Why do some men send messages and girls don't reply? What is the reason?

Hello, brother Kay. My relatives gave me a girl's contact information, and I added her.

I chat with her, and she often needs 18 hours to reply to my message, and sometimes it takes 12 hours to reply to my message.

A few days later, I sent her a message, but she didn't reply. A few days later, she sent me several expression packs.

She said, "I didn't see what I sent."

I called her back when I saw it. She didn't return my calls. Brother Kay, what should I do?

I don't know her state of mind, I want to ask.

Answer:

Do you know what it's like to talk to death? Just like you.

You are not a census taker. Why do you ask so many questions? Even if you want to know the information about that girl, it's only after you introduce yourself and then ask questions.

No one likes to be questioned by an unfamiliar person, which will make the other person feel persecuted, uncomfortable and disgusted.

Today, Brother Kai will teach you how to chat with the girl you just met.

First of all, as I said, you should introduce yourself first, for example:

The first sentence:

Hello, my relative gave me your micro signal. He said that you are a lovely girl, so I want to get to know you.

This sentence first said who introduced you, and praised the girls, which increased the girls' goodwill towards you.

Girls usually respond politely at this time. At this point, you can start to say the second sentence:

I am glad to receive your reply. Let me briefly introduce myself to you.

Then I began to introduce myself. Working in a company, how old you are this year, what you do, and so on.

This kind of introduction shows the girl your sincerity to associate with her. When she wants to know her information in the future, she won't think you are just asking.

Then until you find a common topic, boys should try to avoid asking girls' personal information.

As long as this girl is interested in you, she will naturally tell you the information.

So before two people have established trust and interest, the way boys want to send messages on their own initiative can be like this:

1, off duty. I found a very good restaurant today. I recommend it to you.

This can arouse girls' interest in you.

2. Today is the weekend. Do you have a plan to play? I will go to a place with my friends this week, or I will work overtime this week.

This can show that you are a person who loves to socialize or work.

I went to see a movie recently. I think the evaluation is very high. It is said to be very good.

If the girl says I've heard, you can keep asking, or we can go to see it together and I'll buy a ticket.

Communication is a kind of learning.

You think I'm dumb and can't talk, but it's actually very simple. We are not going to learn any communication routines, but you should ask yourself if you are sincere enough to associate with this girl.

On the premise of ensuring your sincerity, introduce yourself first, don't ask questions, don't put yourself too high, and especially don't brag. If you can do this, most girls will be willing to know you.

After reading this letter today, I wonder if the girls have met the same boys and have the same feelings and experiences. Come and comment in the message area. Tell me what you think as a girl when you see a boy send you such a message.