor of the library of the autonomous region, said that she is 15 years old and is in the third grade. "My sister and I are very obedient children at home, but mom and dad are not the strict type, but we have to ask what our opinions are before we discuss anything, so I think our family style is very easy-going and democratic."

"I don't think our family has a family style." A little different from the previous two children, Tong Xiaoyu of 13 gave a more "direct" answer. "But I think my grandfather did." Xiao Yu added: "Grandpa gets up early every day and goes to the morning market to buy food early. Grandma is not feeling well and wants to come and help. Grandpa just wouldn't let her move and said,' Just sit here and I'll do these things ...' So, I think they are very in love and harmonious. I think it's family style. It's good. "

Bian Xiao interrupted.

Family style is positive support.

What is family style? Here is a definition for reference: it refers to the traditional fashion or style of a family or family, also known as family style. By definition, looking back at these various answers, some of them may appear "unconstrained style" or simply "out of tune". But an important fact is that no one thinks it is no longer needed.

The reporter also heard this view in the interview: "Now, what family style is there?" Mr. Ren, a citizen of Yinchuan who works as a teacher in a middle school, said that in his view, family style is of course a good thing, but under the present conditions, especially in cities, the form of big families in the past has collapsed, and the soil for the growth of family style is quite barren. "Small families live in their own small units, and neighbors don't care about each other. Where can I get the binding force of the past family style? "

However, just like various explanations of family style, family style will naturally take on a new look in the new era. But as long as it is positive, as long as the need for it is still * * * knowledge, everything will become easy. As the most basic unit of social composition, if every family can inherit a good family style, and if every family member can have a sense of family style, those chilling social moral decline may be very important.